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writes: About a month ago, my girlfriend confessed to having an affair that began last summer. We had been living together for the last 5 years, but a new job 1 1/2 hours away forced me to relocate. We still dated on weekends and remained intimate and involved. She says she felt deserted and that our commitment was weakened. The guilt overcame her, she confessed and ended the affair and re-commited herself to me. For the past 3 weeks she has showered me with her love in an attempt to heal things. I still really do love her, but feel really hurt. How do I put it behind me and continue move forward in a relationship?
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (21 November 2005):
Hmm! she was unhappy being on her own and a handsome knight drove up in his white Porsche and whisked her away. She came alive with the excitement and passion she felt and boring old you simply grunted schlumped in front of the TV when she wanted to party. Didnt you notice any little changes in her? Well! there you go then, you broke up because the relationship was broken.Thats why its called a break up.Suggest meeting up like a new couple, put the spark back in your relationship by planning new places to go to/things to see and do and dont always hop into the sack. Anticipation is the key to getting back the va-va-voom in your relationship. Stop trying to make it exactly as it was before she made her confession. Treat each other like new people just met.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2005): the only way you can move on is to wipe the slate clean and start from the begining take it slow, know what i mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2005): forgive her! if you can't move on
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