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Archived questions from: November, 2005 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

The man who loves me is married. He says he's never fallen for anyone else, not even his wife!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - I have fallen head over heels with a married man. I've known him for years, and always fancied him but never ever thought he would feel the same. Only a few weeks ago did he tell me that he loves me. He honestly said he didn't fall in love with his...

The revelation of my wife's affair has ripped the trust out of our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6900 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - I need help from the ladies out there. How do I know if I can believe my wife will not have another affair? We are in our early 30's and have been together 8 years, married for 3 and have 3 kids (one is hers from a past relationship). ...

Is she cheating on me? The signs are there but I don't know for sure.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

30 November 2005 (M) - Hi,I am a 23 year old guy,and my girlfriend is 19 and we been together for 5 years,we are having some problems. It first started out 2 months ago she was at work and she let some guy use her car and I had to find out myself about it,and then she had ...

My husband had an affair and watches porn.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6867 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - My husband has been lying to me, watching porn alone and has had a affair. what is wrong? ...

She said my bf cheated with her. He denied it... but wouldn't agree to confronting her with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6919 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 8 months. I was surfing this website one day and I wanted to see if he was on it too. It turned he was. I clicked on the person he had in his friend's list. While reading the things she posted, I ...

Can you be in love with someone yet cheat on them?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 2593 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Is it possible for a bloke to cheat on his wife/ fiance and still be in love with her? Can you still be in love with someone and cheat on them?...

The man who keeps telling me he loves me keeps dumping me for his "friend"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6931 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I've started dating a guy about 5 months ago. When I met he told me about a friend that he had for 4yrs...a friend that he had been having sex with. She was in love with him but he wasn't in love with her. That she understood their relationship and ...

My girlfriend has been sleeping with my grandfather!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6901 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - I am 18 and my girlfriend is 16. Recently I found out she has been sleeping with my grandfather, and I feel so disgusted. What should I do?? Jason...

My bf's mate is so hot and I'm tempted to cheat.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Ok. my boyfriend doesn't pressure me to have sex, we're rather content in our relationship, I'm VERY infatuated with him, but his friend and I are more in sync, I really have the hots for this friend, he understands me, he's hot and he's really ...

How do I end the flirting with my online friend without hurting her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6932 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - I have got myself into a bit of trouble,or could do if i can't break my habit.I have been playing on my webcam with a lady for the past month and she thinks i am single and want to meet her,she is married as well but says she doesn't love her ...

How do I remain faithful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6903 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - I need help. My fiance just found out about me having an affair and now everything is off. She had every right to break up with me but I want to change. I've never had an affair before and I was dedicated to her for several years without ever ...

He confided to me that he cheated on his gf-I like her so what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6933 days ago

27 November 2005 (M) - I currently live with an old mate, and his girlfriend. I have known my mate for 5 years, and we've always got on fine and had no arguments or issues to speak of. Recently, he admitted to me he has cheated on his girlfriend. I am disappointed in the ...

I love him but don't trust him...what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6933 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - Four weeks ago, I found out my boyfriend cheated on me a thid time. Says he didn't have sex with the girl but was wearing a condom. Turns out she said she no longer wanted to have sex with him but he claims that if he really wanted to have sex with ...

He had flings with family members but I'm not allowed to confront them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6933 days ago

27 November 2005 (F) - i have been split up with my husband for 10 months, we are going through a divorce. my husband has just recently confessed that he had a string of one night stands during our marrage what hurts the most is that one of them was with my brothers...

How do we go back to how things were though she cheated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6933 days ago

27 November 2005 (M) - 3 days ago I discovered my partner of 5 years was seeing someone else. I still desperately love her, and want to get over this and get back together. She has been seeing him for a month and says that while she still has feelings for me, she loves ...

Mum is having an affair...do I confront her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6933 days ago

27 November 2005 (M) - I have recently found out my mum is having an affair. My parents have never really got on in the past 10 years. I dont know weather or not to confront her or even mention it to my brother. Please help...

My husband suspects I had an affair. Now he's always questioning me and I'm denying everything.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - I have been married for sixteen years and have two children. I have been having an affair with a married man for the past two years. It has been on and off during those two years. We were friends for about seven years and it evolved into more. I ...

I gave my virginity to my boyfriend 3 years ago so will he notice I had sex with someone else, recently?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6745 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - i broke my viginity 3yrs ago and i'm still with the same guy. today i had sex with someone else. will my boyfriend of 3years notice that i had sex with someone else! i've only known him....

