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writes:I was here last year, and now I'm back coz I really have this big problem.In my previous questions, I have confessed my identity question if i am a "gay" or merely bisexual. And i have made a big mistake in my life of engaging myself in a heterosexual relationship with a girl without solving my personal identity issues first. From the moment that we became "us", I have nailed in my mind that I am a bisexual and not gay. And for the six months that our relationship has gone through, we have no serious fights at all and I think i have handled the relationship well. thoughh now, I am confused if I can really handle the relationship for the rest of my life. I'm now facing the same identity issues again because I really can't foresee myself this way. I am afraid and hesitant in kissing her and showing her my love. I do i love her and I care for her but intimately, i can't afford to have it the normal way. I know I love her and I am sure she loves me wioth her life. But now, what should I do? Should I continue this relationship even if there is no assurance of a happy ending? How can I really solve the personal identity issues I am facing? Please, Help me! I'm badly in need of answers.
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reader, SlackersACE1  +, writes (11 March 2009):
Lemmie say this bruddah, gay straight both or niether, NO RELATIONSHIP IS PERFECT. No one automatically gets a happy ending. It might be rough going through this, but if she loves you and you love her, you always have someone to help you out. Besides, it might not be none to traditional, but if it doesn't change how you feel about each other, you'll be ok. If it does, it might be time to move on. We're all rootin for you bro, good luck.
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