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writes:I love this guy i been dateing for awhile.He cheated on me and i told him i didn't want to see him anymore.Well we did see eachother again just to talk and it was then he told me that he Loved me very much.Do you think i should give him a second chance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): Well i think he needs to prove to you that he really loves you... Than you can give him a good answer. You deffinetly deserve better than someone that cheated but sometimes people make mistakes and they can do better the second time. Make sure he doesn't see the person anymore though because that'll just make things worst for him and for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2007): in a word, no
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reader, Arianna0825  +, writes (29 July 2007):
It's your choice...and like someone else said.."once a cheater always a cheater.."I mean, I don't know your circumstances.. but could you ever have sex with a man who you know has been with another woman behind you back?Could you ever trust him?When he comes home late, that will be your first assumption, that he cheated again..It's hard to trust a guy after he's cheated on you, it makes you go crazy, not knowing exactly where he is at all times..I would think deeply before going back with him..
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007): DId he tell you that he loved you before he cheated or did he finally say it after the fact? He could be saying it because he truly messed up, realized it, and then relized what a wonderful girl u are and that he loves you. OR.....he could just be saying it to try and get u back since he messed up and not really mean it. It is true that only you can make this decision. Maybe if you write back with more details about his character and your past with him, I can help more. Hope I got you thinking atleast. Best of luck dear!
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reader, jtaunton5410 +, writes (28 July 2007):
 I dont really think so, if he loved you the way he says he does, then he would be happy to be with you and only you, not with another woman. Ever hear the phrase "once a cheater always a cheater"?
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (28 July 2007):
 Only you can make that decision, do you think he is worth it and you could trust him again?
Lots of us make mistakes, but sometimes i think if you take responsibilty for that mistake that in itself is worth a second chance.
Take care.xx.
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