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Dating: Help and advice

Can you really get to know someone through online, skype, and many weekends (Friday - Sunday/Monday) together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - Alright, I'm trying to figure something out. I know this is a question I have to determine for myself, but it helps me a ton to talk out a question and receive people's input. (like anyone else, I guess). My girlfriend and I are currently i...

Is he still into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - well today is our 10 month anniversary and as we lay together im thinkn he will kiss me or at least touch me but instead he says get out of they way family guy is on smh wat does this mean is he no longer interested in me?...

How can I get hard erections back again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - I am a 16 years old healthy guy, never had any health problems but like 6 months ago i've became sexually active. I had sex with a bigger woman (1 night stand) we were drunk and on the beach.. it was winter so it was cold. When i penetrated here i ...

Will he realise he loves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. I know for sure that i love him, i never question that. But recently he told me he doesnt think he loves me. He said he's trying to. The way he acts around me makes me think he does, spending ...

How do I answer his email...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - My BF sent me this email and i don't know what to answer him, he stop talking to me 10 days ago without any reason and today he sent me this email. He works in Iraq as a project manager, i work in a neighboring country from Iraq so i do understa...

I don't want to keep on trying, I've had enough!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - Well, that's it. I am starting to think that there are some people that aren't supposed to have luck with stupid love. I am really done in. Every day I wake up hoping to have a nice day, and at night I understand that it isnt possible for me. After ...

We've never ever had amazing sex and I really want him to give me an orgasm. Any ideas??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I'm 19 and I've been with my boyfriend for a few years and Ii have never had an orgasm. I was quite unexpirenced when we got together but I find myself having fantasies that involve women and I really want to spice things up with our sex life ...

How can I like myself again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and I'm soo in love with him, but everything's getting me down lately and he's given up a lot for me and we're getting back on track and things are getting good with him again, Ii just worry I'm not ...

That tingling sensation...

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6 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 21 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now. We've recently decided to have sex and I was wondering what the tingling sensation is that I get in my toes sometimes when we're having sex. ...

Always liking a guy who will reject me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I always end up fancying guys who aren't interested me... or guys who have a girlfriend or possible girlfriend, or guys who don't see like, or liking a guy who is out my league etc. How do I find a guy who is in my league, a guy who isn't full of ...

We just seemed to drift apart... why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - I'm just coming out of a long 9 month relationship with this girl. Everything was going great for a long time. Until recently we've had tough schedules and just weren't able to see each other that often. By the time we split up, it had been 2 months ...

I'm a serial cheater and can't help it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I cheat but I don't feel like one. I am in a steady relationship with my boyfriend of 8 months, and we are great together, the connection is intense. The level of sex is, however, nowhere near enough to satisfy me. We have sex maybe once a wee...

Can you love somone without having the hots for them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - I have a dilemma. Can you be in love with someone but not have a strong sexual desire to be with them? I've been dating this girl for about 5 months and i'm crazy about her...and I know she's crazy about me. Problem is, she told me about a ...

I think I love him, but he blows hot/cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I can't stop thinking about this guy, seriously 24/7. I think Im in love with him, I don't get the feeling he feels very strongly for me. He blows hot and cold, one minute wanting to see me all the time, then i don't hear anything from him. We have ...

The rules have changed, I'm the pursuer, and not sure how to go about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - There's a guy who Ive known for about 5 years lets just say his name is Jon. Jon is a great guy. When I first met him we were talking and hanging out together almost all the time, very innocent fun, but at the same time I was in a failing ...

Teen love? What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Ok so I'm 15 bought to be 16.. I have been in many relashionships before untill this past .. I fell in love with a 18 year old , he means so much to me .. We were really good for like 3 months happy , laughing , etc ... Untill he started hanging ...

When is "we were on a break" really ok?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for 1 year. Recently he has been acting like a jerk and the final straw was when he stayed out all night drinking with "friends". I broke it off with him and for 1 week we did not talk. He would call my other friends ...

Should I ask him out or is it worth possibly making our friendship weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - ive been best friends with this person for 2 years and i really fancy him! he has started to act differently around me and i dont know if i should just ask him out because we will still be best friends if he says no. do you think i should?! help ...

My girlfriend asked if she can "share" me with her step-mother!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - Ok, I know how this is going to sound but I swear that it's the 100% God's honest truth. My girlfriend, who is 23 years old, lives with her step mother who was widowed a few years ago. I've been seeing my girlfriend for about six months. I get on ...

Sex just doesn't interest me at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Well ever since i lost my viginity at 16 nothing grand has ever happened to me! To get to the point i have never had an orgasm at least i dont think so! Sex makes me more depressed than anything:( My boyfriend is very supportive but sometimes i ...

Trying so hard to get my boyfriend in the mood for sex and nothing is working!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Sometimes I try so hard to get my boyfriend in the mood for sex, and it never seems to work. Sometimes he'll tell me to wait till later or brush it off. We don't have sex often and when we do it seems I'm the one who is starting it up. Does anyone ...

I was so sure he liked me then he met someone else on holiday!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Dear All, Having been in a stormy on and off relationship for two and a half years I finally cracked and joined a dating agency. I waited some months before going on a first date. The guy was stunning, however I kept my wits about me and played it...

Moving in together but he wont pay his share!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are moving in together at the start of next month. Before this, my boyfriend was renting a room at a fully furnished house, so he hasn't had to buy any furniture since he started living alone. I bought most the essential furniture ...

