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writes: hi ,my ques is a little long but i really need help. as i am in love with my girl and i have done a sin and am really paying for it. i dont wanna loose her.pls help me,ok here goes:i wanted to tell u about my story.i have been in love with my girl since day one,its been 5 years. i am from a normal family and shes from a rich one. for 5 years everything was goin good. i never ever saw or thought about anyone. all i could was talk about her and also gave her all the importance needed.4 months back our relationship was soo messed up because of our differences. maybe i did not have a job for 6 months. or maybe i dont look good. so i thought maybe she would be better off with someone else.as maybe i am not keeping her happy.so i thought of maybe if she starts hating me then she would go away from me.i started talking rude to her,but our love was so strong that i could not even talk to her rudely for a week. i love her a lot.i had to take an extreme step so i knew her cousin used to be online chatting.so one day i got her id from my girls email a/c. and then i started tot talk to her with a fake name. i dont know what i was getting into.first it was net then phone talks but i realised that i am messing up a thing that can be handeled with talks so i started avoiding her and she used to call me like 25 - 30 times in one go and i was forced to switch off my phone.but i made a big mistake of talking intimate with her.as i thought maybe this will push her to the limits.then she found out one day before i got a chance to end everything. i thought that maybe i wont talk to her after she abused me and stuff but i just cant live without her.now shes back with me and we r happy but i know its very hard for her to forget everything and we r trying. but the problem is that when ever her cousin comes in front or calls her things r back to square one.i told her that i never ever wanted to meet her or have any physical and emotional realtionship with her. i know it sounds made up but god knows its all true.i love her and wanna marry her. what should i do to make her trust me again.pls helploveTamul
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2005): TRY AND TALK TO HER WHEN YOU GUYS FIRST MET AND ASK HER IF SHE LIKES TO GO BACK WHERE YOU WERE BEFORE
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