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Archived questions from: 26 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My parents need me to get in contact with my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an issue. My mom and dad need me to get in contact with my ex. My ex and I dated last year, and it was a horrible, horrible relationship. He broke my heart, and made my life miserable. By far, the worst relationship I ever had. He left me on 2 different occasion... (505 words)

Is it mean to take back my necklace that my boyfriend wants to keep?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so I'll make this short and sweet. I needed a second opinion, because my friend said that this was a bad idea. Last week when I was over at my boyfriend's house I left my FAVORITE guitar pick necklace, it's my absolute favorite necklace because my best friend got it for m... (212 words)

I feel I may have a mental block when it comes to sex, should I go for it anyway and hope it goes away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, basically I have come to the conclusion I am mentally unable to have sex or have a relationship. This may sound really strange and I do not have a reason as to why this has happened. But for the last year and a half, I have found myself unable to have any intimate mom... (351 words)

I told him if he wants to be with me he has to break up with his partner first

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

26 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - So being a 29 year old and single for a year I seem to have gotten myself into a rather difficult situation ... Whilst recently on holiday I met a guy who i noticed, and few days over the holiday the usual eye contact etc. We exchanged numbers and decided to meet up next night ... (202 words)

Am I right to stay with him when there are so many issues in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3678 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused. I don't know if I want to be with my partner of 7 years any more?? The trouble is we have been together for all this time and I wouldn't know what to do or who I am without him. It has been getting clearer over the last year that we both want different things ... (330 words)

My fiancé has been hiding our engagement because he's afraid of what his friends will think!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3678 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years and I just got engaged about 2 months ago. Since becoming engaged, he has told me that he thinks the word "fiancé" is stupid and he's not going to say it…so he continues to call me his girlfriend instead. He is also embarrassed to tell his "friends" ... (435 words)

Unhappily married. Is this younger man interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Is this younger man interested in me? I am an unhappily married woman who is re-considering her options. One of the main reasons I am still married is for my 2 young children. My husband suffers from a mood disorder, depression and anxiety. In a nutshell, everything I do ... (581 words)

Do I tell Friend A what is going on? What about Friend B's partner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3678 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a pretty liberal person, so am not trying to be the morality police, but am worried about my friends and am being burdened by this knowledge. One of my friends (Friend A) has been in a casual but exclusive relationship since January, with the understanding bo... (225 words)

Big difficulties ahead. Will this relationship last? What other options are open to me, to consider?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - A year ago, I was ready to move to another city, transfer to finish school and leave sex work behind. I had been an escort for over 2 years, had a failed marriage and a child not living with me because of my unstable and crazy lifestyle (he lives with his father and I'm now ... (332 words)

Have I already ruined my chance to ever be aroused by a man because of my porn addiction and my enjoyment of masturbation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know if this question is appropriate for this site, but I really need to talk to someone about this. Please help. I'm a 19 yr old girl addicted to pornography. I had never had sex (or anything sensual/intimate with anyone) until last month. When he touched me, I fe... (417 words)

Online dating - need some advice on how to proceed? What sort of photo would be most suitable to send to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

26 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - OK, so I've been talking online to this woman for a month and a half now, she's who she says she is (sent me an email from her own personal domain). She's kind and seems like a good person, lives about an hour from me by road. However, now she's asking for a photo of me. She ... (238 words)

I have trouble with eye contact with people and I look down or I stare. What to do? I Need help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Omg, i am terrible when it comes to eye contact! I am 15 now but ever since i started secondary school (11yo) i've had trouble keeping eye contact, especially with teachers. I used to NEVER make eye contact, look down etc. except when i spoke to male teachers, i was always ... (384 words)

My ex chose to become engaged 6 days after we broke up. Should I even listen to her explanation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

26 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex left me for another man who is fat, creepy old, and has a 19yr old daughter. The next day after breaking up, shes in a relationship. 6 days after, they are engaged. She is 23, he is 36. She Is a model and gorgeous, and he is disgusting. I suspect that she is using drug... (636 words)

He's lied to me multiple times. And Cheated. Should I be 'over it' as he claims?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question that I need both male and female point of views on: My fiancé in the beginning of our relationship went around my back and began to be unfaithful. He had a second phone to do all his "dirty work" on. I noticed a change in his personality that raised all ... (322 words)

