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writes:Hi guys,So, one night i was out with my fiance and we bumped into our gym crew in a club. My fiance was so drunk that night i was really embarrassed and let him do his own thing. My gym instructor (who's female) was stood in the corner moving to the music a little but looked upset so i went and danced with her. We got talking and she was upset her uncle had passed away so i spent time with her trying to take her mind off things and cheer her up. She then turned to me and said 'I think you're bum looks awesome in those leggins.' and winked. She is always really happy to see me in dance classes and her face just lights up when she sees me. she also walks infront of me in the class to demonstrate to me what she's doing, grinding her hips infront of me(although i know the routines without even looking at her!!) I've always been open about people's sexuality but i think mine's starting to change too cuz i quite like her!!! She's always happy and smiley and is really cute and attractive. I don't know whether it's just my relationship with my man is having struggles or what but i don't know what's going on!!! I love my fiance but my eye for women is starting to change. Am i bisexual?
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reader, crimson_kiss  +, writes (11 March 2009):
 Then maybe its also time to have a talk with the instructor as well. Tell her that you have noticed these things and would like clarification. At least you will know where you stand!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWill do thanks for the advice but do you think I'm reading too far into it with my gym instructor???
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reader, crimson_kiss +, writes (11 March 2009):
Well, sweetie, I think you might have just answered your own question. You could be curious too. Have a talk with your boyfriend and explain it just like you did here. Tell him that you are satisfied with him, but are interested in exploring what it would be like with a woman. He might understand and help nurture that part of you. Don't keep it a secret, however, because one day it will come out and then it will be a huge trust issue between you and him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm very much attracted to my gym instructor so i must be!! But do i tell my fiance this or not? I don't want him thinking I'm not satisfied with him or anything
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reader, crimson_kiss +, writes (11 March 2009):
This question is real easy to answer. Look inside yourself and ask this question....Am I sexually aroused by MEN as well as WOMEN? If the answer is Yes, then you could be more than just curious, you could very well be Bi_sexual in nature.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (11 March 2009):
 You could be, it doesn't matter, why use labels if you want a relationship with a woman go for it!
I think people get to hung up on trying to label their sexual orientation instead of being happy, trying new things and not worrying about it.
Explore your sexuality, don't pin labels to yourself and enjoy life!
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