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*amantha1
writes:Hi Agony aunts there,I met a guy a month ago through matrimonial site for marriage alliance.he is 6 years elder to me,both our families met and we both liked each other.After our meet he pinged me in Facebook and we were having short conversations.i told about my health problem(Wilson disesase) cuz i anted to be honest to him. He din reply well to me for 3 days then he said "i dont ant to give up on you and let me consult a doc".After Few days he said No to me and his family withdrew the marriage proposal.Now all that has come to an end i still have some feeling for him.From the past one week we exchanged our phone numbers an constantly whatsapping each other..He is way mature and i have started developing feelings for him off lately.We do have similar interests in allmost everything.but he is not ready to commit(He has had bad past relationship).I really want to be with him for the rest of my life cuz i feel comfortable and protected when he is with me.He knows i like him but he said everything slipped away from his hand.He likes me but he is not ready to admit it to me.I think he is drawing a boundary between us so that he doesnt cross the limit and express his love for me.Please help me out.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (22 May 2014):
 And he's perfectly right to cross a boundary and not declare his love for you, what would it be the point ? To waste your time, and make you fall even deeper when he knows this is going absolutely nowhere ? In fact if he were a decent guy, he'd stop contact and he'd stop illuding you.
This is clearly some sort of arranged marriage, if it's his PARENTS who make- and withdraw - the marriage proposal. He may be of age and ready to marry, BUT his parents will choose for him or at least they reserve themselves the final approval on his bride.
Which unluckily you did not get due to your health problems, so you should tell him, not to declare you his love ; but instead either to grow balls and tell his parents that HE is going to choose his own wife , thank you very much , or to leave you alone once for all.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (22 May 2014):
 It's been a month, and you DO NOT really know him.
He has DECLINED you due to your Wilson's Disease which means he doesn't CARE enough about YOU (as a person and potential mate) to make it work DESPITE your disease.
Stop talking to him and stop wasting your time IF you are looking for a husband - HE ISN'T IT.
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