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*oohbaby09
writes:Dear whomever, I'm 18 years old and me and my boyfriend has been together for 1year and 2months and we have been trying to get pregnant since we was together for 6 months.....the only thing about is we haven't gotten pregnant...he smokes weed a lot and we think that is the biggest problem of us not getting pregnant.....we really want a child together and have our plan together and money set aside....should he quit smokin for awhile so his sperm can get healthier.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): Apparantly not many people on this board can understand what you are asking, so I will give you some tips to help you get pregnant.
First make sure you are no longer drinking alchohol or smoking. Second buy an ovulation kit, it will tell you exactly when you have an LH surge and are the most fertil. If this still does not work try using progesterone cream, this will up fertility and increase the odds of you getting pregnant.
Please have your man quit smoking weed! It doesn't affect your ability to getting pregnant, but it does raise the risk of you having a down syndrome baby or baby with spina bifida.
Hope this has helped!
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reader, Dalmatian +, writes (11 March 2009):
Congratulation for deciding you want a baby. They arealways worth the effort and you are old enough to haveone. You will not regret your wonderful decision. Hissmoking weed will have little effect on getting pregnant.However, you must remain drug and alcohol free with agood well balanced diet. Keep trying and let us knowwhen you test positive for pregnancy. Good Luck !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): i think you guys havent thought this through at all
emotionally, financially.. in every way
wait a long time!! a child is a MASSIVE decision and your VERY young yet
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (11 March 2009):
 See you doubters...God does exist.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): I cannot see any valid excuse why kids come before marriage.
Its not about morality or religion judgments, it's just about good sense. If your relationship and finances can't even handle a wedding then you're crazy to think it can handle kids.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (11 March 2009):
 YES he should quit smoking of any description! And save up for an engagement ring! You are telling me that this Pot head, wants to be the father to your children and he hasn't even committed to you yet! I'm not saying that hope that he is infertile, but it may slow you down from wasting your youth!
this isn't the first time I've seen girls say their man is ready and will stand by her here's an example from to day, one of many we read about everyday: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-do-guys-get-you-pregnant-and-leave.html
Your 18 live your life, why have a child when you are still just a kid yourself?
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