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writes:Ive been told by his mates that hes seeing somone else where he lives. Ive confronted him about it and all he says is no im not I was even told her name which I looked on fb and it says shes in a new relationship, he doesnt have a fb pg so I cant tell who with but everything kinda leads to it. Ive not seen him since march and that was only for a day since jan. I either speak to him or txt ob phone most of the time... Anyway ive asked him so many timesof he wants to be with me and to trll the truth if hes with somebody else and all he replys to be if .... F**k sake .... am I asking hin to many times that im driving him away or am I just never really get an answer form him Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (12 May 2014):
 if you have only seen him for one day since January this is not much of a relationship.
It's not necessarily up to him to decide if you have a relationship with him or not.
If you rarely see him, if you don't trust him, what's holding you to this guy....
Does it matter if he's seeing someone or not? Why would you stay with a boyfriend you rarely see or have contact with?
who does the contacting? do you call/text him or is it him contacting you?
who asks to see who?
why do you only see each other infrequently?
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reader, Adeboyefa  +, writes (10 May 2014):
 Don't be a nag by continuing to ask him.
Since he doesn't have a Facebook page,add the suspected other woman as a friend or follow her in order to see the photos she posts on Facebook. If they are really dating,you will soon see romantic photos of the two of them on your page.
In the meantime,enjoy your relationship.
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