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writes:My ex-girlfriend is cheating on her current boyfriend with me. It had been a year since we broke up and I get a text from her Recently. You can guess what happened from there and is still happening. I say she needs to leave her current boyfriend regardless of Whether she gets back with me. It is a clear white flag that she doesn't love him. She also says she has never loved anyone like she has loved me. I was with her for one year and she is with her current one for 6 months now. What do you think?
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reader, snowqueen +, writes (28 March 2011):
Do you still love her, or is it just for sex? She might be thinking about that and she's confused if you are just using her. She might be afraid of you hurting her emotionally, but she loves you still. Her current relationship could have been alright, you don't know, and she probably was happy and had no plans of leaving him. But now that she is involved with you again, she is probably questioning everything about herself, her relationship, and what's the deal with you? Really! Love her or not? Don't mess around if you don't. If you really do, then talk to her. Don't assume, sit around judging weather or not she should leave the other dude. She needs some answers from you, you should talk to her.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 March 2011):
 You need to talk to her and see what exactly it is that she wants. You shouldnt be sleeping with her when you know that she has a boyfriend. What the both of you are doing is wrong, and am sure you dont want to be the other man either. Talk to her and say to her that she needs to chose between the both of you and who she wants. She cant keep messing with the both of you it is not fair. It does sound to me like she may still have feelings for you but that she is just confused. Talk to her and tell her she needs to make up her mind on who she wants. Goodluck.
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reader, thomas1214  +, writes (28 March 2011):
i think she is full of it. if she loved you so much then would she have broken up with you.....? shes a train wreck man and shes going to drag you with her for as long as she can. right now she has a grip on your balls and anytime she needs a void filled that her current bf can't she runs to you then pooof back to her bf as if nothing happened right?? she really loves you.. not
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reader, Ima FreAk!  +, writes (28 March 2011):
 Hiyaaaa,
Well I think that if she cheated on you then she musn't love you or you don't give her what she wants.
Female mind is very complex yes I agree but I've had a friend who kinda did the same thing as your ex.
Honestly I think you should just move on because you don't need the same girl to destroy your life dude! I think you should leave it and get another girl. It might be outrageous but there are lovely girls out there and you can just be her friend because she might need that comfort but honestly dude get out there and PARTAYYYY because she is more likely to cheat on you again so move on!
Just be friends with her there isn't any harm in that and get yourself some M&M's!!!
Hope my advice helps!
Good luck!
Lots of love,
Ima FreAk!
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