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writes:How do a guy know when a lady claims she is in love him and wat trick wil d guy use 2 proof her. Cos one of my g.fs is claiming she doesent sleep at nite bcos of me which i doubt. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): Receiving the expression of love can result in full of doubts, especially when you doubt yourself. Indeed, we can never truly know how the other feels, but you either give them the benefit of the doubt or you continue to doubt to your misery. If you must trick your lover into proving herself, then know you're already 'tricking' yourself into believing she isn't what she claims. Do you really want to draw fire into such frail human relationships? Can you not look pass this uncertainty and simply go with the flow?Trust is built through time and experiences. Let her try to prove herself on her own terms. Enforcing what she 'should' do will only make things more artificial.
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reader, sugar_sugar  +, writes (11 March 2009):
 One of your girlfriends? How many are there?Why are you suspicious that she doesn't love you? There are no tricks to proving someone is in love with you, it is not necessary.You need to trust the other person enough, and value yourself enough to believe the person is in love with you.If you don't have that trust and belief in their feelings, then you don't have much.
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