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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:People tend to think i'm a teen still in high school, but i'm a grown adult woman and well the city bus driver is sexxi as ever.Two days ago he did a 360 degree turn to look me directly in my eyes just smiling his azz off and he was like “hey little lady.''I said hi, smiled and sat dow. As I got off the bus he looked at me again and told me to have a nice day.He is always extra happy to see me. He doesn't do this to anyone else, just me.I have vowed to never approach a man again, because things didn’t turn out the way I had hoped the last time I did that.I was almost on an episode of cheaters,lol.i really do like this guy and yesterday he was just smiling with his head down when he seen me.Today he was watching me through the mirror smiling while driving.Should I ask him why does he act all giddy around me? or say nothing at all.He looks to be about 36 yrs old.What man would act like that if they were in a relationship and or married? He doesn't wear any jewelry, his fingers are free of rings. Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 June 2016):
 I work in a secure federal building and have to pass 3 checkpoints to get in every morning. At all three checkpoints are guards..young and old.
I see them 3 days a week. We smile we chat. one of them (an age appropriate man for me) compliments me on my hair and certain dresses I wear that he likes. I'm friendly/flirty right back. I'm married not cheating wearing a ring...doesn't matter to him.
FWIW my husband is currently not wearing a ring as he is waiting for it to be returned from updating.
My ex husbands never wore rings. RINGS mean NOTHING. NOT wearing a RING means EVEN LESS.
I was married to a bus driver once. He was friendly and smiling all the time.
YOU like this guy and YOU like the attention.... but you may be building this up to be something when in actuality it's NoBigDeal.
I say LET IT GO
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2016): He works a mundane, tedious, repetitive job he mostly likely hates. You may be and attractive lady and by talking to you he may just escape from his reality for just those few moments.
Just be nice back. You don't have to be though, hell if you want you can ignore him or take a different bus. But unless he asks for your number or something just be friendly and move along.
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female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (28 June 2016):
 Maybe the guy is just a friendly and flirty guy? (at least with the pretty ladies) I would NOT read more into it than that.
He drives a bus and probably a little bored so the people he meet during work helps alleviate boredom.
I'd say nothing, I mean what's the point?
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