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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for four years and everything was going on well until I cheated on my boyfriend. He found out and till this day my life has been really hurtfull. He told that it was going to take time for him to forget and I agreed to it, but every time he remembers what happen he throws it in my face. Being in this situation really hurts but I love him and I'm willing to be with him all the way through. I just need some suggestions. How can I get through this without hurting myself and hurting him even more?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2005): I understand exactly what your boyfriend is going through. It really hurts and at this point you just have to be patient and do whatever you need to do that will make him trust you again. It will take time. Just continue to show him how much you care and try not to do or say anthing that is suspicious because at this point he will suspect everything you do. I know because my boyfriend of three years cheated on me and we are going through the same thing.
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (19 November 2005):
 You have to understand how hard this is on him. Because you are the offender in this situation, your feelings have to take the back burner. He may even need to seek rpeofessional counseling to deal with the emotions he is feeling from this. You need to make sure you are doing everything you can to show him that you love him and will not hurt him like that again.
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