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Archived questions from: 22 May, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Bad boys verses gentlemen...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - all i have ever come across is players and bad boys that only want me for sex and never treat me right. Recently i started dating a guy and i was genuinely shocked! He wines and dines me, wants to meet up to go out during the day (not just textin...

I don't want my date to meet my parents.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Honestly when I start dating I dont want my girlfriend to meet my parents. I think they are odd. It isn't the girl I am worried about but my parents. How do I make somewhat casual and calm when I bring a girl to my house?...

10 year sexual affair with my cousin...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - My second cousin and I have been having a secret sexual relationship for about ten years now. The first time we had sex is when I was 14 and she was 13. Now I am 24 and she is 23 years old. We usually used birth control (Condoms) but ab...

I'm really upset he lied to me about her liking him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - Ok, so lately I've been looking at my bfs facebook page, and this girl writes on his wall, pretty much every day, with flirty little messages. (Bit of background - she lives in New Zealand, where he grew up, we live in the UK, but moving back to ...

How do I tell mommy and daddy that I'm ready to date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - I am 13 and I think I am ready to start dating. How do I tell my parents?...

The biggest kissing problem.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - My man will not kiss me... do I let him kiss me or do I kiss him and if I kiss him how do I start? Do I look in his eyes and kiss him or do I leen and not look at him? And if I kiss him will it be weird? Do I run away or stay with him? I have ...

My mom will NEVER accept my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - My new boyfriend treats me like a princess!! and i'm sooo happy with him.. we've been talking for about a month and recently made it official last week.. He's perfect.. we're so compatible, we barely fight, he pleases me, anything i wish for he ...

Girlfriend's PMT Stresses Me Out, Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Ok i've just met a wonderful girl, and i'm madly in love with her, i know this because it's diffrent than the feelings i've had with ex gf's, i am 17 and she is 16, shes slept over a few times now, but recently she has come on the PMT it really ...

How can I fool my hunger?

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22 May 2009 (?) - Hello. Ok, well basically I have a very important fancy party in three days and I have been eating non-stop. How can I fool my hunger? I have been drinking plenty of water but i just cant stop eating! Even my bf said I look like I've gained weight a...

How can I deal with her harrassment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - I have been dating someone for a little bit more than six months, we happened to be roomates before we dated and then things got difficult, i saw a side of her i didn't like (a lot of arguing and even physical agressivity). i tried leaving her many ...

Terrified of his kissing me. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - I feel useless as a female because whenever I get close to a bloke I tense up, I have just started to see this amazing guy but everytime he tries to kiss me I end up saying no and pulling away but I am into him in a big way and I want to kiss him ...

He only wants sex but I want more... have I blown my chances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - I'm not sure I have done the right thing. A bit of a long story - me and a guy at work have been flirtng for years and we have both said we like each other - the problem - he only wants "fun" and I want more. We have kissed once, very passionatel...

It was wonderful in the beginning but now it's rubbish. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - I started dating my boyfriend a year ago and in the begining he was lovely he's 18 years older than me and everthing was great and i felt like a princess and that i could finally be with someone who understood me 2 or 3 weeks in i cheated i didnt ...

Should I ask her out again, after she turned me down, or ask someone else out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Im 13 and I like a popular girl in my grade. She turned me down so I thought of going out with girl of my "level". Should I ask the popular girl out again or should I go out with the other girl? ...

Should I try to be cool or just be myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Since the girl I like turned me down my friend wants to make me "cool". A High Schooler on my bus , who is a girl, says to be myself. I dont know what to do be cool or myself. ...

I've never had a girlfriend so I'm struggling to give advice to my friend! Help please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - My friend says he is in love with his ex and now he is allways talking to me about it. I still dont have a girlfriend so I really dont know what to say. I tell him to ask her out or just forget about her. What should he do? ...

He's all I ever think about... am I in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I think I'm in love. How do I know for sure though. I've been seeing this guy for five months. Three months into this whole thing he would tell me that he loved me but I would quickly change the subject because I wanted him to te...

My friend told the whole school about the girl I like!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Im 13 and my friend asked me who I like, I told him and the next day at school he tells everyone! I asked him why he did it and he said it was about reverse physcoligy and that would make her go out with me. He said he'd ask her out for me and when ...

