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writes: Hi,I am a 23 year old guy,and my girlfriend is 19 and we been together for 5 years,we are having some problems. It first started out 2 months ago she was at work and she let some guy use her car and I had to find out myself about it,and then she had the guy that was using her car in her cellphone,she had his name as 'erica' to make it seem like a girlfriend,she now keeps her cell phone away from me and keeps it in her pocket at all times when im with her,and she changed the phone to vibrate instead of ring?I gave her alot of pressure everyday about if she was talking to him,cheatin on me for 2 whole months and she says im going crazy and she is having to much stress about this she said just drop it already.But something is telling me otherwise,she says she loves me and we need space? we where tryin to have kids and everything before that and now everything has changed and she says we need to wait on having kids,could it be that im giving her to much stress? do you think she is talking to someone else? This is really bugging me. Thank You
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007): sorry but seems to me that she is cheating on you
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2006): Man to tell the truth im not a hundred percent sure but that is the way my girlfriend is acting and ive caught her talking to this bastard that i hate more than anything behind my back but she dont tell ive seen it and been told by other people that she talkes to him all the time im not around so man i woould be very carefull and keep a big eye on her.
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reader, Monk +, writes (1 December 2005):
she;s boinking him. move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2005): Is your girlfriend the kind of person that would lie to you? Only you can know the answer to that question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2005): First of all it is my opinion that your girlfriend is far too young to be thinking about having children, and you're very young as well. I think that you both need some time to have a relationship together before bringing children into the eqation. It might sound fun and mature having kids, and i'm sure it is fun when the time is right..but the fact is that children are a 24 hour responsibility and if your feeling insecure about your relationship now or your girlfriend is feeling tied down or whatever, then how to you think its going to be when you have children. Your girlfriend is saying she wants some space, but imagine how much harder that would be for you if she had your child and was wanting some space away from you, which would mean that you may not see your kid for a while. I think you should stop pressurising her into feeling tied down, it sounds like your a bit suffocating, just relax and calm down a bit and give her some freedom!
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