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writes:I gave my number to guy that I liked for a while now and told him to text me sometime..He said sure but when I saw him the next day, he made up some bs about how he broke his phone amd lost my number. I took that as polite brush off and decide to let it go.However, I finally found out his last name so I my sister to looked him up on face book.It turned out he's in relationship..now I know why but I'm mystified why he took my number if he already has a gf and only to make some excuses of not calling.He never brought up the gf in the conversation either.I know I should have found out first .I feel foolish now
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 June 2016):
 You liked him and you did not know that he was in a relationship, so please don't feel foolish as you done nothing wrong. My guess is that he made up an excuse because he did not want to hurt your feelings, he probably did not feel the need to mention he had a girlfriend, and when you gave him your number you probably caught him off guard and he accepted it to be polite.
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reader, weak fighter  +, writes (21 June 2016):
Might be because he wants to make nice way by saying he already in a relationship.. Good think that he didn't ignore you. You can still be friend. It feel better..:)
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (20 June 2016):
 Don't feel foolish, you didn't know he had a new GF. You made a move and it wasn't a "win". It happens.
He probably didn't want to say:" no thanks I don't want/need your number". He didn't want to hurt your feelings is my guess... so it was easier to "lose" your number instead.
Dust yourself off and move on. Now you know any more time spend on this guy... is wasted.
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