Does feeling a "real" penis make the difference???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - My partner's stopped wearing a condom because we want to start a family. The third time we had intercourse this way I experienced my 1st ever orgasm - it was unmistakable and I really had to cry out with the pleasure. I was just wondering whethe...

Who does he really want...me or my cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - i beleive my bf is in love or likes my own cousin she said sick comments about sleeping with him and he says nothing and now like when we are laid up he wont touch me he turns his back to me im only 17 and my cousin is 20 and hes 21 maybe he wants ...

My crush has a crush on my friend should I forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4642 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - i have a HUGE prob my bestfriend (iya) has a crush on (edward) my crush. Hi Im hazel it started like this in my school theres a new comer its edward he's sooo cute so I told my friend iya about it, then I planned to talk to edward, we hang out a li...

My ex has been continously texting me asking about dates I have been on, why is he so interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - My ex is on his way to being dumped and he hadn't spoke to me for a week and a half and texts me on wednesday night and said he hadn't spoke to me in a while and wanted to know how I was. I replied and he kept texting continuously for 3 hrs and ...

Is 7 years an age difference I should be worried about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm Ashley. I am 19. About two months ago I started dating my boyfriend, to whom is 27. He will be 28 in December. He thinks and talks about our age difference often, and I try to explain to him that its not a big deal and its 2009 that 7 or 8 ...

Dating a guy who shares a room with his so called female "best friend"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - hi! i have been dating mi guy for two months now and the problm is he is staying with a girl in the same room, and when i ask him he says the girl is her best friend and there is nothing that will separate the two of them,its eitheir he introduces ...

I'm bisexual but should I try being in a relationship with a man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - im a bisexual who prefers girls.. i've never fell in love with men (i only "like" them and their bodies) but have loved many women. im in closet..have never been into relationship.. there's this guy who has been chasing me for the past year...he's ...

Gay relationship woes

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - I'm a bisexual man and have been in a relationship with a man for the last seven years, living together for the best part of 6 years. I love him deeply but we have an erratic relationshp and have parted twice because we wanted different things out ...

Is being kissed when you didnt want to be cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Cutting a long story short, i was in a strip club on a stag do recently when a stripper kissed me on the mouth. It was for no longer than 2 or 3 seconds maximum (and probably less). She didn't put her tounge in my mouth and i certainly did not kiss ...

My boyfriend sneaks out of bed to watch porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - Well I know this kind of situation has been bought up on here before, but would feel really appreciative if i could have some answer's personal to me. See the thing is I escaped an abusive relationship with my ex husband, for example controll...

Stressing over the choice between my ex and my current boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - I am making myself ill with stress over my current situation. I was dumped 1 year ago by the love of my life and met someone else very quickly, about 5 months into this new relationship, my ex apologised for his behaviour and told me he still loved ...

10 years platonic relationship..am I wasting my time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - After 10 years in a kind of "platonic" relationship with a woman 40 years younger than I am,I am wondering if i am wasting my time.We are entirely compatible and anticipate meeting once a week plus exchanging E-Mails and phone calls.We love each ...

Should I hold out for a great relationship, or just experiment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - I'm only 16 and I know that's still kinda young but I've only dated 2 guys over the last year. The second lasted quite a while but eventually things just got really messed up between us. It ended back in feb. So I've been single for about 4 months ...

Is she sending a message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Here's the thing. I've been spending a lot of time with a girl, and we've become very close. We've been friends for years, but we've become very close over the past six months or so. She knows I am attracted to her, but she has said in the past ...

Do you think that because I was worried about him he will think I have feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 May 2009 (F) - There´s this guy I have feelings for who is a military stationed somewhere across the country. We met 2 years ago when he did TDY in my town. We kinda clicked since the moment we met, unfortunately he had to leave a week later with no chance f...

Should I keep trying to make this relationship work?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

22 May 2009 (M) - Should I keep trying to make this relationship work? I have known my partner for 9 years. We are in late 30s ealry 40s. We nearly got together twice before but remained close friends and then finally three years ago we did. She had many partners...