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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I really like one of my best friends and we mess around and are together a lot but he has a girlfriend. At the same time she knows he cheats and he would rather spend time with me but continues to stay with her, what can I do?
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reader, LauraE  +, writes (30 July 2007):
You and your best friend need to start treating his girlfriend with a bit more respect. You should also consider this point – If he cheats on her, he will cheat on you. Leopards don’t change their spots. Don’t kid yourself that you are “special” and “the one” – that isn’t how it works with cheaters. No doubt you would do exactly the same to him if someone better came along. So actually, you probably deserve each other. I hope his girlfriend has the sense to dump him in the near future, and find someone more worth her valuable time.
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