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Archived questions from: 29 May, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I don't find him very attractive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - hey i have gone on 3 dates with a guy. I enjoy his company. I have never dated properly and i really enjoyed it! He is a real gentleman But i don't find him that attractive and he's not very compatible with my friends. Anyway, last time i ...

How can I prove that I want to be with him and not my ex?

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29 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I got into an agruement just because I told him I still love my ex. We have been together for 3 months, but when I told him he broke up with me. Just 2 months ago he kissed a girl behind my back and he claimed she was a friend and I ...

Do you think he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - I want to know if this guy likes me??? I sit next to him in social studies and we share a table. but he never stays on his side he is always on mine and having his arm touching me or putting his head on my shoulder or something. He puts his arm ...

Is my friend's sister into me and if so, how do I proceed?

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29 May 2009 (M) - (I'm re-posting this cause i didn't get enough feedback last time)Let me set the whole situation up first. Basically, I'm in this situation where I think the sister of basically my tightest homie(closest friend) is feelin me( likes me,lol), but the ...

I'm pregant and want an abortion, but I'm scared to tell my boyfriend

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29 May 2009 (F) - Im 19 years old and took a pregnancy test and it was positive. im not ready to have this child nor would my boyfriend but i just found out 2 days ago and not sure when or how to bring it up let alone tell him. what should i do? I am scared that i...

Ever since I told him I like him, he has stopped talking me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - There's this guy and we're close acquaintances. We know each other from school and we used to be friendly(thought he liked me for a while but something came up). He has a gf. A girlfriend that has no feelings for him whatsoever. I think he just ...

How to make him show some sexual feelings

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29 May 2009 (F) - well let me start...me and my lad have been going out for 3 months now..but there hasn't been any action...we only make out..ha hasn't touched anything and i don't want to be the first one to make the first move...i notice that he's getting hot ...

Are my expectations just too high?

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29 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend passed away 3 years ago and he was my first love, my first everything in fact. We dated for 5 years, so you can imagine how attached I was to him. Now that I've accepted it and a couple years have gone by i'm dating a new guy whom i ...

I let a man use me but wanted him back

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29 May 2009 (F) - I have let a man use me.because i felt so low bout myself thats how he made me feel. And thought i wasnt worth anything else! It puts me in such a negative state of mind! Comments like im with u cos i like to do my bit 4 charity.i feel sorry 4 ...

I'm pretty sure that soon I won't feel anything for him

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29 May 2009 (F) - Okay basically. A guy who's friends with some of my friends added me on facebook about 3 weeks ago and we started talking and got along great. 6 days ago we decided to meet up with two of our other friends (this was mine and his first time meeting)...

For the past weeks he has been rather distant, I think I don't love him any longer but I am afraid to tell him?

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29 May 2009 (F) - Hey :) So I have been with my current boyfriend for about five months now. At first things were AMAZING, we had so much in common and he seemed perfect for me. We would talk for hours on end. He would always tell me how much I loved him, and I loved ...

I'm not happy with his past and thinking of leaving

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29 May 2009 (F) - Do i stay with my boyfriend or leave. my partner is 43 and im 24 and we have just had our first baby together. he has been married before and has 2 children with his ex wife and he also has another child with another women. This women keeps comi...

Stay with the guy who lied to me or marry a person of my parent's choice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Hi..! I am in relationship with this guy since 5 months i.e. from Dec end. We got to know each other through phone and usually communicated through phone and after talking thrice or some more times he proposed me. At that time I hadn't seen him...

Is this relationship doomed?

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29 May 2009 (F) - We have been dating for a month, we got drunk and went to a hotel, had sex, he then had a blackout and cant remember a thing and is so upset as now he thinks i feel used, is this relationship doomed? I dont want to seem like a tart.....but i really ...

How to break-up without breaking a good man's heart

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29 May 2009 (F) - who to choose? how to break up without breakign a good man's heart? 5 months ago in Munich I met a silly, skinny Swiss boy. ok, he's 24 and I'm 22, but still... we laughed, got drunk, kissed, snowball fought, poked, and danced our way into l...

Why is he keeping our relationship a secret from the people closest to him?

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29 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 10 years on and off. We lived together for two years, but then i left because i felt empty. He was hurt, and after i left, i wanted him back. We both live seperately now,but are back together. In the ...

Is it possible to have a girlfriend for that long and fall for someone else?

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29 May 2009 (F) - hello, well i have a really confusing situation that's been bugging me for over a year now!!! last year, i met this amazing guy at uni, i liked him from the first time i saw him staring at me. for the first couple of months, i didnt know him...

Why is he waiting for his ex to agree with the break-up before he can be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - I been dating this guy and he promised to make our relationship official as Boy and girl friend relationship once he have settled with his ex gf. He mentioned break up with his gf and is not picking her call up, but his gf keep on calling his hous...

Infatuated with my instructor - how do I make a move on him?

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29 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I've been going to a certain martial arts class and I find my instructor irresistible. I really want him. What is the best way to make a move (since he is my instructor after all)? ...

My online guy doesn't like hairy guys, and thats exactly what I am!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4047 days ago

29 May 2009 (M) - So, I am in love with this guy who I met online we shared pictures and we talk a lot ( been a year now ..we still talk). It didn't work out and we were just phone friends. Lately he's been hitting on me and told me he would pick me over anyone if he ...

I've given him signals I want him to contact me but all he can do is stare!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - What is he thinking when I am ignoring him or just not paying attention to him...(well I actually am but just not staring directly, but I can see and feel him staring at me when he walked around me... I gave him little notes saying hi and gave him...

He doesn't reply to my texts

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29 May 2009 (F) - hi My name is Vicky. I don't understand guys at all,there is aguy in my English class. He always ask me out, like hang out, having lunch, and shopping today. Some of his friend say he likes me, he tells me everything. But when the classes over, i ...

Thinking a serious relationship? Or not?

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29 May 2009 (F) - What is a guy thinking when he asks a girl to attend a holiday dinner with his family or his mother's birthday party or even go to dinner with him and some of his friends after only one or two dates? Is this a sign that he is interested in a serious ...

I do love him, but I don't trust him, how do I overcome this problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Ok this is a long one, Me and my fiance have been dating for 6 years now and have 2 small boys together.I love him so much and would do anything for him. He has messed up so many times and every time he messes up i feel like a small piece of my be...

On and off relationship, but lately he's been acting a little strange, what's going on?

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29 May 2009 (F) - ok here it goes a big old blurt of worries again lol. ok this dude and me have been on and of since we were 14 and were both 17 turning 18 now. it seems that every so often we get back together then ends ina big to do then the same thing happens ag...

He tells me he cares, but he doesn't think there is any future for us, what is the problem, I am confused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Hiya!! Could someone please help me as I feel so confused! I am 45 and my boyfriend is 50 we have been together for about 3 months now. but have know eachother for about 2 years, We went on holiday for a week and had a great time, Since we got back ...

Have had unprotected sex for 7 years, not pregnant yet, could infertility be the problem?

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29 May 2009 (F) - i'm 19 years old and my boyfriends 28 years old. we've not been trying for a baby but have been having unprotected sex for the past 7 weeks and im not pregnant. of course i am over the moon about it but at the same time im quite worried i could be ...