We only argue about my breasts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we have been living together for the past 5 months. Since we began living together, he has started to get very upset when I wear strappy tops or anything that shows any sin around my ne...

Am I overreacting? He was texting his Ex while we were out for dinner!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Someone please tell me I'm not crazy. I'm ruining my relationship with a man I'm truly in love with. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We live together and spend a lot of time together. For some reason lately I've been feeling ...

Should we continue using condoms after our little incident?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - We've been abstaining from sex since from the beginning of our relationship,thats 8 months ago.2 weeks we finaly did it and wow it was marveleous,not after all this waiting.We not regreting it and concluded to do it more often.Here's the ...

Is it better to have the little he gives to me or nothing at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I met this guy a little over a year ago, we were together without the boyfriend/girlfriend titles and it wasn't until recently that I found out why. He's got a fiance! I had suspicions about it the whole time because she'd always send me messages ...

One night stand can turn into a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - a few months ago i had this really hot one night stand with this guy he called me 6 times over the next week. i blew him off made up stupid excuses and stuff like that. so lastnight my recently dumped friend made me go out. this one of my exs was ...

When is enough really enough?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and I want to know if what I'm feeling is just paranoia or is it real? My boyfriend is a tattoo artist and he's been going to clients houses to work. I get very "freaked out" by this because he ...

Its scary to start a relationship after all this time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - i have been single for 61/2 months. i was married for 22 yrs. to my first bf. one month ago i met this wonderful man, we get along really well he has already told me he love me and i feel the same way about him. do you think this is poss. it's scary ...

She is so withdrawn and it worries me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - There is a girl Ive been with for a few months now. I have never met anyone like her. Theres no way to describe it but I love her. I assure you its not infatuation, far from it. I think the feelings are reciprocrated because shes told me she love...

Is it so strange to fall in love with someone so much older?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Hi all, I got engaged last week to my boyfriend. He is 25 years older than me. he is the kindest and sweetest guy i have ever met. I have no doubt at all about him and we are planning to get married in october. The problem is i am getting al...

Suggestions of schedule for 2 busy people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (?) - Hello! Thanks in advance for the help! I was wondering what people might suggest for a relationship between two excessively busy people (like, possibly unhealthily...). How can we make time to be together? Thanks a bunch! -GG...

He is so sleazy so why am I still attracted to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I have known this guy for about a year now and we ended up kissing one night when we first me. He wanted to have sex but I said no and left. I stayed friends with him because we have mutual friends and found out that he sleeps around a lot. At 23, ...

How do I handle her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend that I have been dating for 8 months is starting to drive me crazy. She thinks that whenever there is something wrong its always about her. I know she loves me and i feel the same with her but it seems as though she is trying to get on ...

I have a feeling he is cheating again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and we have 2 kids he have cheated on me at least 5 times and treat me like i'm nothing it hurt me the way he talk to me and treat me we always have to have his friend with us every where we and ...

She's like a roller coaster

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - Alright, so I was with my ex girlfriend for around a year(my longest relationship) and all was perfect for the whole beginning. She always told me how much she loved me, how I was perfect, how she always wanted to be with me, etc. For a while I ...

How do we get the pill for my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for just short of a year now. We are both sixteen and live in the US. We were both virgins before we started dating and just had our first time a while back. We had talked about it before and bought condoms and ...

Good boy versus excitement?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

6 May 2009 (?) - There's two guys i'm seeing. One who is loyal, dependable and a gentleman. The other is exciting, unpredictable and I'm in love with him, and i think about him when i'm with the other man. Why type is the best to be with? ...

Love seems to be a mystery to me at the moment.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Hiya I need help please! Love seems to be a mystery to me at the moment. I broke up with my ex-boyfriend of a year five months ago, and still mulling over why we actually parted ways. We are still fantastic friends but he wants me back- for good, ...

What are the chances he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - There is this guy that I really like. He acts like he likes me, but he is shy. I keep telling myself he doesn't like me and I've been trying to get over him and forget about him. He is about 6'0 tall and he is average build. He's not chubby at all, ...

Letter To My Ex: Send or Not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

6 May 2009 (?) - Is this a good note to send to an ex? Or is it too involved? All perspectives welcome here. Like, guys would you send this...and girls, would this be a note that warmed your heart or freaked you out? Names are all made up... ~ Marie, I'...

Caught between two guys

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - ok here would be my problem, i've been dating this guy for a week.. and now im starting to think this is just a friend kind of thing. and i don't wanna hurt him because i'm afraid that he'll be mad and that he won't wanna be just friends afterwards. ...

Am I just paranoid? OR is she preparing to dump me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

6 May 2009 (M) - Alright.. so me an my gf have been going out for almost 2 months now, and im not sure whether this is paranoia or what. so ive previously had bad relationships, all of them ending with me getting dumped. but this relationship is so much different, ...

If he doesn't want to continue, why doesn't he say so?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - I just need help with this situation because I don’t know if I’m being paranoid or what. I’m 23, have never really had a proper relationship, so I don’t really know what’s considered normal, acceptable, etc. I’ve ‘dated’ guys in the past but it ...

How can we show are parents that we want to take resposibility for our mistake and be good parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

6 May 2009 (F) - Hi aunts, I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is 19. We have been dating for almost 3 years now and I love him a lot. We both are normally very careful but I accidently missed a few birth control pills and since we are faithful to each other we ...