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Archived questions from: June, 2016 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

How do I seem more open so he could approach me one more time? How do I get rid of my shyness and nervousness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

30 June 2016 (F) - Okay so I've been going to this new gym for weeks, and a week go, a guy at the gym saw me doing a workout incorrectly, and he came to me and told me how to do it right, and since then, I started to notice him. I've seen him giving a weird glance to ...

I'd like to get more serious, should I tell him how I feel? Or just roll with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

30 June 2016 (F) - Last August I got with a guy for he first time, I went back to school and he went to college I didn't think much of it until I bumped into him a few weeks later at a party and he approached me and we chatted for a while, both of us were sober. Two ...

I have fallen madly, hotly in love with my sister in law

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

30 June 2016 (M) - I have completely fell for my sister-in-law , she even told her cousin I have the major hots for her and word for word her cousin came and told me , my brother has not done anything with her sense October last year and she is so grandly hot and it ...

Should I pursue things further with him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

30 June 2016 (F) - I have been interested in guy who works the next building from mine.He's always friendly and was giving off subtle signs of interest. I finally gave him my number and told him to call/text sometime.He said sure.Then I ran into him the next day and ...

Engaged to be married man after my friend at work. Is this now a competition?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

29 June 2016 (M) - There's a guy at work who is jealous I'm friends with this female. The problem is he's very full of himself and tries to ruin moments I have with her, when I talk to her. To my horror, I found out he is friends with her on facebook today, I don't kn...

Based on my observations, does my crush have a boyfriend? Or am I getting it wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3066 days ago

29 June 2016 (M) - I am friends with a female who ive got a crush on at work. I really like her, and she is a kind and friendly person with a beautiful face. We talk now and then to each other and say the odd hello how are you, as we don't get a chance to talk muc...

I love some who I can't have. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - What do you do when you've fallen for a guy who just ^^^ks with your head? Okay so one of my best friends a while ago we admitted we liked one another, but not wanting to jeopardize the friendship we agreed to keep things normal. Well that didn't ...

Should I try to get closer to him once more? I have a major crush on this guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - I'm a young lady who has never been in a relationship. I'm the type of girl most guys in my neighborhood would describe as difficult and not easy going. I'm very humble and care for people but when it comes to these guys asking me out, I become v...

Is it wrong to sleep with a distant cousin? In my culture some disapprove of this.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

28 June 2016 (M) - Is it wrong to sleep with distant cousin? Not even real distant cousin. Its just that both of our family have same family name. I hate when all of my and their family meets like( cousin family) Also in our culture it is okay to Marry first co...

Should I ask him why he acts all giddy around me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3066 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - People tend to think i'm a teen still in high school, but i'm a grown adult woman and well the city bus driver is sexxi as ever. Two days ago he did a 360 degree turn to look me directly in my eyes just smiling his azz off and he was like “hey litt...

How do I get over the desire I feel for my cousin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - I've been in relationships before. Once married and now divorced. But I've never felt what i feel for my cousin. He is my uncle's son. We've seen each other twice during our childhood. But now, he is this accomplished man who's stirring this wa...

How do I suppress my attraction toward him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

27 June 2016 (M) - I am going through somewhat a confusing moment in life. I find myself attracted to my best friend who may be asexual. The problem is I don't think it is mutual. He's never dated anyone ever nor expressed interest in anyone. He does know I am gay, ...

The guy I like has a best friend who likes me. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3068 days ago

26 June 2016 (F) - So basically I like a guy on my college course however I am not good at letting him know this for instance I accidentally kneed him in the face when he was trying to pick me up. So I would love to try to get with him. However then there is his best...

I'm not crazy .... am I?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

26 June 2016 (M) - Hey everyone, I will keep this short and sweet (I am looking for a volume of answers to gauge what is deemed as acceptable by all) About six weeks ago I started chatting to a girl on Tinder, lovely bloody thing she is... We live 350kms apart, sh...

Is there such a thing as relationship anxiety? How do I manage this anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I've had horrible experiences with exes. My first love cheated on me twice and both times he choose the other girl over me. That in a sense kind of left me emotionally scarred and since then I haven't had a relationship last more than a couple o...

She rejected my invitation. I still want to be friends. How do I keep things light when I see her again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

24 June 2016 (M) - Hello agony aunts So this week I asked a female friend of mine if she wanted to meet for a coffee sometime and I mentioned we don't get opportunities to talk at work with our different schedules. Which is true as we don't do, anyway to cut ...

