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Archived questions from: August, 2012 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

He's pulling away from our relationship and flirting with exes. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - my partner and i have been haing a little bit of a ruff patch lately... money problems and him not enjoying his work... we have been snappy at each other and i'm starting to get worried... the night before my son got scissors and cut a cord which ...

Affair that wasn't. Will I ever quit feeling guilty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - First, I am 69. I have been re-married for 6 years to a man who has had anger, jealousy issues and 2 turbulent marriages. My marriage has been fraught with trust issues, and a great deal of them on my part as well. I was told that he still ...

I still like the guy I used to date even though I have a boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - I still like this guy that i used to date, even though i have a boyfriend. Things haven't been going that well with me and my boyfriend lately. When the guy i used to date found out that i had another boyfriend, he called me and asked if i was in l...

My ex now flirts with me and claims he married his new wife for the wrong reasons

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

31 August 2012 (F) - im 23 years old and a single mom. my sons father and i didnt work out because we had a lot of resentment towards each other during the pregnancy. now that we have gone through court and its been a few years for us to mature some we realize the mist...

How do I get closure and stop the wrestling of unanswered questions in my mind

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

30 August 2012 (F) - my bf of almost two years has been cheating on me and i just recently found out. i only give one strike and he blew it out the park.. I'm confused. i don't know if i should be sad or angry. i just need closure .. i doubt he'll tell the truth when i ...

I'm not in a position where I can get a divorce but I want to get to know this other man. I'm very unhappy and don't know what to do.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

29 August 2012 (F) - I am 28 and have been married for 5 years. I was good at first. But when I got pregnant with our first child my husband starting watching porn. Without getting into massive detail, I eventually confronted him about it and told him how I felt. After ...

I want to have my child with someone other than my boyfriend, is that bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

29 August 2012 (F) - Hi all. I just need an advice. Is this normal when your boyfriend cheated on you an had a child with someone else. I've have forgiven him an love him but I feel like making my first child out of our relationship an I don't think I'll be doing ...

Having an affair with a married woman.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

29 August 2012 (M) - Hello, Thanks in advance for your help in this matter. Her's my issue: I have known this woman for several years online. We planned on meeting in person a few times and it fell through each time. We live in different cities and the timing just wasn...

What's wrong with me? I cheated on my Gf last night and never felt guilty about it. Is it something within me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4465 days ago

29 August 2012 (M) - I really don't know what's wrong with me and i hate what i am doing. I am 27 and i have always been a ladies man, to say. I don't know what my problem is. I have always enjoyed going out and meeting girls in bars and having fun. I am a good ...

Why do guys always cheat on me? whats wrong? could it be me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

29 August 2012 (F) - Please help! Any Advice is greatly appreciated. For some reason i always get cheated on! Or there is always another female in the picture. I am not ugly. To be honest, i often get hit on alot of the times i go out. I am very attractive. I sa...

I destroyed his trust and now he is very jealous and controlling.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

29 August 2012 (?) - hey so i am in a very promising relationship with my boyfriend we have know each other for 10 years and are very smitten and in love , but sometimes he gets really jelous if other boys like me or even talk to me he has rules like i cant wear short ...

I'm dating a guy but he still has his dating profile up and says he is single!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - Okay so this is gone and past and i am completely over it but i was in a relationship for 2 1/2 years.. i moved in with him and gave everything to this guy and was honest and true to him and he had another girl for 1 year and a half of it and ...

Can I trust him? Is he going to lie again or is he serious this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - So, My ex called me a few days ago and said that he misses me. I was head over heels for him. When we were first together, around may, everything was great but we seperated because he was scared to get to comfortable with me. A few weeks later we ...

I can't stop thinking of him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4459 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - I have a problem with this guy I've known for a while he's lovely and I'm attracted to him, also he says he's the same with me! Problem is he has a girlfriend and we have chatted a few times they live together too, thing is he always makes way for ...

Why is it that I always wind up with cheaters? I've never cheated!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - hello, i used to write on here a while ago when i used to need someplace to talk about the fact that i was sure my boyfriend at the time was cheating on me (which he was with several people). Anyway i broke up with my ex because i met someone i ...

Can a cheating guy mend his ways and change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

28 August 2012 (F) - Hi. I'm really confused and need help. I'm in a long distance relationship for 3 years. It was really tough to work it out and I was sick of his philandeerin ways and mistreatment. He used to treat me REALLY GOOD when together but back to his ways ...

Week after we broke up she was sexually active with a new guy. What does this say about how she cares about me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

28 August 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I share a child together, and had plans on becoming married. Later in our relationship I cheated on her by conversing with other females when things weren't going good between us. When we got into an argument and I pushed her and ...