My girlfriend has a profile on a dating site, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - Yesterday I found a dating website on my girlfriend of 3+ year's browser history that she has been going to that she said she stopped frequenting after our first year together. I clicked on it and she was still signed in. Curious, I just clicked on ...

My wife had a past lover she kept a secret for eleven years

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6935 days ago

25 November 2005 (M) - about 3 weeks ago my wife told me she had slept with someone she had kept secret for eleven years.i knew how many people she had slept with , but why she never told me is a mystery , i think she done it while with me thats why the name was never ...

My lying, cheating ex husband is making our life hell

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6936 days ago

24 November 2005 (F) - I feel like a total let down to myself. I have four children but my husband led a double life for six years telling lie after lie and even arranging a marriage with some else who he has a child with. I took him back and it was lovely to have a...

Two guys in my life. Neither is perfect, but sex with the other guy is irresistable!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6936 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - I’ve been Best friends with my ex roommate for about 5 yrs and approx 3 yrs ago while we were living together, we ended up having sex a couple times. We decided that we didn’t want to risk our friendship so we stopped and remained friends. It’s b...

My girlfriend doesn't trust me cos I flirted with her cousin...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6925 days ago

22 November 2005 (M) - hi , my ques is a little long but i really need help. as i am in love with my girl and i have done a sin and am really paying for it. i dont wanna loose her.pls help me, ok here goes: i wanted to tell u about my story. i have been in love with...

I slept with someone else...do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two and half years and I love him very much. But this weekend I went to see my friend and I slept with another guy. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend, but I feel that I need to tell him ...

We both want to move past the hurt of my girlfriend's cheating...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6939 days ago

21 November 2005 (M) - About a month ago, my girlfriend confessed to having an affair that began last summer. We had been living together for the last 5 years, but a new job 1 1/2 hours away forced me to relocate. We still dated on weekends and remained intimate and ...

She says she won't cheat ever again, but she still sees the guy she cheated with at social gatherings!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

21 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend has cheated on me more than once. She says she will never cheat on me again and has been going to counseling. My problem is that she works with the guy she cheated with and a lot of her friends hang out with this guy. She promise...

My boyfriend is having an affair... and she's not even cuter or younger than me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6938 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I am 19 and my boyfriend is 22. I have just found out he has been having an affair with an obese old woman in her 50's for 3 months now, and I feel inadequate and I worry about if he will come back to me or not. What do I do about the affair? J...

I cheated, but promised my girlfriend I'd tell if I ever did. Now what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6919 days ago

20 November 2005 (M) - This might be a long read, sorry about that, I hope Irish could advice on this, you seem like a very intelligent and mature woman. I'm a 25 year old male and I've quite recently messed up completely (like so many other stupid stupid men). Thr...

My ex will take me back, but what if I miss a chance with a new man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6939 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I need help. Fisrt I'll give you the run down of the situation. I cheated on my ex-boyfriend *Colin (* = not real name) so he obviuously broke up with me. I was very regretful and begged and begged for him to take me back but he refused. So one ...

My husband has been chatting on porn sites and that's cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6940 days ago

19 November 2005 (F) - I just found out my husband is chatting with live porn girls on the computer. He has been doing this for five months secretly. He does not know I know yet. We have been married eight years and I want a divorce. It is cheating, isn't it?...

I cheated and every time my boyfriend remembers it, it hurts us both...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6933 days ago

18 November 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for four years and everything was going on well until I cheated on my boyfriend. He found out and till this day my life has been really hurtfull. He told that it was going to take time for him to forget and I agreed to ...

Awkward situation ahead. Should I completely avoid the woman I cheated with when we're at a ball together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6941 days ago

18 November 2005 (M) - Six months ago when I was on a college fieldtrip and a bit low on confidence I cheated on my girlfriend (GF) of (2yrs) with a coursemate (CM). I came clean straight away and although it has been difficult we are now as strong as ever. However b...

She's married with kids and not in love with me, but I want more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6935 days ago

18 November 2005 (M) - Hi. I am a single 20 yr old Male. I am in love with a woman who is 40 yrs old. She is married with kids. But I am worried because we are best friends and have been for nearly 2 years now. I am certain she is not in love with me. But I want more. I ...

We've had some hard times in our five years together, but is it time to move on now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6936 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I am in a relationship which has so far lasted 5 years. My partner and I have not had an easy run at things, yet I refuse to give up on a relationship which does have some really good times. I have noticed that I have given up all the goo...

