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51-59,
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writes:I have a male friend but I don't know if he sees me as more? So far he has told me deep trauma from his past, he has went out of his way to introduce me to his mother, his sister and his cousin etc. He has hugged me, given me support when I needed it, listened to me regarding things that may have been hard for him to hear, hugged me, kissed me on the cheek, called me love, but he hasn't actually asked me anything that would lead to a relationship. He is a very good friend, so I'm not sure does he see me as someone he would like to go out with and I don't know how to ask him without the risk of affecting our friendship. Please help, thanks
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (19 June 2016):
 When he is next close have you tried kissing him with a bit more passion and see what the effect is? If he draws back then there is little harm done by one kiss. If on the other hand his pupils dilate and he looks like he might want to do it again then you have lift off.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (16 June 2016):
 If I am being honest, reading your post I have friends just how you have described him, but its just platonic and nothing more. Now am not saying that he does not like you, but it is clear that he values your friendship and trusts you. Do you really want to risk that all by dating?
If this is someone that you have deep feelings for well then I suggest just being honest with him, you are both adults so it is best to be honest, maybe he feels the same as you do but is shy.
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