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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I'm 17 and am in my first relationship that has become sexual. My boyfriend (18)and I have been together since February of this year but I was told by a not-so-close guy friend (who doesn't like my boyfriend but has no known interest in me) that a girl told him that she had sex with him in late May (after we started having sex).I believed him when he said it was a lie because of other elements of the girls story that I knew weren't true because of timing. However, a few days ago I was around when a guy said he heard about he and the girl hooking up and now it is bothering me again. I don't know the girl personally, so I cannot speak to her about the incident.Should I believe him and let it go? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007): Walk away from the peson that you are in love with and move on
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (31 July 2007):
Yep, you should. All you have is hearsay.
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reader, A lullaby to paralyze +, writes (31 July 2007):
I think its more likely you should let it go,
the 'not-so-close guy mate' could have a thing for you, you cant rule that out as a possibility, and it doesnt sound like he is close enough to worry about ruining your friendship.
If youve been dating him for almost half a year and its going well, then dont ruin it by becoming suspicious.
Hope Ive helped
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