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writes:it may be nothing but a few days ago i saw three different marks on my boyfriend's neck and collar bone and he says that two of them are bruises from where a shelf fell on him and the other one is a pinch mark when he was drunk (rather silly thing to do) but i am not sure how to tell if a girl really has been leaching on to his neck or if his reasons are genuine.... any ideas?
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reader, richka  +, writes (31 July 2007):
this is what to do investagat if he sleeping more in day time cheater ifnot and if he is act weird ever time you are asking cheater and if he is not paying atteion to youor just pushing away
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (31 July 2007):
 I'm guessing there's more going on here than you are detailing. Has he been acting suspicious otherwise? Is there a new girl at work that he's been flirting with? These are all questions only you can answer. I'd say at face value, you are jumping the gun over nothing. But if there have been other indicators going on that are making you leap to this conclusion, then keep your eyes open and see if anything else sparks your suspicions. If so you'll have to confront him eventually or hire a detective.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): In all honesty, the story about the shelf falling on him sounds very unbelievable.
if something fell on him how would it hit his neck and miss his head completely?
also... we cant really see our necks unless we look in the mirror, it sounds a bit like he has put too much thought into answering the question.
If you pay enough attention to the detail then its easy to spot a love bite from a bruise/pinch
hope i helped
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (31 July 2007):
 i agree with helpinghand,
In this situation because we cant see the cut/bruise it has to be about your trust of him. Do you?
If you do then its all ok
if you dont then sit him down and talk about it and your fears and you will get an answer.
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reader, HelpingHand7 +, writes (30 July 2007):
 ask yourself if you trust him if the answer is yes you have nothing to worry about however if it appears again than confront him about it. if the answer is no then sit him down and talk to him about it tell him u dont care what the answer is just as long as it is the truth.hope this help, keep me posted
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