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Archived questions from: July, 2007 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

He said he wouldnt be a dad to our baby and so I had an abortion

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I really dont know where to start...I need some advice. About 2 years ago I started seeing a guy who I thought was really nice. When we were together 8 months, I read his mobile phone messages. He was saying to his ex girlfriend that he loved her ...

I live with my fairy tale boyfriend, but he has a wife!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together and living together for a year and a half now. He is truely the most amazing person I've ever met! Our relationship is almost perfect. We spend every day together and every second is REALLY like a fairy tale. I ...

The love of my life went out of town and I had sex with his best mate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 month...he's the love of my life, and I want to spend my life with him. We've talked about Marriage, and moving in together. Eric is the best friend anyone could ever have, and its not in his character to ever-EVE...

He's going out with my best friend but I like him and he keeps calling me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - I have liked this one guy forever and a few months ago he started going out with my best friend even though he liked and still likes me. He has been calling me alot lately and we are talking about an hour everyday. It has become very obvious that he ...

I am cheating on my boyfriend with his friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Ok, I have been with my current boyfriend for 6 years. We have twins together who are 18 months old and we are not married because I know that we are not right for each other we have had so many problems and he has been in jail like 5 times since ...

She is lying, hiding phone calls and wont speak to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - Im 38 years married with 3 kids my wife is 33 bye November 2007. we are married for 8 years now. we live happly before. till i decided that she should go back to classroom for further studies. Since , then she has developed bad behaviours , f...

She cheated on me - but it was 20 years ago

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 July 2007 (M) - I've been married almost 19 years, I have two boys (15 and 17), and my marriage is decent (not bad, but not heaven). I just found out that while we were dating, my wife cheated on me with her ex-boyfriend. I know this was over 20 years ago, bu...

My boyfriend has a suspicious mark on his neck; could it have been a girl, is he fibbing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - it may be nothing but a few days ago i saw three different marks on my boyfriend's neck and collar bone and he says that two of them are bruises from where a shelf fell on him and the other one is a pinch mark when he was drunk (rather silly thing ...

We're still very much newly weds, we shouldn't be having problems like this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I just caught my husband who just cheated on me like 2 weeks ago in yet another lie about hiding his porn!! If you've read my last post you saw that my husband of not even 7 months yet, cheated on me (had an emotional affair and kissed his ex while ...

Has my boyfriend been cheating on me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I'm 17 and am in my first relationship that has become sexual. My boyfriend (18)and I have been together since February of this year but I was told by a not-so-close guy friend (who doesn't like my boyfriend but has no known interest in me) that a ...

My wife talks to him on her cell phone every night till 3am!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - My wife and I have been married for nine years and I've just found out she's been cheating, the thing is he calls her every night on her cell phone and they talk till 3am every night, I confronted her and she says she won't stop talking to him, ...

We have twins together but i like his friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I have been with my boybriend for 6 years and we have twin girls together. We have not had a very good relationship. We have a mutual friend and about two years ago I started to develop feeling for him. I tried to forget about him and the feeling ...

Is it true, 'what comes around goes around'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - My partner left after seventeen years togther. She found a new boyfriend within a few days. She handled the breakup poorly telling me over the phone. I turned up at her workplace to she if we could sort things out but was only to find her new part...

If i don't have sex with him, then i have really lost him.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I recently wrote about my husband cheating and going back and forth undecided who he wants to be with me (his wife) or his lover. And i know its obvious that i should leave him and I'm being strong and I'm trying to move on with my life, BUT when he ...

I find it hard to trust him because I have had 2 failed marriages both because they cheated on me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I have had two failed marriages both of which they cheated on me. My relationship with my boyfriend is falling because I find it difficult to trust him, it is not because he has done anthing wrong, he wants to go to night clubs with friends which I ...

Concerned about three-some!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - Ive been dating my g/f for about 6 months now, and shes pressuring me to have a threesome with one of her friends. The third person is a female, and it should be my fantasy to have it, but i extremly dislike the idea. i love her very much and i ...

I think my girlfriend may have cheated on me. Here are the signs...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - Okay, I'm worried about a cheating significant other, too. I have trust issues in general, but the thing is my current girl (fiance, actually) who I have been with for two years now almost has this close male friend. They've been friends since hi...

