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writes:Okay .. This is the first time that I'm doing something like this .. But I need answers .. So my boyfriend and I are now dating for about 8 months and I'm starting to noticethe jealousy . And its becoming more and more by the day hy doesn't want me to go to my friends or even want me to go to gym he is scared that I will find someone else and cheat on him;nowadays he will leave me evry day and wil crawl back ant tell me how he loves me etc. He calls me names and makes me feel bad about myself just so that I would think I'm not gooed enought for anybody else he goes on my phone to see of I'm chating to a guy and he also deleted all my guy contacts please just help me ? Does he love me or want to break up with me or is he just sicvk obessed with me ?
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (22 August 2012):
 That is not love, please take our advice and start taking steps to distance yourself from him. The emotional abuse will only get worse over time and you will wonder why you did not get out sooner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOh yes one more thing he tells me that why he is doing that (leaving me )is because he wants me to crawl back at hin and show my love that way and its not suposed to be that like ! I asked him yesterday if he is cheating on me and he said no he will never cheat he doesn't want anyboday else but then a couple hours later he chance his mind and tell me how tired he is of me and then again how he can't live without me .. ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question Oh yes one more thing he tells me that why he is doing that (leaving me )is because he wants me to crawl back at hin and show my love that way and its not suposed to be that like ! I asked him yesterday if he is cheating on me and he said no he will never cheat he doesn't want anyboday else but then a couple hours later he chance his mind and tell me how tired he is of me and then again how he can't live without me .. ?
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (22 August 2012):
What he is doing is emotional abuse. He may say he loves you but this isn't love. Someone who loves you does not make you feel guilty to live your life. Someone who loves you does not try to stop you from seeing people you care about. If you continue to stay with him, this behavior will likely escalate and you may find yourself emotionally broken or at the end of his fist someday. Please talk with him and tell him things need to change. If they don't, consider telling him that you are leaving because you don't deserve the abusive treatment. Then, stay true to your word and protect yourself. I would also tell family and friends what he is doing and saying in case he gets more violent.
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reader, Dangerously Enthusiastic.  +, writes (21 August 2012):
 He's mental, that's what.
You can't stay with him as it's going to end up with you having no life.
You'll end up his slave!
Please, please don't stay with him. He sounds crazy.
If anything, he sounds like he's cheating!
Those who do things like this and accuse partners of cheating without any evidence usually are the cheaters!
He's just a control freak, nothing more.
Please leave him! Because you'll just end up on the news like these other young girls where the partners have struck out and gone mad and hurt them.
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