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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I've ended and affair, but I'm having trouble moving on

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2100 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I am a married female 32 years of age, and recently ended a four month affair with a married man,2 kids, same age as myself. He worked in the same building, and after many months of serious eye contact, approched me and we started off just...

He cheated on me with his psycho ex and he has dope issues...should I take him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Right so me and my boyfriend have been together for like seven months now. But before me there was another girl, and he was with her for 3 years. She fucked him over big time, like seriously messed with him emotionally and phsyically. S o a few week...

He burned me. I've done everything I can to get over it, but it still hurts. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I met a guy at work last year. We had a thing, for a few months, until I started to listen to the voice in my head about how he seemed to good to be true and yet always unavailable when I needed him. Surprise he's engaged to his gf of 8 years. I ...

I don't know if I can get past this or will be able to trust her. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - hello everyone.. I have been dating this girl from last 8 months. We started slow and fell in love and kinda lived together for couple of months. Everything was great, but now i found out there were many thing she lied about, so i need some help to ...

He's horrible towards me but great with the kids, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Help!!! how do i get over the pain!??!!!!! my story is full on...well to me anyway. I have been broken up with my daughters dad for two years now and it would have to be the most horrible experience I have ever had....I had post natal severely....I ...

Three years later....I'm confused on what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I am very confused as to what is happening at the moment. But I will start from the beginning, 3 years ago I was "going out" with a guy, and we were both virgins, but about 2months later, my dad died, and I went off the rails. By this I mean I ...

I'm in a relationship but I love someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - i love a guy and in the same time i am in a relationship with another guy, and this guy that i am loving is so strange with me in this past week, he's like just wanna stay friends and live his life, i love him what should i do?...

BF is moving to a flat with three social guys. Do you think he will be tempted to cheat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hello, I am a 20 year old girl who has been going out with her bf for just over 6 months. We have both said that we love each other and recently, he has mentioned that he has thought about us living together. He also said that he never said it ...

Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - im a 27yr old girl thats in a relationship, though i met a 37 yr old man 3yrs ago and have been falling in love with him, he was in a relationship of 15 yrs with 2 kids as do i have, 3 yrs later he has left her and wants to be with me, though he has ...

Both girls in my life are amazing! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - Ok, so I've been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months and shes the perfect girlfriend but its just missing something; for instance I used to get jealous when she'd tell me about guys buying her drinks at the bar but now I really don't mind. To ...

I want to divorce my husband and marry my soul mate

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I am a lady of 40years has been married over 12years. I like my husband and has three kids with the youngest 3 years.I have really never been in love with my husband though I like him and actually ,he is a caring husband and a father every woman ...

My husband is doing a 360 about our separation, I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4945 days ago

31 March 2011 (?) - help me my husband has done a 360 with our separation..he is taunting a man who is emailing me...when I ask him if he loves this woman hes with he ignores me and asks about the man whos chasing me..... what does he want...I keep asking him do yo...

I'm really tempted, but he's married

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - So theres this guy at work, and we have flirted a lot but i always saw it as a bit of fun as ... he is a maried man. but today he confessed he would cheat on his wife with me, but i dont know. im so attracted to him and its so tempting but ive ...

I cheated on my rebound with my first love and now I'm heart broken because she left

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - hi agony aunts. my first love was my bff since kindergarden. she took my virginity. we were gf's for 5 years and dropped me for a firl she met at college. i was crushed to bits and got in a rebound relationship with another girl that fell head over ...

My husband cheated on me several times,the girls confirm it,but I need to know how to take it from there..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - My husband and have been together 6 years, married for 5.We have 3 children. About 2 months ago I call him while he was out with his friends and instead of pushing end on the cell he push talk. I heard him getting it on with a girl while his 1 month ...

What are the chances that the baby is not my boyfriend's?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Please don't judge me for this I feel awful as it is - I am currently almost eight months pregnant. I am due on may 10th and my last period began on august the fifth. I have a steady boyfriend who I am sorry to say I cheated on once on the evening ...

Is this true love or true guilt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - How do you know when you cheat on someone after being with them for 4 years that you really love them? The fact that one could cheat on their partner after being with them for so long, makes one question if it is really "love" you feel for them. ...

