A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have been with my boybriend for 6 years and we have twin girls together. We have not had a very good relationship. We have a mutual friend and about two years ago I started to develop feeling for him. I tried to forget about him and the feeling but couldn't and one day he told me he had feeling for me. He is all I thnk about and we have talked about being together but do not want to hurt my boyfriend or his girlfriend. What should I do or how should I go about this? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, Basschick +, writes (30 July 2007):
Do what you can to improve your current relationship. Go to counseling if necessary, for your kids sake. But don't start anything up with anyone until you've come to the conclusion that your current relationship is beyond hope. Then end it, move out, make arrangements for vistation rights and then you will be free to see someone else.
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