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writes:I've been with my lovely boyfriend for a little while now, and the other night.. I think he may have said that he loved me, but I really dont know if he did or not and now im scared that if he did say that, that he wont say it again due to my lack of acknowledgement. Basically I don't know whether he did say that or not caus it was between kisses, was said very quietly and the music was playing loud. I guess it could've easily been 'I want you' but I don't know, I didn't want to ruin the moment either by saying 'what? Say that again?' also cos that could've easily come across as a more 'what the hell' kind of way. If he really did say he loved me i'm freakin that he'll be scared to say it again though :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys :D i've got something special planned for monday night, so i'll see what happens huh :) x
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reader, wonderingcat +, writes (11 March 2009):
 How sweet. My bet is, he did say it. The L word is not something that you easily "mis-heard" :-)
Two suggestions:
(a) the next time you are together, give him that smile that always melt his heart and say your own L word to him, then just kiss him very lightly on the lips then just hug him,
(b) look him in the eye sweetly and say "I love you" and then smile
Weel, a and b are actually the same, isnt it? :-)
If you are not in a rush to hear him say the word, or do not want to "scare him away", then let's just wait until he says it again. The next time you do something that you know he loves very much about you, like that smile that melts his heart, ... he wil want to say it out loud to you!
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (11 March 2009):
 He'll say it again, if he said it in a muffled kind of way when the music was on he probably didn't want you to hear anyway.
Sometimes people want to tell their partner that they love them but not actually let them hear it as they are scared of the response.
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