Have to see Ex-BF tomorrow and not sure I'll be able to control my anger. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Your Open Question: How should I act when I see my lying cheating ex boyfriend? ? My ex boyfriend lied to me, cheated and dumped me. I knew something wasn't right cos he said he doesn't want a relationship. I found out he was sleeping with s...

He texts other women and now he wants me to marry him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, i'v been in a relationship with my bf for 3years now, we've had good times and few bad times, when i noticed some messages in his phone, about how he misses and loved a particular girl. This has happened thrice, of which he apologised ...

How pornographic material affects relationships

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I want to weigh in on the debate that keeps coming up. My partner used to want me to imagine other girls during sex and I was never comfortable with this. In the end I agreed to try it out to help please her. I was always thinking of her though. I...

A young, troubled guy, already.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I have a question that has been on my mind for a little bit now, well, a few questions that is. 1. Why don't I really care for females anymore? I've only ever had three relationships, 2 being more than a month, one being two years. The longer ...

Do I wait for him to leave his girlfriend or just walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

30 March 2011 (?) - Hi everyone got a bit of a issue and would love all opinions on it. I started a new job about 6 months ago and I met this guy there which I got along with great straight away. We were always flirting and he got a new girlfriend who lives on the...

Even though he cheated on me and weren't on good terms, yet I cant get over the break-up....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend finished about a week ago and i have found out all the time he was with me he was seeing someone else to, this isnt the reason we split, we split because we wasnt on good terms then i didnt see him for 2 weeks as he was working ...

She cheated once. Will she do it again if I forgive her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - If your wife of 5years cheats on you w/her baby daddy. Would she do it again if I forgive her? She confess to me because she felt unhappy with her self. She said it only happend once and that she is sorry? Should I forgive her?...

My friend hugs me and tells me not to get with other girls, and even lets me see her naked.. but says we're just friends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - Ok so I have this coworker. I've been attracted to her from the first time I saw her. The second day I started working their I got her number but we never got to anything serious becuz she switched to nite shift. Then she called me the other day for ...

He kissed me and then told me he has a gf ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - im a girl aged 16.My problem is that i saw this guy,i just wanted to kiss him the minute i looked at him.Eventualy he came to me and aske to have a word with me.he told me that he liked me but ddnt ask for my number!!after that we stared into each ...

I want him to leave his live-in girlfriend for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - here goes.........I have known this guy since november, he is a farmer and lives in the valley where i work. i run into him on a daily basis, we meet up nearly every night, and share hobbies at the weekends. we are so made for each other and are ...

I'm sending this letter to my lover, what do you think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I'm sending this letter to my lover, What do you think? It breaks my heart having to say these words to you, but I feel that our relationship has ran its course. It has been wonderful knowing you, you are a great man. I'm sorry that I have to s...

I love my best cousin's wife and she loves me too. Please advise!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm having a problem. I'm 18 years old. Me and my family traveled away to see my cousins that i haven't seen in a long time, My best cousin just got married with a girl. I was really excited about it, and happy for them, but when i saw her i fe...

He wants space. Will I be able to heal if I have to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - How do I get over him? I was with my fiance for almost three years. In that time we had a lot of ups and downs, mostly due to my mental illness. I cheated on him whilst I was ill and then tried to kill myself when we broke up, and then again a few...

I need money. Is gay porn the answer? I don't want to cheat on my GF.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - hello, i am in serious dept, i haven't got a job and have £103 every 2 weeks. with my balance being so high I cant make the next step with my girl friend. i watched a program on MTV about porn stars lives, there was a guy on there whom who was ...

Is just talking about sex with another guy cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Hey guys, Me and my bf have been together for nearly 4 months now and I love him very much :) he's my first bf and i'm his first gf so it was kinda awkward in the beginning but now, it's great :) just to let you know, we didn't french kiss yet,...

My boyfriend accuses of cheating and calls me a slut!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now, but I dont feel loved. we have been bestfriends for many years prior to our relationship and I think he cant cope with my past relationship. I was with this guy for many years back, and I gave talked to ...

