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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I stop falling in love so easily?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1998 days ago

30 June 2019 (F) age 26-29 - It is so easy for me to have feelings for someone that I'm kind of scared being too influenced by this... I don't really like group social gatherings much, and would prefer one on one talk. The problem is, once I have a really good communication (like it can go on for hours ... (132 words)

How can I not let my past affect my dating life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2000 days ago

30 June 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm trying to make sense of my nonexistent dating life. What I've noticed is that as soon as someone wants to get serious with me, I run away. Sex is easy, but when someone shows me they want more, then I back away. Back story: My parents have a crappy marriage. My dad is t... (353 words)

I'm jealous of the time my wife is spending with an ill member of her clergy

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 1957 days ago

30 June 2019 (M)

age - one day I observed my wife walking down the road with a neighborhood guy. they were conversing and smiling, basically enjoying each other company. needless to say I felt jealous, and I told her so. flash forward, I been coming home lately and finding her alone with him in her ... (216 words)

I'm an unhappy married man attracted to a woman at work

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1975 days ago

29 June 2019 (M)

age - i am a unhappily married man who is very attracted to a beautiful young lady at work. at first it seemed that she was and maybe i hope she still is attracted to me. but lately i am very attracted to her and pay attention to her as much as i can with the short time we have ... (129 words)

My male cousin offended me. Should we just not go to his house again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1997 days ago

29 June 2019 (M)

age - I have a male cousin, whom I used to be close to. Things have changed but weren't too bad until our last visit. I was really offended because he hardly talked to me for the weekend that we were there. What was worse was he talked a LOT to my wife. (Nothing bad in their ... (87 words)

Why did I put up with my ex for so long when he did terrible things to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1998 days ago

29 June 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - I been off and on with my first love for 19 yrs. In the past he dated other girls and would come running back to me when the relationships failed, I went back each time I think I just wanted closure because I kept asking him lots of questions about the other girls, He told me ... (1144 words)

My boyfriend's grandma doesn't like me or approve of me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1895 days ago

29 June 2019 (F)

age 22-25 - I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and we have decided to get married. The thing is I feel like his grandma doesn’t like me at all for some reason and he kept saying she did. Then today, his sister was talking about babies and I just made a comment that I want one in ... (130 words)

More roommate problems in sobriety

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1997 days ago

29 June 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - *There are names and places in here and I want to let you know that I have changed them for privacy and used them for clarity* I wrote this post http://www.dearcupid.org/question/everyone-around-me-seems-to-want-to-sabotage.html over a year ago, and a lot has happened since. ... (1528 words)

My ex and I had a big fight and have to be together for a week and a 15 hour car ride. How do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2000 days ago

29 June 2019 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi aunts and uncles. Thank you for taking the time to read my post. its a bit long. I'm feeling a bit bewildered, hurt and pretty angry all at the same time. I have just had the weirdest experience with my now ex, all of 20 minutes ago, best friend. We had a youth group ... (769 words)

Our marriage has gone stale after 2 years

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1997 days ago

29 June 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone? I would really appreciate othet opinion's on this as maybe I am being too sensitive. Here goes... I got married 2 years ago now- the first year we were living with my in laws and it had a massive strain in our marriage. His mother always bad talked me to my ... (446 words)

My sister demanded 1/2 the take when I worked alone all day. Is this right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2000 days ago

28 June 2019 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi people. My sister found a place after my dad asking us where we can sell stuff for the summer to make extra cash to pay for school. Last week on a certain day she helped me set up and left. I was there all day from 9am to 7pm without a toilet or lunch break. When I got hone... (131 words)

Am I cheating? Am I doing the wrong thing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1998 days ago

28 June 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - i never think that i will experience this in my life. im married to my long time boyfriend that actually we arent compatible to be together. we dont really know each other as we seldom meet back then we dated. we now have 8 months son. prior to our marriage, he shows some si... (795 words)