Does he feel rejected? I'd like to know, how can this be fixed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I have a weird situation and need opinions please.. Talked to this guy online, Skype, phone for three years(I know I know "you never met him")... But it was budding pen pals to friends to romantic interest. There was a possibility of s...

What's your opinion of age gaps? Does he really like me? Or does he have a different motive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - Okay so first.. What's your opinion on age gaps?? What's to big of an age gap? There is a guy at my work ( I work in a factory) who works second shift while I work first. He is 12 years older than I am. When I very first started working there he...

Is rejection good or bad? How does one accept and deal with rejection?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

24 June 2016 (M) - I asked a female who is beautiful from work on social media if she fancied meeting me for a coffee to get to know me better. This was today, we are good friends on social media, and I decided the time was right to ask her and to seize the day. And...

I like him , how can I show him this ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

22 June 2016 (F) - Hey everyone , Theres a guy i like and want to have a relationship with him . How can i let him know this without coming across desperate ? ive messaged him last night asking how he is , no reply as yet but i dont expect him to drop everything to ...

Being bullied by boss at work, female I talk to now and then and issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

22 June 2016 (M) - I have a job and love it and i've made a few friends which has been good for me in terms of confidence as it's helped. I say hi now and then to a female I'm friends with, we don't speak much as time is very limited with her job and mine. Asked if ...

Help! What can I say? I'm a gay female being set up at work ! I'm scared and unsure what to do.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Im a single GAY female over 40 and today at work as I walked in tea room I overheard her talking to another manager about setting me up with a 26 yr old asian guy who used to work with us and who likes me! And how I am " over 40" The other mana...

Why would he take my number?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - I gave my number to guy that I liked for a while now and told him to text me sometime..He said sure but when I saw him the next day, he made up some bs about how he broke his phone amd lost my number. I took that as polite brush off and decide to ...

I'm not sure if I should tell my friend I like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2675 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Hi this is probably going to be a long post but I'm not sure if I should tell my friend that I like her. It started when we were having a girls night and we both mentionned how we were both bisexual but hadnt ever kissed a girl in a non-platonic w...

My best guy friend told me he has feelings for me, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3066 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Hey, so I'm having an issue with my best guy friend... I'll briefly explain my situation, He and I have been friends for about 3 years now. We actually met at my college, we became friends through a really odd circumstance where we just used to ...

Is it possible to have a friendship with this guy but also raise my concerns as a means to support him over issues that seem concerning to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

19 June 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid...I'm strongly attracted to a single guy but I get intense feelings of concern/worry about his well-being and I worry that I'm going to end up revealing my concerns and he will cut me out of his life because he hates it when people worry ...

She's giving me mixed signals. Does she like ? Is she being genuine?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

19 June 2016 (M) - While I was at work, I noticed that a female has taken a shine to me, I don't know if I read into the wrong or she genuinely liked me. I've not asked her out, but I'm thinking of doing and im not sure what to do for the best. While I was making m...

How do I stop ending up with girls who ONLY want attention?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

18 June 2016 (M) - How do I stop ending up with girls who ONLY want attention? The earlier posts are EXACTLY what I keep running into! They get all flirty, talk to me for hours, text me cute things all day and when we finally have sex or try to, they say I'm ONLY in ...

I'm struggling with the right words to use in an email to tell her how much I like her. What would be the best way to do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3066 days ago

18 June 2016 (M) - I'm an autistic male and find it hard to communicate with people and make friends and it's hard for me to write an email to someone, as it comes out as jumbled crap, as I've so many words in my head and when I write it out it comes out much worse as ...

How do I meet a woman who is accepting of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

17 June 2016 (M) - I'm 30, male, and from the United Kingdom. I have Asperger's Syndrome - but it isn't the main issue here, the main issue is dating and my sexuality. I am mostly attracted to women, but have some attraction to men [but it is less important th...

Crush on shy girl at work. Should I issue invitations to attend my birthday and include her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

16 June 2016 (M) - Next year will be my birthday. I've made friends at work and won people over, when I first started working at a factory where I live I didn't think I would. As at school I was completely friendless and had no one I could rely on. Does this soun...

Is it wrong to sleep with my sister's boyfriend's best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

16 June 2016 (F) - I have been single for the last year epically failing with guys and dating.. I can never get past first kiss.. And for a girl with a high sex drive that can be pretty frustrating!! Last night we all went out to celebrate my sister's boyfrie...

Am I more than a close friend to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

16 June 2016 (F) - I have a male friend but I don't know if he sees me as more? So far he has told me deep trauma from his past, he has went out of his way to introduce me to his mother, his sister and his cousin etc. He has hugged me, given me support when I needed ...

