A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi im in love with a married woman and her husband has never meet me and he hates me. i had meet her online 2 in a half years ago. and when i meet her face to face i feel in love with her.i thought i was in love with someone else, but i honestly dint know what love was until i meet the woman of my dreams. she has honestly shown me what true love really is. i have written several poems about how much i love her and would want to grow old with her etc. she has 2 kids, and lives in a different state. she honestly is the one true love that i have been looking for all my life. she says she loves me, but i have not heard her say i love you for a year. why is that what is going on? she would text me x' and o's all the time tell me she loves me. but she doesnt do that anymore. what have i done wrong? she loves her husband as a friend but she is not in love with him anymore. does she still have feelings for me? does she want to be with me anymore? she hates talking about any of this with me, i cant seem to get a real straight answer from her at all. she tells me she has morals, i understand that, but its not fair for her to be with me when she has her morals is it? she says the only reason why she is with me, is because im nice, sweet, cute and fun to hang out with. i cant talk to anyone about her and i at all. so basically she is a secret in my life and im a secret in her life. i dont want to be lonely anymore, i want to be with her forever, i want to come home to her open arms. i dont want to lose her i dont want our friendship/relationship to go away. i want her to love me as much as i love her. she knows i would do anything for her, she is my one true love and there is no one out there like her. she's sweet, beautiful woman i have ever meet in this world. she is kind, loving great personality, everything any person could ever have in a friend/ loved one. she is my best friend i have ever had and i love her way too much to say good bye. please help me.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 March 2011):
 Am sorry to break this to you, but if she loved you then she would be with you and not her husband. It doesnt look like she will ever leave her husband for you therefore I think you need to accept that you are the other man. It is not fair on you her leaving you hanging. Be honest with her and tell her you want to be with her and ask her will she leave her husband for you? My guess is though that she will stay with her husband and you will be the one left on your own. Sorry but I dont think you will ever be with this woman I think you need to accept that and find a woman that is single and who will be able to commit to you completely.
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