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41-50,
*ellyzaklilly
writes:My partner recently put password locks on his mobile phones, I was suspicious and managed to get into his phone and found he's frequently sending txts to his mate about all the hot women he's seeing while making deliveries. Plus how he's going to have to pull over for "a tug." Then about how he's sitting on the beach watching the "hotties" while on company time and letting me think he's working a full 11hr day. He's also mentioned blowjobs from one of the women he delivers to who always gives him free food. I understand men look at attractive women but why does he need to specifically text his friend about it? It's made me feel as though I'm not attractive enough for him and he doesn't care that his mates must think I don't turn him on. Also is it likely he's cheating or is it all just talk to big note himself?
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (20 August 2012):
 This sounds more like boasting to me. Teenage boasting at that.
Even if he isn't cheating he clearly wants others to think he is. He wants people to believe you're waiting faithfully at home for him like a mug, while he's having all this mind blowing sex with women who'll do anything to have him, at work.
Act as though he is cheating.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (20 August 2012):
 I'm not sure how to interpret getting blowjobs from other women in a way that isn't cheating. Plus locks on everything, he's sneaking and lying. Even if he isn't cheating it sounds like he would if given the chance.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (20 August 2012):
 The sudden change of behavior is the most worrisome thing. Nothing rings true about this. One day he just starts fooling around at work. Or one day he just needs to text his exploits to his mate. I would think it would build up slowly.
The only thing that even makes a tiny bit of sense is that suddenly his regular communication with his mate has changed. They can't talk where they used to.
If that is the case he is a long term philanderer. Sounds bad. Otherwise he is playing a game with you. Also bad.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 August 2012):
 What part of "blow jobs from one of the women he delivers to" doesn't scream CHEATING to you?
It's not that YOUR not attractive enough for him, it's that he's a dog. He's not going to be satisfied with ONE woman so he needs all these women to stroke his ego...
Whether or NOT he's actually DOING these things, to me has no bearing on it, he's disrespecting you by saying he's doing it.
He's obviously knowing he's wrong with a lock on his phone.
I'd consider ending it if you are strong enough.
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