Only ever had sex with my BF so how could my BF have given me HPV? Is his excuse plausible? Or has he been cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - It seemed really strange I developed HPV from my boyfriend. I confronted my boyfriend after my doctor told me I had HPV. At this point I'm sure he was cheating, how else would he get it, how else would I get it. We lost our virginity together, so I thought, been together for 2 ... (305 words)

At 27 is my lack of experience with girls and no dating experience a red flag and an impediment when trying to date girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3678 days ago

26 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 27 nearly 28 in December, and I've never had a relationship with a woman. I used to be the gamer guy who played too much up till I was 26 and I had enough and wanted to change my life. The thing is I only really started asking women out only just after I turned 27. Mainly ... (433 words)

Should I somehow try to take this to the next level? Or leave things as they are at present?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3678 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm currently a college freshman studying abroad, and there's this guy who's a senior, also from my country, whom I met back in May, when he finished his junior year and flew back to our hometown. It turned out that he lives at a 5-minute walk from my home, so we went out quite ... (421 words)

Due to my health issues, are there any devices that would allow my husband to enjoy and receive the best blow job?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are high school sweet hearts. hey been together for 20 years and married for over 15! We've always had a good sex life and I've always enjoyed oral sex and he has too!!! However; due to a severe case of TMJ (jaw joint issues), I was forced to have a bilat... (474 words)

He's abusive. Why do I take him back, even though I know he is not good for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid Where do I start? I was with my ex was 4 years. Earlier it used be fun, for past few months the verbal emotional abuse is more than I can take. He withdraws affection and love. Makes me beg with him to even talk to me, at last talks to me after I beg for hours, som... (230 words)

What should I do about my partner of 5 years who has recently become aggressive and has come close to fighting with my family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3678 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my partner for 5 years now We live together but are not married nor do we have children Recently he has become very aggressive to the point where he has been nearly getting into fights with my family I feel lost and heart broken as he knows how close I am ... (77 words)

I'm exhausting myself running from the pain of this breakup!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3678 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex of two years and I split up and left things in a really rough way. A lot was left unsaid and unsettled and honestly, very hurtfully. It's been approaching a month, and I truly don't feel like I'm getting over it at all, I'm just ignoring it. I'm burying myself i... (160 words)

Will my Bf care that I lack close friends? Been studying and establishing a career.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always been an independent person but I'm wondering if my boyfriend would be concerned that I have no close friends. I graduated this spring and have been working since. I enjoy my job which mainly involves communicating with customers and providers across the world in... (263 words)

How can I deal with the pre-cum that occurs, despite my best efforts to deal with fact I'm easily aroused by pretty girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

26 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i am single man, 29 years old. i never had a sex or even any kind of relationship. please i don't know why i easily get erection. so, i got this idea— when i see a nice girl or think about sex, i relax my body and my penis just to prevent erection and it works; but the prob... (72 words)

Why has he turned off sex, with me, yet initially he was enthusiastic?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Good day everyone!! Im in need of some advice. Im a healthy 36 yr old woman who is engaged to a 32 yr old man that I of course love to death. We have been together for just over 2 years now. And sad to say already having problems in the bedroom. When we first started dating w... (414 words)

My ex was friendly but then he sent me a really nasty email and deleted me. Was this the work of his girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3679 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Slightly confused tonight. My ex and I broke up about 8months ago and we both have new partners. We kept in touch, but hardly spoke really - when he did speak to me he would try and get me to meet him or would he would speak about how much he misses our sex etc. I ... (222 words)

I've been dating him for 2 years and he won't show me where he lives?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a man for two years but he refuses to show me where he lives.he took me to visit jis family out of state; but he can't show me where he live in state.he tells me he lives with a family member.he get many excuses about the issues.he tells me he loves me and we ... (92 words)

Why was this girl so rude and tried so hard to dominate the conversation and make me feel uncomfortable

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - All of my boyfriend's friends live on the opposite coast, where he grew up, so I don't get to meet them often. One of his friend's came out to visit our area with his girlfriend last week. I was so excited to meet them. I had heard all about this friend and their funny antics ... (452 words)

Why did my ex boyfriend disappear instead of properly breaking up with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

26 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I decided to ask this question because I'm just curious about it. Earlier this year, I was in a relationship (4 months, not very long) with someone I met on a dating site. I'm 19 and he was 22. He was very strange and there were many red flags, and I ignored some of them bec... (524 words)