My husband accidentally saw something on my phone that upset him…

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2002 days ago

28 June 2019 (F) age 41-50 - My husband accidentally saw something on my phone that upset him… My husband’s a good guy, but has problems I did not know about until we were together for a long time. He suffers from social anxiety and has been (ab)using meds and alcohol to control it. He also suffers f... (834 words)

How do I encourage my husband to open up and make him feel safe doing so?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1928 days ago

27 June 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband lost his business a year and a half ago. I knew he was upset by it, naturally and understandably, but he handled it with grace. Every time I checked in with him he acted as if he was ok and accepting of the situation. Eventually we both forgot about the topic and ... (660 words)

Getting over an affair before marriage

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2001 days ago

26 June 2019 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 13 years and in a relationship 9 years before that. We have 4 daughters and everything has been going well in our marriage. However we’ve been together since high school and had a rough patch during 4 year span in college years. We had our oldest d... (1015 words)

I'm scared I won't be a mother because of climate change.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1999 days ago

26 June 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - My whole life I have wanted to be a mother. I love kids – I worked as a nanny and a tutor for several years, and I have nieces who I adore. My own mum died when I was a kid, and I think a part of it is that I want to have a mother-child relationship again. My boyfriend doesn’t ... (383 words)

My husband has a massive problem with texting women endlessly, no amount of counseling has helped yet I can't leave because of certain situations

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2003 days ago

26 June 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - After 16 years of marriage I’ve hit a cross roads and I have no idea what to do next, so over the years my husband has been texting and emailing other women, it’s always in secret but strangely it’s never sexual, he meets woman at work or online and strikes up a friendship with ... (354 words)

Is it worth for me to get into a relationship if I feel that the man will inevitably lose interest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2001 days ago

26 June 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having trouble dealing with the thought that it seems no matter how good a relationship or marriage or how beautiful a woman or how well she looks after herself it seem that everything I hear about read and see in real life it’s ineveitavke that the man will loss interest ... (222 words)

I escaped an obsessive ex only to get married to a man exactly like him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2004 days ago

25 June 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't even know where to start...I guess I'm going to tell you about this in two parts. When I was in high school, there was this guy, James, who was new in school and he wanted to go out with me. I refused because I wasn't interested. He persisted, was very weird, almo... (998 words)

Possible three years affair between my boyfriend and my close friend, is she lying?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2000 days ago

25 June 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I got drunk at a mutual friend's party. She's supposed to be my friend but I had always had some feeling ever since I've been with my boyfriend and also with my ex she used to be a very flirty friend since I can remember. Long ago I was jealous about how weird ... (906 words)

How do I get rid of my horoscope addiction?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1997 days ago

24 June 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - HI I am 25. Last year I got dumped by my high school sweetheart of 6 years. It was painful and finally I moved on . I had mood swings at times I cry myself to bed. So I picked up this habit to believe on horoscope . Now I check my prediction on daily basis and co... (106 words)

My insecurities are making me wonder if I should make things official with him or just break up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1979 days ago

24 June 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy for about 9 months who's 20 years older than me. I've been taking it slow because I was married for 7 years before this and I've been a bit nervous about a new relationship after my husband cheated on me (resulting in the separation). I'm not particularly ... (381 words)

My husband's behaviour towards my daughters has grown terrible

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2001 days ago

23 June 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - I’ve been with my husband for 8 years. We have a 3 year old child together and I have two girls from a previous relationship ages 9 and 10 who don’t see their biological dad. When my husband and I first got together he was excellent with my girls and treated them as his own.... (261 words)

My boyfriend expects me to cut his family's hair for free since I will soon be a hairdresser

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1895 days ago

23 June 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm about to qualify as a hairdresser and my bf if expects me to cut his families hair for free otherwise he says it will be awkward? He has a large family and I've spent nearly a year and half working for apprenticeship wage. Am I right to be annoyed? How do I handle this? ... (55 words)

My ex gave me money with no strings attached to buy land but my husband is upset

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1895 days ago

23 June 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for four years... But we stay in our father inlaws house. My husband has a job but doesn't know how to manage his finances..so we haven't invested much. More so his growing old and is to retire in the next 10years. We have two children one a step daughter ... (203 words)

