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Archived questions from: 30 May, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I get rid of this guy before my bf gets out of jail?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - The guy i've been friends with really wants to have sex with which is my weakness but i have already told him i dont wanna have sex with him. I've tried ignore his calls and avoid him. Some how he always finds me. When my boyfriend gets out of jail, ...

Is he just afraid of committment or does he only want sex?

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30 May 2009 (F) - Ok so I've gotten into a real mess recently because I've fallen in love with my ex boyfriends best friend. We have been friends for over four years, and about 8 months ago finally took our friendship to the next level after I had broken up with my ...

I made about every mistake possible! Can I save this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - I met the woman of my dreams and turned something special into a mess. I admit not only is she the first woman I've ever been in love with, but the first I've ever even gone out with. We just seemed so perfect together. Yet looking back I r...

Did I give him too much space..has he lost interest??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend (both 19) have been together nearly 5 years now, we're engaged and are usually fine but lately he's been talking and acting like he wants a different 'path of life' to go down. We're usually the typically 'cute couple' who ...

I need insight as to why my life is like this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Why is my life this way? Hi! I must admit I have never really been lucky in love although I am quite good looking with a decent enough figure. To start with I didn't want to lose my virginity until I was 30 and then the guy turned out to be a wrong ...

In love, yet we can't seem to make it work, due to clashes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of two years have had our ups and downs. Everytime things go well in our individual lives [ie: get out of debt, decide to quit bad habits] we work so well together, and I can see a definite future for us. The problem is, when we are ...

Boyfriend getting more immature and selfish

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I need to know what is going on with my relationship at the minute. We have been going out for a year and three months and over that last couple of months thisngs have changed. My boyfriend seems too be getting more and more immature and sel...

Should I ignore him eyeing up other women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have a new partner, every time we are out, i notice him ogling other women who are younger, and thinner. He says he finds me gorgeous and attractive. So why does he do it? last night he spent all evening eyeing up women, and practically...

How do I turn them down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I need help on how to turn guys down. I'm single, have been for a while, just waiting for the RIGHT guy. I made myself a promise that the next guy I'm with, will be the last guy. Here is my problem, when I'm hanging out, I always get guys I'm not...

Does he really want me or her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have a friend who lives long distance. When he moves to my town he always breaks up with his girlfriend to date me, but when he moves home he gets back together with her. He hasn't told me about her but he is from a very small town so I hear about ...

How do I ask him out? I don't want to ask others for help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I need some advise, there is this guy at work who I find attractive and we've briefly spoken to one another. I'd like to get to know him better but its difficult as I don't have an opportunity to chat to him. How shall I show that I'm inte...

Why do women like bad boys? Because they treat them badly?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - I like to think of myself as a nice guy. I enjoy breaking the myth that nice guys finish last, I'm well off, good at my job, phyisically fit and an acomplished sportsman. I have however fallen flat on my face when it comes to dating. Women just are ...

In need of romantic inspiration!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Hi there. I am currently single, and enjoying my life. I am doing quite a lot of dating, and getting to know different men in order to figure out what i want. I came out of a 5 year relationship last year, as i just didnt feel fufilled enough. ...

Why does he keep going back and forth and not just choose one of us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - [Moderator's note: Please concentrate all the details in one question next time. It is harder to give accurate opinions on pieces of a fragmented question.] Help my mother is making me insecure. My mom doesn't like my boyfriend and she always says ...

Confused about my feelings for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Alright so I started going to a new church a little over a month ago and I made friends with a lot of people there. There's this one guy that I got along with very well, we have a lot in common and he's like the male version of me. We like the same ...

She wants a break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - Ok so here's the rub, I'm a male 6 - 7 years older than his ...girlfriend? It's complicated. She recently decided that she wanted to take a break from the relationship because she constantly feels like a bad person due to the fact I'm making most ...

She likes me as a friend, or she loves me but isn't sure??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - Hello everyone :) I got a wicked situation right here. I fell in love with a girl I knew 2 months ago. There are a few things that are pretty weird. Sche ist the ex and first girlfriend of my life-time best friend (we know us since he was born, just ...

I feel abandoned for wanting a serious relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - So tonight my boyfriend and I broke up, but I'm confused about the whole situation. Over the whole of our relationship he's sort of imposed his ideas (not living together / not wanting children / not wanting to plan for the future etc) and I pretty ...