Is it wrong or right to send flowers to a co worker you like?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

16 June 2016 (M) - I have a question I wanted to ask and ive been debating it. If there is a co worker a male likes and he's into her. Let's say the special day was valentines day. Is it wrong or right to send flowers to a co worker you like? not that I'm intendi...

Newly married but feel so guilty about my cheating. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

16 June 2016 (F) - I got married to my boyfriend recently whom I was with in a long distance relationship for 3 yrs. We still live apart as I have not moved to his city yet as he could be taking a transfer to mine. I have dark secret which haunts me even now. Las...

Cute guy at the gym. How do I get his attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

16 June 2016 (F) - I recently started weighttraining with a guy friend (older gentleman) at the gym, and there is one particular guy. I told my workout buddy (harry) that i think the guy's cute, and he's trying to help me break the ice with him. Because of Harrys he...

Is she out of my league? Should I ask her out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

15 June 2016 (M) - I'm a single male and work, there's a female at work whose caught my eye and she is attractive. She always looks at me, smiles and gives me hugs and chats to me. I'd like to ask her out but the problem is, I'm not sure if im her type or not or w...

I think this is beyond a crush or I'm going mental

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

15 June 2016 (F) - I met this guy in November and we met because he frequently eat at Subway, where my friend works and I stop by all the time as well. He's always picking and I pick back. I have always found him extremely handsome and I have expressed multiple times. ...

Breaking up and I've developed a crush on another guy already. Is my idea of moving on viable or a terrible idea?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - I need opinions... So my husband and I are ending things. For our own personal reasons. My husband was and is emotionally abusive and can't seem to change. We have a mutual friend that we both just starting hanging around. I, ( knowing th...

I think I'm falling in love. Should I still go to Canada or stay here to see how this relationship develops?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1570 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - So i decided i was moving to Canada last September and have since met a guy (February). i told him straight out i was moving away and he was only out of a very long relationship. We've been seeing each other a few times every week for the las...

Should I just move on? Seemed like a good first date. Yet haven't heard from him since last Friday.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

14 June 2016 (F) - I met someone on a first date last Friday and I thought it went pretty well... He initiated chats all week although I stated I prefer meeting over chatting and he agreed to meet but continued to say good morning to me everyday online. We met fo...

I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?

This question has 63 answers - newest was posted 3052 days ago

14 June 2016 (M) - I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...

I feel very confused by her. First she flirts with me. Then she didn't invite me to her birthday celebration. What's happening here?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

13 June 2016 (F) - I am lusting after another female colleague. She is also bi-sexual. I've known her a year but only recently did we start getting to know each other better as she has moved into my office at work. We flirt a lot by teasing each other and play fig...

Am I being selfish? Should I persist and continue with this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

12 June 2016 (F) - Hello, I have a lot going on in my life right now. I just got a new job that I love and my youngest just graduated from high school and is leaving the nest soon. I also started dating a new guy. He is very handsome, sweet and is in good shape. I like...

I'm in love with my brother's ex wife. Family are try to discourage me over this. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3082 days ago

12 June 2016 (M) - I am a 42 year old man who was married to my for 10 years to my best friend. Seven years ago she died. We have 2 kids together and I've been single ever since. Recently I moved so the kids could be closer to family and I met a beautiful young ...

Do relationships that start as affairs go the distance, or do they fail?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3082 days ago

12 June 2016 (M) - My dad left my mum (who his disabled with MS) for the 'other woman' - do these relationships that start as an affair (lies, deception) typically last? How can his new parter trust him? She must be insecure that if he can do it with her, he will DO ...

Cancelled dates comfusing me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

12 June 2016 (F) - I really like someone for the first time in a few months and I'm trying to show I'm available without been too desperate but I just end up feeling more rejected at the moment. She has been having a hard time lately and has to go through a court case ...

I like my ex-best friend's ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

11 June 2016 (F) - There's this guy I like. Him and one of my best friends used to go out. He broke up with her because he said it wasn't going well for them in the last 6 months. He told me that during those last 6 months he had developed feelings for me. She cheated ...

He says he's not attracted to her but only one quality of hers; should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3082 days ago

11 June 2016 (F) - I recently found out that my boyfriend has been drifting emotionally because the thrill of the chase is gone for him. I then found out that to compensate for the thrill being gone, he had started being attracted to someone else (someone he hasn't ...

How can I break this cycle? My life revolves around finding someone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

10 June 2016 (F) - My life revolves around finding someone how can I break this cycle ? I just had my heart broken by my ex he left me because he didn't want to invest the time in our relationship and I can't get over it. It was only six months and although I did e...