Am I calling too much? Will he forgive me? I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - 3 days were gone and he didnt call me , A year we are together never apart from telephone and calls, every time sayed to each other Ilove you and miss you , and qe really do, I think I have done e little mistake to telling him in the phone , I was ...

My boyfriend is on chat rooms, dating sites and looks at porn

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - im in a long term relationship, im sort of happy but my man keeps looking at porn and going on chat rooms and has put himselth on dateing sites. he will hide what he is doing on the laptop by clicking of iit when i stand up or go near it. I on...

I got him off drugs, got him a job and now he leaves me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - Where do I begin,my life's just been a roller coaster ride..when I was 15 I started seeing this guy from my class and we dated all through secondary and high school and rolled into the same university for further studies in new jersey..he was basket ...

My boyfriend is a serial cheater but I love him. Is it time to place my dignity above love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - The first two time I caught my boyfriend cheating on me, he apologised and begged me not to leave. After two years, I feel that he's getting bored with me. I just caught him cheating on me again. I love him very much. Should I place my dignity obove ...

He's married with 2 children. But WAS very keen on me, but now he's avoiding me. Should I tell the new guy about my (almost) relationship with Manager?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

27 August 2012 (F) - Hi, I met a guy (manager) of different dept. a few months ago. We became good friends. I told him about some tragedies that happened in my life. He was sympathetic and I started having feelings for him. He is married and has 2 sons. I guess he fel...

Will he grow to love our child?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

26 August 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid I am separated from my husband for a year. Had an affair meanwhile and now I'm pregnant. My bf doesnt want anything to do with me or my pregnancy now. Will he ever love my child if I go on with my pregnancy, I don't want my child to be de...

Cheating b/f gave me genital herpes, is there anything natural I can take?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - Hi I really need some advice as I am in bits and don't know what to do I recently caught my boyfriend of nearly 2 years cheating on me so I went to a gum clinic to get myself tested for any stis and I found out I have genital herpes I feel so ...

I fell for an intern while my boyfriend was recovering from a crash in the hospital!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - Hey everyone,I am not here to be judged I just need advise so please be kind.. About 3 years ago I met this wonderful guy when I was in college,we started dating,let's call him blaine,so blaine and I we got into a pretty serious relation...

I cheated on all of these men, why are they still calling me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - I have had serveral men in my life once a point a time that I use to deal financely,sexually,mentally the whole nine yards.now these guys have saw each other but they don't know each other like that and the first guy caught me with the second guy ...

My baby's father has cheated on me and come in and out of my life for years. I met a new stable guy now. Who should I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - Hi everyone,i love all my confidential friend because they always support me when needed.I need more help than ever,i have been in a relationship for 5 years,i love the guy so much,he was my first and we are very confident to each other.At a certain ...

The girl I love and my ex are going on holiday together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

25 August 2012 (M) - Where do I begin? I've recently split up with my girlfriend of 7 years as I'm in love with someone else. Everything is a mess, our lives are all so interwoven and it's been the process of many years. There has always been something betwee...

I found my mother in bed with my boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - I feel desperate and I really need someone's help. It happened yesterday, I came back from a holiday with my dad (mom and dad are separated). We returned a little earlier than we were going to and I found out my mother was sleeping with my...

I love my ex AND my Boyfriend. Two different guys, and both with Issues. How can I solve this mess I am in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

25 August 2012 (F) - I love my ex and my fiance.. and they're 2 different people. I was with this guy for 4 years, we had 2 kids together but he was abusive. He was pretty controlling and I took him to court and had a domestic violence order put against him. I star...

Should I confront the man my wife had a one night stand with?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

25 August 2012 (M) - My wife had a one night stand behind my back. She was in school with this guy and he knew she was married. I know where this guy lives, my question is do i go round there and hit the shit out of him?...

Wife cheated and I can't stop thinking about it when we are apart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

24 August 2012 (M) - My wife cheated on me a few weeks ago, we are working through it and i really do want this to work. The problem is not when we are together but when we are apart. I cant stop thinking about it! How do i stop and move on? This is starting to chew me ...

But he's had the same Gf for 4 years. So what can I do? He's older than me. There is an attraction between us.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 August 2012 (F) - Hey guys, i've got a situation that i'd really love some help with. So i've been getting to know a guy recently whos quite a lot older than me (im 17). However, our personalities just click.. He makes me laugh, and we just get on so well. We have ...

Is a water infection a STI?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 August 2012 (M) - My wife cheated on me a month ago, we are working on things and hopefully will be able to move on from this. However she now has a water infection, is this an STI? How do you get a water infection?...