I lied to my ex boyfriend about my pregnancy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1895 days ago

23 June 2019 (F)

age 22-25 - i lied to my ex boyfriend about my pregnancy and i wanna now how i can get him to talk to me again its so hard not to think about him i can't get no sleep at night cause all i do is think about him what should i do i need help.... (53 words)

I am in love with my cousin that is 10 years older than me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2006 days ago

23 June 2019 (M)

age 22-25 - I just wanna let u know I’m 17 and my cousin she’s 27! I know this is going to sound like a very crazy story and looking at the ages I know. Me and my cousin love to mess with each other it’s our??? thing! As time went I had feelings for her and couldn’t get her out of my mi... (289 words)

How do I deal with my husband's jealousy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2007 days ago

22 June 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi this may seem like a pointless post but it’s really bothering me I’ve been with my partner for 8 years we have a 4 year old daughter whenever I’m playing a game or tickling her or even reading to her he makes stupid comments as though I’m not meant to spend time with her he ... (142 words)

How do I stop feeling guilty that I can go home to see my family and my husband cant see his?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2007 days ago

22 June 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really torn and don't know what to do. Im married and with a husband. He's currently here on a working visa that expires in 2021. We started a process of him getting a green card, however, its already been a year and our case is still pending. Its been 5 years sin... (363 words)

My conflicted feelings make me wonder if I would be better off single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2006 days ago

22 June 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for two and a half years now. I love her very much but in the past year I've found myself less and less attracted to her physically. About three months ago, we had a huge row in which she accused me of being distant toward her (I was) and I ended... (211 words)

Why does a man with a perfect girlfriend still feel the need to have sex with someone else?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2006 days ago

22 June 2019 (F) age 41-50 - I'd like to know WHY a man can have sex with two women at the same time? I don't mean a threesome. But having two sexual relationships concurrently. One of the relationships is with a woman he's been with for 6 years and he supposedly loves. The second is with a woman he ... (166 words)

My girlfriend and my friend/roommate are way too close for comfort! Should I be concerned and who should I be upset with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2005 days ago

22 June 2019 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this this young girl for couple months now. Very passionate with each other sex is great! She says I love you and so do I and I do love her.we started out as friends.. anyway, recently I moved in with my friend into a two-bedroom he's a good friend of mine. ... (255 words)

Upset with my friends putting me in the middle of a mess

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1678 days ago

21 June 2019 (M)

age 30-35 - Am I right to be upset with my friends on this? I help coach some softball teams for my local area. I try to help setup teams and find people to play on all the nights. My problems began a couple months ago when two of my friends(from different friend groups) who both have ... (353 words)

Pregnant and boyfriend wants space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2007 days ago

21 June 2019 (F)

age 26-29 - hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years now, in the start of the relationship everything was perfect, he was the exact man I was looking for after coming out of a terrible long term relationship that ended badly. We faced alot of issues from... (1467 words)

We are both married but how do I let go of this man who is my real love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2006 days ago

21 June 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to sound ridiculous and like me and this other person are the worst people in the world. I am married, but separated and this man is married with kids. We have been talking for quite some time now. We have never done anything sexually even though the attraction is ... (160 words)

They are both my friends do I tell her that he's going to a swingers club?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2007 days ago

21 June 2019 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, Around a year ago I found my very close friend on a popular swingers site. He’s my best mate and I’m also pretty close with his girlfriend. They’ve been together for a few years now and have a serious relationship, house, engagement etc. Now, today he has post... (116 words)

Am I right in just leaving him to it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2008 days ago

21 June 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all I’ve asked for advice before the same guy and found it really helpful so I was wondering if I could run this passed you also x So ... basically work together sometimes , he split from wife six months ago after bad times ... started sending messages then eventually... (236 words)

She didn't answer should I call again or just move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2008 days ago