I love my wife, but since she's cheated twice, I just don't know if I trust her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6943 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been cheated twice by my wife. We have two lovely kids aged 9 and 10. I truly love my wife but I am now not sure whether I will be able to trust her again. She says she still loves me and wants to keep the family together....

Had to give up the sneaking around on our partners, but my ex lover won't take No for an answer!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6944 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - I wonder if anyone can help me? I have just broken up with a man I was having an affair with. He has a partner and I'm a married woman. We did fall in love but I felt that we couldn't keep seeing each other because it wasn't fair on our partners and ...

My fiance is so concerned that I might not be happy with him that he's driving me nuts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6938 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 2 years now. We have known each other for 10 years before we got together. Last year he was in and out of jail. The last time he was in, there was talk of prison. So I made a really big mistake; I cheated ...

Do I really make my fiancee happy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6944 days ago

16 November 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a 23 year old man who is uncertain about how my fiancee feels about me anymore. A few months ago I was put in jail for about a week for mistakes I have made in the past. While I was detained my fiancee slept with my best fri...

I feel like my husband's maid... or his mum!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6945 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - My partner has never showed any affection or there has never been any romance in the relationship. He is not very thoughtful either. If I'm unwell he doesn't bother asking if I want a drink or anything. Sometimes I've known him not to even kiss me ...

Can I trust what my husband tells me about his aunt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6946 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - Long story, 2 quick questions. Can I trust him? And Is he cheating on me? My husband and I have been together for almost 5 years now. When I met my husband, he was living in his own house and his aunt lived with him. She has been all but disowned...

He says that once my kids are grown, he'll leave his wife and we'll be together...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6945 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - I'm married with 3 children but for the last 2yrs I have been having an affair. He has a partner who is 25yrs older then him and he has noticed the age difference. They dont have sex anymore, so it's more of a platonic relationship. I have hinted t...

Does my fiance really love me, or is it just my financial support?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6946 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my fiance since 7.4.2000 and in this time he has been unfaithful once, but I have still allowed him in my life. I do love him, but I feel tired of supporting someone other than my 3 children (2 mine, 1 ours), whom is ...

Am I wrong in worrying about all the uncertainties in our relationship, just 7 months before the marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6951 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - Please help, Im scared.... I have never been so in love with anyone and have truley Lucked out in finding my guy...Except Im due to be married in 7 months and My fiance is basicallly unsure about next week.... I have had an issue with Trust re...

I found out my fiance went to a prostitute and I've completely lost trust in him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6931 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, My fiance of almost a year (dating over 5 years) confessed to me three days ago that he slept with an escort while out of town last weekend. He has never done this before, and is extremely guilty and remorseful. He swears never to ...

I had sex with a guy I don't even love. Then his girlfriend blackmailed me to my boyfriend...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6949 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - I dont know what to do. Me and my boyfriend were only dating for about 3 months but we were so in love. It was like love at first sight when we first met. Then he told me he wouldn't be able to come here anymore until winter was over (he lives in ...

I've never been attracted to my husband, and his attempt at infidelity with my best friend seems like the last straw...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6947 days ago

9 November 2005 (F) - I am in need of some advice as soon a possible. This is going to be long but please take the time to read my story. Let's see where do I start? I met my husband when I was 20 years old. I am currently 31. I didn't find him attractive but he was ...

I know the woman I love is bad for me, but I'm afraid that I'll never find someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6950 days ago

9 November 2005 (M) - Sorry for the length of this. I can't find any way to tell my whole situation without going into this much detail. Anyway, here's the situation. Dated a girl for 5 years. We're both 23. We met in college, she had an abusive boyfriend from whom I ...

My husband claims his definition of cheating is different to mine, so it's not cheating...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - Cheated on and dont know what to do? My husband was recently discovered to be having a secret companion that kept him so involved in her day to day activities with her and her husband that he forgot my birthday. The children were the ones to disc...

Lack of sex has driven me into the arms of my partner's best friend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6937 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I have been with my boyfreind for 4 years, I love him with all my soul but when it comes to sex, he has no interest. When we first started dating we had great sex but not anymore. I've tried everything to spice up our sex life and nothing seemed to ...

Neither of us expected our affair with married partners to become so intense...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6950 days ago

8 November 2005 (M) - I have been having an affair with a married woman for nearly 18 months. I am also married and my wife is away a lot of the time. We were together one evening when she started crying and said she didn't want to go home. Then, the following day she ...