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*ammyJo92
writes: i have the most loving amazing perfect boyfriend anyone could ask for and we have been though so much, i really comftable around him and he treats me like his little princess but the thing is i snapp at him for no reason i cause agruements when i shouldnt and i finsh him for no reason i hate it so much and he dosent derseve it in the whole year and 3months we been together we havent had a real agruement its me snapping he buys me everything i want and he treats me to clothes,cinema,bowling. its like im scared. (My ex boyfriend was a absuive person he let me down and i dint have no confindence)it upsets him and it upsets me, i end up in tears after when hes gone because i feel so bad is they anyway to stop this or should i just try and stop it myself? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, SammyJo92 +, writes (12 March 2009):
SammyJo92 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim not sure, i snapp when he annoys me and he could say a joke which i dont find funny and its aout me and i cause an agruement if you get me?
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (12 March 2009):
When you feel yourself about to argue or nag at him stop and evaluate why you are doing it. Is there something you want him to do to make it better? Tell him how you feel! Sit down and talk to him, agree before you start that there will be no arguing! I'm in exactly the same situation. What are the types of things you argue about? Do you think it could be because you have insecurities? Xx
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