21 June 2019 (M)

age 26-29 - So I called her a few days after getting her message. I'll probably see her again at some point but the bottom line is she didn't answer and from what I've seen it's really a mixed bag when it comes to calling vs. texting. So, if she didn't answer me (I only called once, not ... (265 words)

My boyfriend has grown more distant as my pregnancy goes on. Is he no longer interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2009 days ago

21 June 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi so my boyfriend of a year and a half and I got pregnant recently. At the beginning when we found out he was so supportive going to appointments, helping me figure out what is going to happen with our living situation etc. Everything recently started to go down hill when I ... (141 words)

Do I tell my husband that his adult daughter is putting terrible things about him on social media?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2006 days ago

21 June 2019 (F)

age 51-59 - Do I tell my husband or not that his adult daughter is putting nasty things on social media about him, things like he's not been around for years and other horrible stuff, which is untrue we took her out for dinner last weekend! I am assuming it's for attention from people on ... (82 words)

Why is there so much pressure for women to stay youthful?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2001 days ago

21 June 2019 (F)

age 51-59 - As I am getting older I’m finding that outside influences make me conscious of my aging and like there is somehow something wrong with me or less attractive about me because I’m a woman getting older. It seems that every se one ad on is about how to look younger or get rid of ... (213 words)

Do I give up my baby dream

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2006 days ago

20 June 2019 (F)

age 41-50 - I joined a dating site last year and after a few bad dates i found a guy that was perfect we had several dates loads in common enjoy each others company but he decided to tell me hed rather be friends with benefits. I agreed but now im unsure what to do. I was looking for a ... (243 words)

How do I handle my husband's annoying best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2009 days ago

20 June 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf of 5 years has a friend who I can get on with but he's a bit annoying. Recently his friend came to stay for 5 days and it was very testing for me. It's one of his best friend's so I just smile and get on with it while he critisizes my cooking saying I need to use less of ... (456 words)

I'm in love with my boyfriend's best friend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1968 days ago

20 June 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - I just need some advice on a situation I am overwhelmed by. im not sure how common this situation is , I don't want to be judged I just need some help. so the situation is this. I have been with my boyfriend for four years, our relationship has troubles like every ones and w... (415 words)

How do I give him enough space while maintaining the relationship & managing my own insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2010 days ago

20 June 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance recently decided to go to therapy. Our relationship has always been good, however a couple misunderstandings caused my insecurities and defensiveness to rear its ugly head. I didn't handle it well and it caused my fiance to push me away due to fear. One day, he came ... (537 words)

He thinks I like his best friend but I like him. Its a mess!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2010 days ago

19 June 2019 (F)

age 30-35 - He thinks I like his friend yet I like him. We were attracted to each other and we knew it..but we didn't talk about it. His friend who is more out going and social asked me out and I told him I am not interested in a relationship but we can be friends..i also hit in the fact ... (175 words)

Should I cave in and help out a friend or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2011 days ago

18 June 2019 (F) age 36-40 - I have a longtime friend… maybe some of you have one just like her… someone who’s funny, interesting and… always needs something. Here’s some background: Over the years I helped her a lot. The last time she needed help big time, I ended up doing extensive research for h... (306 words)

My boyfriends contact with other girls makes me very insecure

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2011 days ago

18 June 2019 (F)

age 22-25 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year now. I’m 19 he’s 22. Up until about three months ago he had been in communication with his obsessive ex, texted her and talked on the phone with her once because she had some drama about him she wanted him to her. I ... (375 words)

Are straight people welcome in gay clubs or not?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2008 days ago

18 June 2019 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently my gay friend invited me to accompany him to the gay club. I'm straight and I was kind of in two minds about it. I'm not homophobic at all but somehow I felt like I don't belong in there and as a straight person, I shouldn't occupy places meant specifically for gay ... (173 words)

Why doesn't my husband address me as his wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2011 days ago

17 June 2019 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello and thank you My husband addresses me as his girl , his babe, his baby on social media but never his wife. We are legally married. I'm not sure of I'm over thinking or getting upset over the title. His girl to me means girlfriend. I have many pics of us and I alwa... (83 words)