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Archived questions from: May, 2014 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

How do I prepare myself for the breakup? And should we stay friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - For the past year and 7 months, I've been involved with this guy. Even though it's been a rough year, I've gotten really attached to him- I lost my virginity to him and everything. However it's become more and more apparent he isn't "ready" or...

Should I stay friends with him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3855 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - I met a man about a year ago and became close friends. There was clearly chemistry and after a few months things progressed, we slept together and started hanging out a lot more. Things only got physical 5 or 6 times before it became obvious that I ...

I'm done with dating and want no more to do with women!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3856 days ago

31 May 2014 (M) - I don't even know when to begin...it's like every time I try I somehow get used. My troubles started four girls ago and yet somehow I haven't learned my lesson. Let me tell you about myself; I'm twenty-three, college graduate, and living at home. I ...

Painful breakup and I can't seem to move on, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - It's been well over 5 months since we broke up. We were together for 2 years and were childhood friends too so we know each other's deepest corners. We've been through so much and I know in my heart that I will always love him, and I also know that ...

Broke up with my cheating boyfriend and now I am pregnant, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I have just found out that i am pregnant and i am absolutely devastated. My ex put me through hell for the past 2 1/2 years with constant lies, cheating and disrespect. He has alot of issue with porn addiction gambling etc and is involved in crim...

I cheated on my long-term girlfriend after we became long-distance. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

30 May 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 24 year old male and I've dated the same girl since high school for over 7 years. Words can't describe how much I love this person and I still do. Almost 2 years ago, she moved to Europe for medical studies because she didn...

Dumped, why am I so upset by this? A normal person would be running for the hills.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - I have been gong through a very difficult time these past few months. I had recently broken up with the biggest Casanova I'd ever dated (he had kids and a wife etc.)So a few months later I meet what I thought was my knight in shining armor, boy was ...

My question is why some lasses follow you around when you give up on them? Give her a second chance or will that lead to heartbreak?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

29 May 2014 (M) - Hi I was sort of knowing a girl and dating her but I felt she was a bit cold and distant so I thought she's not interested and moved on! To tell you further, I actually liked her a lot and it was sort of heartbreaking to move on! Surely it took s...

Did I over react when I dumped him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend - I guess now ex boyfriend - is in his late 40s. We were dating a year and a half - exclusive for a year and 3 months. Over that time, I brought up the future several times. I want marriage and a kid and am ready to start nesting. He ...

How can I have a conversation with him about this without being arrested for a domestic dispute?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3858 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - After 25 years of marriage I have come to realize my husband is a liar...about big and small things. I do not trust him at all, and I find it difficult to believe anything he tells me, even if it's about the weather!! I want to confront him abo...

Should I ditch my boyfriend of 3 years because he's moving to NYC for a year or two?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - My bf of 3yrs is going to NYC for 1yr (maybe 2) He is 25 and I will be 30 this year. At first I was supportive. That he applied to go and got through. Now he is leaving in 2dys and when I think of it I get angry. He expects it will be fine and...

How hard should I try to make this relationship work, even though he has a fear of commitment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - My current boyfriend and I have a very romantic and dramatic start. Now we have around one year and a half dating. It's my second longest relationship and i'm very proud and happy since i went through a lot of frogs back in the day. The proble...

He was my first love. But drugs rule his life. How can I stop loving him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 27 years old female, when I was 15 I met a boy who was 16, just one year older than me, he was my high school sweetheart, we spent many years together after, we went to different universities I studied engineering and ...

Don't like being friend with my ex, but there is no way

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3851 days ago

26 May 2014 (M) - Hi everybody, Since ever the one in the group that is single and always dating new girls and all the past relations were like heaven. Everybody likes me, even my ex-girlfriends and I love everybody, I was happy. There was a girl whom I always lik...

I feel betrayed, and I want to be happy again. How can I get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

26 May 2014 (M) - Ok my question is how do i get over a relationship that i just got betrayed and put all my effort into. i feel heartbroken and miserable every night i have been drinking every day and i still cant get over this. i look on social media and she is p...

What kind of man lies like that?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3741 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for the last couple of years. The connection seemed to be undeniable. He committed to me giving me an expensive piece of jewelry. We connected on FB. After little time, I realized that the immense majority of his friends ...

She said she don't love me no more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3863 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - My now ex and I have been on and off for 4 years now. Last year we split because she accused me of cheating and to me it felt like she wanted to be single so she didn't have to go with me places. She got pregnant early into our relationship, which ...