My best friend cheats on his girlfriend with me, but he is still with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6324 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - I really like one of my best friends and we mess around and are together a lot but he has a girlfriend. At the same time she knows he cheats and he would rather spend time with me but continues to stay with her, what can I do?...

How can I tell him that I like him, when he already has a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - i'v known this guy for a few years now but we didnt really talk. i got this job about 6 months ago and he ends up working there too. ever sence iv been working there we've been talking alot about everything. He seems like the perfect guy, we get ...

He wants her-he wants me-now he wants her again.I am devastated. Any advice is appreciated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - My husband of 7 years cheated on me and when i found out i told him i would forgive him and that if he wanted we can just move on and be a family with our two daughters. He said no that he wanted to be with the other woman. It did hurt but i said ...

I'm obsessed with a married woman. How do I get over my obsession??

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3398 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - i am obesessed with a woman of 37..i am 57...we were workamates...nearly had sex..i panicked..now all i do is think about her..every waking minute of my life...i imagine her making love to her husband..my question is..how do i get over an ...

I think I may be falling for my boss and I think he married the wrong woman..what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - Hi, well basically I think I may be falling for my boss. He is married although I think he married the wrong women without knowing her well enough, (and because of religion) although I think he does love her, he has made comments which make me think ...

My friend is having an affair with this older guy from work! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - Hello reader. Just recently i found out that my 16 year old friend has been involved in an affair for about a year. To my horror, she told me that he was 27 and one of our mutual co-workers. She made me sware that I woouldn't tell anyone. Well, al...

Do I tell the wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6309 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - I became involved with a man about 3 years ago, who is married, though I didn't know it at the time. Once I found out I ended it immediately but I'm ashamed to admit I went back to him, as I had fallen hard. He said all the usual things, he wante...

Girlfriend going overseas, can I trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have a Girlfriend going overseas for 1 year she is 20 im 27 i told her i may visit her for a few weeks, she told me she wants to go overseas to be independant and work and visit friends. I have been going out with her for 3 mo...

Do you think that I can trust my wife with this man in our life?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - In May 2006 my wife of eight years began having an affair with a coworker. I confronted her a few weeks later and she said that their secret relationship was over. Throughout the rest of the year I correctly suspected that their affair was ...

Should i keep begging?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - hi my name is john and i am 14 years old and me and my girlfriend of 9 months recently broke up because i cheated with a female on the internet i cheated once before and she forgave me but i did it again and now she says she wants to be friends i ...

My wife has health problems and is totally dependent on me..I feel trapped! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - ok so i'm 39 and have been married for 7 years and have a 15 year old step daughter. we've had our share of ups and downs. thing is because of health and mental health issues with my wife, she's completely dependant on me and i feel trapped and i'm ...

Do you think it would be ok to have a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - hi, i need some honest impartial advice and after reading some of the replys this seems to be the place! Im a 27yrs old nurse,i have 3 children 15yr old boy(from my husbands first marriage) and 5yr old twins (girl and a boy). 2 1/2 yrs ago my husba...

Pregnant, stressed and scared I'm pushing him away!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - im pregnant and an emotional wreck, i think things that i shouldnt. i dont know whats wrong. my husband is so supportive and kind to me but i snap on him and yell at him for no reason. i cry on everything but im not depressed. i think he is yelling ...

I don't want to be the person responsible for them breaking up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - Almost a year ago, I met one of the most amazing women I have ever known at an audition. We "clicked" immediately, but the only trouble was, was that we were both in relationships at the time. Fast forward to 3 months ago where we got back in touch ...

Do i sign the papers?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - I have been married for 35 years and we have one son 28.I am 59 and my husband is almost 61. For about 10 years we had a commuter marriage and I only saw my husband on week-ends. During that time my husband had two affairs within one year. With each ...

I would be too ashamed, but i want her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - The wife or the girlfriend? Well this is my question. I have been married for seven years. I got married when I was 22 and mainly because my wife was pregnant. Since then we have 3 children together. I have had 2 affairs on my wife both which she ...

Two months after giving birth, I have no desire for sex. I'm scared he'll cheat!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - my husband and I just had a baby 2 months ago, but now i have no desire for sex. it's not that i don't love him, i love him more than life itself what is happening to me? i'm afraid he is going to cheat ! help me ...

