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writes:im pregnant and an emotional wreck, i think things that i shouldnt. i dont know whats wrong. my husband is so supportive and kind to me but i snap on him and yell at him for no reason. i cry on everything but im not depressed. i think he is yelling at me when hes talking normal and i know he cares but at times i feel as im all alone and he doesnt care and doesnt love me. i got real clingy. i didnt want him to go to work one morning and cried when he left but i see now i acted like a fool but i have my moments were im me or real sweet than im crying asking him why he hates me and is so mean to me. i am 7 months pregnate and its been worse every week but it started when i was about 3 months could this be from me being pregnate or am i losing it? i feel as it stess him. think he dont so anything right that he cant make me happy but he does and i tell him that but i try to but at times i cant help but cry and he wants to know whats wrong. and i tell him how i feel and at that moment i do feel that way, like i felt he hated me was cheating on me with hes best friends gf because they went out for a coffee after work and i didnt feel like going at the time. i get bad night sickness but all the same i dont want to feel this way. my doctor said it wasnt anything a little love couldnt fix but im so scared im pushing him away what do i do?
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (4 August 2007):
 I seem to have back ache what ever mood I'm in right now. If the back pain is like a stabbing pain I would ring your midwife and chat to her about it. It may be nothing, but better to be safe then sorry :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsure thing just a question have u ever had real bad pains in your back while being upset?
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (3 August 2007):
You're very welcome hunni :)
If you want to chat anytime about anything then drop me a line :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you too all that have helped me and a really big thanks to yummymummy your help was great and were slowly but surely getting things together
loves to all
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (30 July 2007):
I'm glad things are ok hun.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for all your advise well i talked to my husban he understands some what but is trien to do things more to take stress off me and make me feel more loved but im stable right now just hungry lol right now im getting treated to dinner and a movie, hes so loving the thing is he had this planned before i told him what was going on he said he doesnt feel pushed just not sure what to do but is trien and i know he really cares which i told him and all is well for now i did cry but he did to so i didnt feel as bad but he called me a whole lot more to check up on me today but thanks for the feed backit really helped me open up to him and hes wanting to take me shopping for more baby clothes and a car seat tom. instead of going to work and letting me go with my mom hes taking me and taking the day off just for me and our son he said so im kinda excited to spend to much need time with him, xoxoxoxoxox hugs and luvs to all
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reader, angel-kate +, writes (29 July 2007):
 its just female hormones, you should sit him down and explain that he is very surportive and helpful, but its just your hormones making you snap at him.maybe you should show him your e-mail/letter, that will explain it all to him.most women are like this when pregant so its nothing to worry about.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (29 July 2007):
I'm 6 months pregnant at the moment hunni and I get days where I just break down and cry to. This is perfectly normal, though at the time you do feel it is as far from normal as it can get.
Your husband DOES love you and he DOES care or he wouldn't still be there. Have you tried chatting to him about you feel. Try explaining you insecurities and you are scared that you are going to push him away. If he knows what's going on in your head then he may be able to help and won't feel pushed away.
My partner felt pushed away and cut off from the pregnancy so I try to tell him everything that goes on. When baby kicks, when she doesn't or whatever.
I have clingy days too and it does annoy my partner but he knows it's just my hormones on the go and the loopy things pregnancy does to us. You weren't acting a fool for crying after your husband left for work. Honestly. I cried in a supermarket after my guy left me to go and draw some money out and I didn't want to be left on my own although he was only like 2 minutes!
You are in no way loosing it at all. As I said, sit down and talk through how you feel with your husband. You may find, like me you feel a whole deal better after. Also try talking to your mum. I chatted to her aswell to get a female perspective on being pregnant and it helped a lot.
I hope this helped and if you want to chat more then drop me a message :)
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