I'm thinking of splitting up with my boyfriend but I just can't, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years now and it's just fizzled out on my end and I don't know why, he's caring, loving, respectful and everything a person could ask for. It just started very rocky with some horrible behaviour when i ...

My partner of 7 years left me. I am trying to give him space but I want to start again from the beginning.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - My partner has just broke up with me 11 days ago. We where together 7 years and have lived together for most of this. in the last 3/4 months we where planning on moving abroad to work for the summer. we gave up are house and moved in with his mum ...

I don't want to be unkind, but really the relationship is over

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - hi, I've been seeing my bf for 4 years, we've been very close over the years, although not particularly intimate as he wouldn't stay over very often. because of this, when he wanted to move in last year I wouldn't let him until intimacy improved but ...

We broke up cause he's sick and tired of the argument. Is it already over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - My ex broke up with me last month as he is just very sick and tired of arguing. He said he thought about it for very long and that it would be better for us. Our relationship was one full of arguments and breakups/makeups the same day, mainly due to ...

I drunk-dialed him, HUGE mistake. How do I get over that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - I'd been kind of seeing a guy for about the last six months. Nothing serious, just a lot of chatting and the occasional hookup. The problem is, I REALLY like him and I was beginning to get frustrated with him not seeming to want to commit. Last week ...

I broke up with my LDR b/f because I wanted to date in real life. Should I not done so?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship for a little less than a year. My ex (feels weird to write that) was in a different country. I was very fond of him, I cared about him, and I know some people wouldn't call it love, but I loved him. I never met ...

I cant stand my girlfriend anymore but hate breaking up when she's at such a bad place in her life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - *First off, just for clarification purposes, I am a female, 21 years old, and I'm in a relationship with another girl. When I first met my girlfriend, it felt like something straight out of the movies. We were very much in love with each other ...

If you initiated the breakup how did you feel afterwards?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - My 11-month relationship ended a week and a half ago. It started with me bringing up his gaming habits and completely ignoring me. He did this during our 5-6 month phase. He talked about it then, and he said he does it because he doesn't know wha...

Is he playing games with my head and heart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - HI all I am sorry if this is a bit long but I need to get this off my chest and hope to understand a bit better. I first started dating my partner a year ago next week. In the begining he told me he was with someone but has not seen her for...

How do I get him to express his love for me? He and his family withdrew the marriage proposal because of my health!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - Hi Agony aunts there, I met a guy a month ago through matrimonial site for marriage alliance.he is 6 years elder to me,both our families met and we both liked each other.After our meet he pinged me in Facebook and we were having short conversa...

Anyone else have a narcissist in their lives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - I was just wondering if anyone else has ever discovered that there ex partner may of been a narcissit? I have been out of a long on/off reletionship for almost a year and have read up alot on narcissim. I believe my ex is just that! I knew him...

I have no idea what I've been doing wrong in all my relationships with men, they never want to define the relationship with and never wanna move forward.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3866 days ago

21 May 2014 (F) - Today the guy im seeing and I decided to go our separate ways. We had been seeing each other 6 months and I decided to ask the defining questions "when do you wanna meet my friends, come for a drink Saturday";"my mother really wants to meet you, how ...

After 6 months of a great relationship my girlfriend wanted to break up

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

21 May 2014 (M) - Ive been dating this girl for 7 months now and everything was great we hardly faught we had great sex and we went out and had fun , right before the summer started she wanted to talk and said she was not ready for this relationship , she said a ...

What's a subtle way of saying "I miss you", without sounding too needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

20 May 2014 (F) - About 2 months ago, I was dating someone who I really felt a connection with and was falling for him (this rarely happens) and he felt the same way too. However because he came out of a long term relationship at the end of last year, he told me...

I'm having a hard time processing the sudden break up. What are ways that I can cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

20 May 2014 (F) - 2 weeks ago I found out that my significant other had several profiles made on those seedy sex websites you click on by accident while watching porn. I stumbled upon it really not wanting to find it. His youtube channels username is some how linked ...

Should I try again with my ex? We have 2 daughters and have been apart for 4 years.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

19 May 2014 (F) - My question is whether it is a good idea to try have a relationship with an ex again when there is children involved? My ex wants to get back together after 4 years apart, and even though I would like to try, I have a fear it would affect our...