My boyfriend has been using casual hook up sex sites and I cant seem to get over this! Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 August 2012 (F) - Dear all. Please help. I can't sleep as I found out my BF has been using casual sex websites to hook up with different girls for no strings sex. I feel sick. I have been very intimate with him and was deeply in love with him. We have had a rough ...

My ex boyfriend is a professional liar and cheat. How do I tell both new ladies about each other, without leading back to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

24 August 2012 (F) - I am an ex of boyfriend who is professional liar and cheater... I left him after 18 months, but then I was shocked to accidently find secret accounts, dating site membership. Membership to secret email...(he left his IPAD open accidently in bathroom...

Is he falling in love or is he just stringing me along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

24 August 2012 (F) - The married man i have been seeing for the last 7yrs we are both in our sixties,is suddenly telling me he can't do without me, misses me terribly,and that i'm more than just a friend i am a very special part of his life and he doesn't want to loose ...

Do I stay and wait for b/f to grow up? Or realize its over and hit the road?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

23 August 2012 (F) - Hello Agonies. My boyfriend and i have been in a 3yr and 6mo. on and off relationship. Throughout this relationship he has cheated multiples of times, constantly lies and mistreats me, no communication whatsoever, doesn't try to make things right ...

My husband has been sneaky lately and I found a flavored condom in his pocket that he blamed on our son!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

23 August 2012 (F) - Lately, my husband of 9 yrs. has been a little sneaky. he talks to all kinds of women, first of all he's a photographer OK. Now it's one particular friend that he tells her he loves her. Just recently, while I was doing laundry,a flavored condom ...

My boyfriend likes to look at my sister's fake boobs, but when I said I wanted fake boobs he flipped out!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

23 August 2012 (F) - Okay so short story.... My sister had tons of ummm "sexy" pictures on her computer.... Nude, and she has fake boobs..... Well my boyfriend of over a year decides to be a dick and goes on her computer and emails himself some of the nude photos!!! I ...

I looked into my dad's phone messages and think I've discovered he's having an affair!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

22 August 2012 (M) - I am literally shaking with rage and I don't know who I can turn to right now. I think I have just discovered that my Dad is having an affair. My parents have been married for over 25 years now. I was having troubles with my phone so I looked around ...

My marriage is over, I know this, but it is a good idea to contact one of the girls my husband has been cheating with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been married to a serial cheater for 28 years. I have prayed, screamed, cried, stalked, snooped, anything I could do to make him see what he was doing. Honestly, even though I "knew" what he was doing, I never actually caught h...

I am a cheater but is that really so bad?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 August 2012 (M) - I am cheating on my GF. should i stop. i cant help it i like the excitement of chasing new women and when i see a beautiful woman im curious how it feels to be with her. but i like having something guaranteed at home. but people make it seem like a ...

Does he love me? Want to dump me? Or just sickly obsessed with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - Okay .. This is the first time that I'm doing something like this .. But I need answers .. So my boyfriend and I are now dating for about 8 months and I'm starting to noticethe jealousy . And its becoming more and more by the day hy doesn't want me ...

Why does he show me he loves me but won't say it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - I am very close to a man at work. He is married. He has made comments in the past indicating that his wife gives him flak for him not telling her he loves her. They have been married for twenty years and have four kids. I know he thinks he should ...

After ten years of marriage, I find out my husband has had an affair.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

21 August 2012 (F) - I am writing because I need advice. After 10 years of marriage and two kids of ages 8 and 2, I found recently that my husband was having an affair. I kicked him out of the house but now I want him back. My husband now blames me for our split and ...

Is it possible for a cheater to end up happy with the person he cheated with?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of six years cheated, and left me for the woman he cheated with. Although I'm past the hurt, sometime I wonder is it possible for a cheater to be happy with the person he cheated with.I wish him and her the best and hope he is a better ...

I slept with my best friend's girl (whom I've been in love with since the day we met) Now she has broken up with him, should I come clean with him about what happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

20 August 2012 (M) - Hey readers. I really need your help. My bestfriend introduced me to his girlfriend a year ago. I instantly found her attracive, she is so beautiful. When I began talking to her even her voice was beautiful. I have always had a crush on her but 2 ...

Is it likely that he's really cheating? Or just boasting? If true, then I feel as though I'm not attractive enough for him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - My partner recently put password locks on his mobile phones, I was suspicious and managed to get into his phone and found he's frequently sending txts to his mate about all the hot women he's seeing while making deliveries. Plus how he's going to ...

So much pain. I don't know what to do now. save marriage? how? then what? Or divorce?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

20 August 2012 (F) - I need help. I have not been married for long. when dating my future husband, he was quite emotionally abusive, and i ended up cheating with another guy. i got pregnant, and only realised i was pregnant after i got married. I told hubby and ...