My G/f has fallen for a much younger man,lies to me about meeting him and she has an alcohol problem. I don't know how much more of this I can take....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (?) - I have been living with my girlfriend for 6 years now. I love her very much and she says she loves me too. She has a bit of an alcohol problem, not an alcoholic, she just gets pretty weird after a few glasses of wine, bit mad really. Times have bee...

Should I stick it out with my B/f and see if things change? Or go back to my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Dear cupids, please help!. I have posted a couple of posts on here about my 'boyfriend'. Ive said I dont see him enough even though we live soooo close to each other. He adds girls on facebook everynight, although I do know he not meeting them. He ...

I know I need to leave him after all his cheating, but I don't know how I will manage on my own, I have nothing without him......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Dear all my h/b has cheated several times in the past but he promised that he will never cheat again since i had found out, we are talking all though our marraige he has been cheating can he truley stop ? He says he loves me and he was selfish a...

My ex has moved in with the girl he cheated on me with, why do I feel so hurt by this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I recently found out that my ex (whom I dated for 5 years) and broke up with 8 months ago, has moved in together with his current girlfriend whom he cheated on me with (the cause of our breakup). This has shocked me as we never made that step as a ...

Should I confront my ex about his cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I recently split up with my boyfriend of 7 months since we were constantly at odds with each other due to his controlling and possessive behavior towards me. I recently found out via facebook that he was cheating on me (or vice versa) with the ...

He doesn't deserve my trust or faith but is love worth the gamble?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 March 2011 (?) - This is a bit long because I feel like I should explain everything. I met this guy randomly on a night out. I was feeling a bit down cos my little sister had recently moved in with her boyfriend leaving me the only one in the family single (e...

Why does this girl blurt out bits and piece of her past, and was she a cheater?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - So guys, I've been dating this girl for 5 months now, and she keeps telling me bits and pieces of her past, without me asking her to, so not too long ago we were having some alone time, and again she blurts more things out, and I ask her "why are ...

Has anyone ended a marriage to pursue what was an affair? Results?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Ok so I have a question for anyone who has ever ended a marriage or serious relationship to solely be with the person of your affair instead of your spouse. I know statistics are really low in the favor of it actually working out and I always hear a ...

We had an affair now he doesn't seem to care

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I need some help getting some answers on something I did and something that happened to me recently. I was in a relationship but noit very happy. I considered leaving the relationship but cared about my bf and wanted to see if we could wo...

In the garbage I find evidence of my wife's affair...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - I am in a situation that has devastated me. I have always trusted my wife of 15 years, was not suspicious or jealous of her having multiple male friends (mostly musicians with whom she performed amateur sesssions), and in general did not worry about ...

B/f confessed that he is married with a child on the way in 3 months! I didn't see this and am devastated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Until yesterday I was seeing a guy for about 6 months - we just dated and spent the odd weekend together. Two days ago he came over to my house and sat down and said he had something to tell me. He was married, already had a two year old and as I ...

Kissed another guy and I have a BF help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - I did something I feel really awful about but I don't know if this makes me a bad person or what I should think. I got pretty drunk with my friends and this guy was hitting on me and started kissing on me. I was really uncomfortable and I felt ...

Is his paranoia a sign HE is cheating on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is paranoid i'm cheating on him. is this a sign he's cheating on me? we both have cheated in previous relationships and cannot fully trust each other......

My ex is cheating on her current boyfriend with me......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend is cheating on her current boyfriend with me. It had been a year since we broke up and I get a text from her Recently. You can guess what happened from there and is still happening. I say she needs to leave her current boyfriend ...

My boyfriend, and the father of my child, cheated on me! Should I give him another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4827 days ago

28 March 2011 (?) - I found out that my bf cheated on me. I found out he cheated when the girl he cheated on me with texted him saying that she had fun last night. No I don't read his texts but at the moment she sent that message I had his phone. I asked him about ...

She has not told me she loves me for a year now, what is going on? What have I done wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - hi im in love with a married woman and her husband has never meet me and he hates me. i had meet her online 2 in a half years ago. and when i meet her face to face i feel in love with her.i thought i was in love with someone else, but i honestly ...

Sex addiction is wrecking my relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I think i am a sex addict and I need help to stop my . Before I go on I don't want anyone judging me. I was in a happy relationship with my boyfriend but things started to go south and I wasnt getting the amount of affection or sex i was used t...