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Archived questions from: 24 May, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is this close friend too close?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has been living away from our home for work for most of the past year, I see him once a week now, and he is not really a phone person, so it's short phonecalls only during the week, I've been finding it hard, but when I see him ...

I want to keep her away from my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Me and my best friend just recently confessed to each other and we went on a date yesterday. We have been seeing each other for almost a year now but yesterday was the first time we went on a date. We watched a movie at the mall then after the movie ...

Is it bad if I make out with her boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - So I was dating a guy and we broke up. He has another girl friend and we are just friends even though I still love him more than anything. Last night I was at his bar mitzvah and he pulled me outside and we started making out. I am talking to him ...

What do you think? Is chivalry really dead or do gentlemen still exits?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I am a big fan of classic period dramas and books such as Pride and Prejudice and North and South. I love how women are treated in this era and how men are respectable gentlemen. I know i am not alone in this thought and that many women love ...

Need suggestions on getting over a first love...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - How long did it take to get over your first love? I was with mine for 25 Months and 15 Months on from the Split i still think of him everyday is this normal?? We split up due to him wanting space, there is no one else with him and never has been, ...

I don't want to, but I keep snooping around in his personal things. How do I stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - He's honest and great, but how should i stop being so clingy with my boyfriend and snooping around his phone as well as e-mails? I know this is a big turn off for guys, what should i just know or keep in mind so that i don't have the urge to do ...

I'm having the hardest time talking to my crush and school's about to end! Help...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I've been having the hardest time trying to talk to my crush. Even saying "Hi." feels like the ultimate thing to do. I've liked him since the end of last year. We used to talk and goof around a bit but we were never really friends. But this year, he ...

Dumped him, shouted at him, made him think I'm an idiot and now like him again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I went out with a guy quite a while ago - well a few months. I haven't had a boyfriends since but he's had one girlfriend. When I dumped him a few months ago, he acted really childishly and we had a few big arguments. I said some things I didn't ...

My fiance is acting so strange and I don't know why.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - My fiance has recently started making weird statements and acting bizarrely and I've no idea why. He doesn't appear to be stressed so I can't understand it. He's been saying that his stomach stinks, which sounds weird to me, and also trying to p...

I really don't know what I'm doing in a relationship without a name.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I recently started talking to this guy who is my best friend's school mate. We hit it off really well and finally fell for each other. He told me he more than likes me and that he will wait till I am 100 percent ready and only then will he ...

Family and relationship problems. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - [Moderator note: There are 2 problems here} wow ok i need ALOT of advice, i have no clue what to do on so many things. first off my mom is an alcholic and she drinks like every other day and i cant stand it...she divorced my dad for being a drun...

Extreme opposites...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

24 May 2009 (M) - I am very confused about how I should feel about my GF. She lies to me about little things that don't matter, but it makes me wonder if I can trust her about real issues. For example, she is under my phone plan, so I get details about her phone ...

Boyfriend's ex constantly asks him for things and he's too nice to say no... What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Im seeing this great guy, so kind and caring and we get on so well. He has two children, this was hard but i accepted this, its hard sometimes as we cant spend loads of time together, but the real problem is his ex.....the kids mum, he can't say no ...

How do I show him I really like him without being too forward?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I'm 16 (soon to be 17) dating a 19 year old for nearly a month. We aren't official yet, but it's getting there. The age doesn't concern me, my problem is the fact that I've NEVER been in a relationship before, I've never even kissed a guy. This guy ...

I need more open signs of affection, he is reluctant, how concerned should I be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - So I've had this conversation with my boyfriend--about how I want more demonstrations of love (just simple things--ie; a note on facebook about me, a personal poem, something simple like that..) and how it's grating my nerves to have to ask for that ...

He changed, we broke up, was it the right thing to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend, who is fifteen, just broke up with me a few days ago, right before our year anniversary. He said that I was too emotional and needy, which I probably was, having gone through an extremely tough year. However, the break up came ...

His actions are very strange and secretive, what is the reason?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I met this guy in the internet. He lives in the US and just came to Singapore for a vacation. He was born in Singapore and he usually goes here for a vacation. He told he'll be back in the US but then, he decided to stay and told me it's because of ...

I love you is overrated

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Well with my last few boyfriends, they have always said "I love you" in the first few days of us going out. It really bugged me, and I did kind of love them but it was more of a crush/fancying them at that stage. How can I stop guys I date from ...

Is it true men like the chase?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I met this new guy, we have been dating for 2 weeks, but ive become obsessed, dreaming about him, thinking about him everyday, wanting to speak to him every day (but i dont) as i dont want to scare him off.... im 22 is this normal? im worried im ...

Embarrassed of my parent's addiction.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for a year and we have a great relationship, although I've been keeping something from him. One of my parents is addicted to drugs. I want to tell him as we share everything but I'm afraid he will judge us. I don't kn...

Is it possible that semen could reach my vagina and I could be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - Hey.. I have something bothering me all day and I need some advice.. Yesterday I was with my boyfriend and we were fooling around. I've never had sex, and we were making out. We were naked and I gave him oral sex. He came on his stomach and a bi...

I feel like vomiting when I see them around each other!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I'm in a complicated predicament. So, I was with my boyfriend for a bit over two years, we broke up for a while and he started dating my best friend. This tore me to pieces, it was the worst emotional pain I have ever felt to see them as a couple. ...

Help! I would love to be more than just her friend but am scared if she rejects me I'll lose that friendship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (M) - I am in love with one girl which I had known for 4 years. At the current moment, we are very close friends. I had always wanted to start a relationship with her, however, I got this feeling that she just treats me as a good friend and afraid that ...

Guy asked me out and then disappeared

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - I've been talking to this guy on the internet for about a month now. We get along fine and flirt a lot, we have everything in common. We met once already and he asked me to a movie this weekend. I said yes. The day before we were supposed to go he ...

When does it mean when a guy says he wants to be in a relationship with you but is too busy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - when a guy says he doesn't want you to wait around for him, like if he's busy with finishing school and doesn't have time for a relationship, even though he wants to be in one with you. what does he really mean? guys say this all the time, but in my ...

Am I letting old feelings get in the way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - k... here's the story. Me and this guy have been going out for a while now. He really loves me and i'm not sure if i feel the same way anymore. It is starting to get really boring and he is starting to get annoying sometimes. the only problem is ...

The long run? Or just one thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

24 May 2009 (F) - ok so this is a total mess and i'm writing it on here to get 'advice' NOT 'critiscm' please. im almost 16 by the way (next month) but extremely mature for my age, i look about 18-19 (so people say) anyways that was just for those people that will ...