Should I cut contact altogether with him? He's an unappealing combination of arrogance and cheesiness.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

19 May 2014 (F) - The guy I used to date and I are talking now, just as friends. We had an abrupt break up so now we are just exchanging friendly emails to catch up, I guess. I never went beyond friendly because I thought that after almost a year of not seeing each ...

How do I get over all this hurt and move on from this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I'm just looking for a bit of advice, I'm really hurting and angry infact confused and I just don't know how to get over this or move on from it. I'll tell u briefly about the history. 3 years with a guy a few years older than me (3...

Even though we've broken up he still tries to control me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - Hi and thanks My ex boyfriend and I had a roller coaster relationship. Our first time around he was on a dating site our whole 8 month relationship plus admitted to having feelings for his ex plus cheated so many times I can't count that high....

How come my ex never feels sorry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - My ex and I were long distance. He's a social butterfly and he's loud and I know how he acts around people. I know he couldn't put up with the loneliness if I wasn't there with him, so I used to ask him to let me know if he had feelings for someone ...

Does this mean it's over?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

17 May 2014 (F) - My boyfriend (of 2 years) and I had an argument last week. The argument was mainly because i started noticing that my boyfriend has been ignoring me lately, reading my texts and not responding, he even ignored me for a whole day. Throughout our ...

Found out I was pregnant after we broke up

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

17 May 2014 (F) - I have a lot to deal with right now. Some days I'm fine just going about my day, then everything comes back to me and i feel overwhelmed and depressed again. I'm 18 weeks pregnant with my ex's baby. We broke up before i even knew i was pregnant. I...

He broke up with me 4 years ago to travel then changed his mind. Now he's saying the same things again. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

16 May 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. I would really appreciate some advice because I'm not sure what to do here. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years in total. After 1 year together, just after he graduated from uni, he ended things because he wanted to go ...

What does it mean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

14 May 2014 (F) - What does it mean when a guy does these things? What does it mean? So my boyfriend of 9 months (we didn't have sex) started acting distant and irritated with me and I couldn't stop hurting:( He'd ignore me for days when we argue and get ...

What should I make of his regretting breaking up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

13 May 2014 (F) - My ex broke up with me 2 days. He's been under a lot of stress with everything from work to friends to our relationship. The last thing he wants to do is to think. So he indulges in computer games and neglecting me. This is not the first time that ...

Is it time to close the door on my current relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

12 May 2014 (F) - my relationship seems to be on the rocks with my boyfriend of over three years. I have a 5year old daughter from a previous relationship, which ended because i couldn't take anymore lies, disrespectful behavior which of course lead to dist...

I need help in moving on from a nasty breakup.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

12 May 2014 (F) - Hi. I really really need help. I was in a relationship with this guy for 5 years. I loved him way too much and endured a lot for him. I forgave all his blunders but when I made a mistake of fighting, he dumped me. I made so many efforts to ...

Post Break-Up Blues....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

12 May 2014 (F) - Hi all So I met this guy through my friend and we started hanging out a lot. Anyway, so I really liked him as a friend and I had just come out of a painful breakup so I was strictly not looking for anything. He started liking me and started to...

Best friend gossiping to ex behind my back

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

11 May 2014 (F) - Hey Everyone, I broke down few weeks ago because I found out that my bestfriend of 10 years has been contacting with my ex. I didn't know how she got his number (maybe facebook) but she's been contacting and telling information about me behind ...

I told her I couldn't be with her anymore because she is married and she didn't take it well!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

10 May 2014 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been dating a married woman who is in a same-sex marriage. We have only been dating for a month and a half and I have already fallen for her. We have done a lot of stuff together and she has never treated me as her mistress. ...

Will he grow out of his stubbornness? Or is this just something I'll have to get used to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

10 May 2014 (F) - Hi everybody. Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years, but we recently had a 'break' from the relationship. We've been together since we were 17 years old and everybody always used to say that we would be the couple that would be ch...

Is he seeing someone else where he lives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

10 May 2014 (F) - Ive been told by his mates that hes seeing somone else where he lives. Ive confronted him about it and all he says is no im not I was even told her name which I looked on fb and it says shes in a new relationship, he doesnt have a fb pg so I cant ...

Should I leave my boyfriend? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

10 May 2014 (F) - Hello. I would so appreciate if someone could give me advice on my problem as I really don't know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years, I am 22 he is 24, we have been going out since our teens. We didn't have the best relationshi...