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writes: So i decided i was moving to Canada last September and have since met a guy (February). i told him straight out i was moving away and he was only out of a very long relationship. We've been seeing each other a few times every week for the last few months and now i think i'm falling in love with him. I dont know if i should still go and hope that he's still around in a year or stay and waste the opportunity of a new experience and he may not be the one and it may fizzle out? whats your thoughts? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (3 August 2020):
Sorry to hear that. I’m sure life has better in store for you :)
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reader, miss-innocent +, writes (29 July 2020):
miss-innocent is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe cheated on me so guess I made the right choice by leaving for Canada
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (15 June 2016):
I'd say stay, but you really haven't known him very long and you don't want to miss out on furthering your future. Why not try long distance, if he's interested in you? You don't *have* to miss out on both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2016): Same thing happened to me.I married the guy.This year will be our 34 anniversary.Follow your heart.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (14 June 2016):
I had an opportunity to go to America for the summer which I was all prepared to do and then I met a guy, so I stayed and now three years later we are engaged and planning our wedding. I guess everyone is different and it can go either way. My best advice to you is to follow your heart and trust your gut instinct. Talk to him and ask him how he is feeling about the situation. Good luck.
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