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writes: I am 18 and my girlfriend is 16.Recently I found out she has been sleeping with my grandfather, and I feel so disgusted.What should I do??Jason Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2005): Get rid of her unless you find her is pressuring her to do this. If he is then deal with that issue and let her be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2005): i think u should get rid of her for a start!!! and talk to yor grandfather, see if you can 4give him. they have both betrayed u. dont let anyone treat u like that xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2005): i think you have a big misunderstanding because why would you girl want to sleep with a old man who is 60 70 and your grandads wise i tink heknows what is right or wrong and if not i hope he knows what his age is
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (29 November 2005):
 I am not surprised you feel disgusted. Have you spoken to your grandfather? Does he understand not only what he has done to your relationship but obviously how young this girl is and therefore how out of order and disgraceful his behaviour is?
She isn't underage (in this country) otherwise you could report him as his behaviour is somewhat paedophiliac in nature.
Do other family members know? If they don't, let them know. Seek support from others. I'm afraid that your girlfriend will get hurt as this man should be with someone closer to his age and the fact that she is your girlfriend makes the situation even more vile.
Talk to your girlfriend and ask her what she feels about all this. I don't know what her reasons are for sleeping with someone so much older than herself but I'm sure her family wouldn't be at all impressed.
Consider finally the possibility that she isn't trustworthy and hasn't matured yet and that maybe she ought to be part of your past as a result of this.
I am sorry this has happened but I do very much hope this advice helps.
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