Been thinking of sleeping with this guy... but know it will wreck my marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Hi, I've been with my husband for 7 years and we are married for almost 5 years now. We have a 6 year old son. I recently met this guy who is married for 2 years now at my work. Lately, we have been spending time together during lunch. This guy ...

I'm craving the affection my husband doesn't give me and have been offered it from my first love; what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I get no affection from my husband at all. We have been married 15 years. Recently I came in contact with my first love.I want to see him really badly. I'm not sure if this is the thing I should do since I have been getting alot of effection from my ...

I love my girlfriend, but sometimes I have very serious doubts about us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - Im 18 years old (female), and have been with my girlfriend on and off for 15 months. She cheated on me over xmas/january time, and after alot of agro i took her back. Her mum is a reformed jehovah's witness and contacting her is so hard as her m...

Should I give him a second chance after he cheated on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - I love this guy i been dateing for awhile.He cheated on me and i told him i didn't want to see him anymore.Well we did see eachother again just to talk and it was then he told me that he Loved me very much.Do you think i should give him a second ...

I have no idea what I should do about this. Can anyone help?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - I have no idea what I should do about this. After years of denying her feelings, my first love confessed how much she loved me. We originaly split up after she cheated on me and got her mate to call me while she was having sex with someone else. ...

I started dating a guy who is engaged but ended it recently, cos I know he's still going to marry his fiance; what do we do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 July 2007 (F) - so i have been seeing a guy frm work for about a year now, we started off as really good friends and we confided in eachother with everything... As time went on we become very close and basically could not go a day without seeing or speaking...

My wife is pregnant with her lover's child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

28 July 2007 (M) - My wife began an affair beginning in May of 2006 with a co-worker. I found out about it a couple of weeks later and confronted her. She said that she would stop seeing the guy, yet within a few weeks apparently continued the affair. I confronted her ...

I cheated on my fiance and his sister wants to beat me up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6326 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - i have just recently told my fiance that i cheated on him..he told his sister and now she wants to beat me up..shes 10 years older than me and im scared.what do i do?...

I am attracted to a colleague!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - I am in a relationship with someone I love very much, but in the course of the last year I have become tremendously attracted to a colleague at work. It is like a kind of recurrent malaria of the heart, in that it flares up for periods then dies ...

This guy I like, kisses his girlfriend and then looks at me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6326 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - i have two questions. first of all. this guy im starting to like. he keeps lookhng at we. we never talked to me. he has a gf. but she iritates him coz shes loud ,always yelling. he kisses her and then look at me. whats the chances of him liking me? ...

I saw a suspicious message on my wife's phone but she swears there's nothing in it; how can I trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - hi i'm having trouble with my wife, she doesnt live in the states she lives with my son currently 2thousand miles away, i saw a message on her cell phone from a guy friend of hers saying love you horney. and since then i have trouble trusting her, ...

She believed I was having an affair and we split.. I am devastated! Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - We were together and in love for 5 years and had decided to get married. We arranged everything including the airline tickets for her family to fly in from Brazil. However in the last year of our relationship she gradually became more suspicious of ...

Hes cheating with me, but wants to wait for his relationship to end naturally, How can I feel more at ease about this ??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - About three months ago, my boyfriend and I broke up, and a man that I had known and loved for five years (but never pursued it or said anything to anyone as he is attached and 18 years older) kissed me. Since then we have been seeing each othe...

I dont want to break up with my girl to date the other, but know it wont last in my current relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

27 July 2007 (M) - I Have an amazing girlfriend and i love her. But before I started dating her i met another girl. I cant get her out of my mind and she is truly everything in a girl i could ever want. I never asked her out because she had a Boyfriend. But they broke ...

The night we announced our engagement he went and saw a hooker!!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Hi, my partner and i have been together for 3 years we recently got engaged and today i found out that he went to a hooker the same night we told our friends and family the news.whats even worse is that the same day he got the hooker was the day we ...

Do I ditch the guy thats cheating on me with my best friend, even though I've been dying to date him!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - o.k well see,i found out my boyfriend iz cheating on me with my bestfriend!!!!!how do i kno?becuz not only did my friend tell that she saw them kissing and hugging n the movies,but hiz friend told me the same thang 2!!!! i kno it's tru cuz they were ...