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New to the dating thing. Should I meet him for lunch?

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Question - (11 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Help! Should I meet him for lunch? My boyfriend is in the area..and he text me this morning to meet him for lunch. He's used to buying food from the dollar menu during the week and on weekends we really splurge. He does pay for pretty much all our nights out.

So, he says 'I'll be around your area so you can treat me to a 99 cent lunch.'

Also, he wanted me to come over tonight after class for a quickie. Is that normal in a relationship? Sorry, I'm new to the whole dating..

The last thing is..he keeps saying he wants me to see the wild side of me...and hasn't seen it yet. Should I just put it all together and meet him for both during lunch? Or do I have to play a little hard to get. We've already had sex, many times. Just asking if this is normal.

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (11 March 2009):

jessica04 agony auntIf you're just looking to have a fun, laid back relationship, then go for it and get yours! :-)

My BF and I often fit in a quickie during the day, since our quality time is spent over weekends. And we live off of ramen noodles and other cheap foods.

Just make sure that if you are also wanting quiet, intimate time, he is willing to give it to you as well.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntGo for it!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009):

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I'm thinking of just surprising him and telling him 'get the food and I'll meet you somewhere'..I figure just do both. Haha. Good idea, or not?!?

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