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Archived questions from: 9 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How to I stop yearning for my ex Bf? Do these feelings every fade?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

9 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I stop yearning for my ex bf? It's been 5 years since we broke up after an 8 year relationship. My problem is that the feeling that I have lost my home are still there, and I don't know how to make this stop. We had been living together, and broke up because I got a ... (415 words)

Is she using me, or is she really interested??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I am usually i'm good at telling if the other half likes me or not. I have been seeing this girl since August. We have been out 10 times or so, so far, mainly just dinner or cinema. She has been to mine once and we just watched a movie, we tend to text every day, and i... (530 words)

He's enlisting in the Air Force and wants to get married and try for a baby before he leaves!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

9 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I know it's been awhile since I last wrote and a lot has happened in that time I'm with someone new for starters and we've been together for a year with no breaking up or taking a break. I know I've said it before but with this one he's the complete... (236 words)

Is she thinking of me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3191 days ago

9 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Thanks for your advice. For the last 2 yrs I met a woman. For the past two years she has seen like part of my family. Roughly once a month to more we talked. However, even though it was part of her position I felt she stayed longer and at times was here for 3-4 hours. ... (604 words)

I'm afraid I'll push him away because of my long ago abusive relationship and it doesn't help that his family don't want him to be with me! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently started a relationship with a guy, we've been going out for a month which although isn't long, I feel that I'm falling for him. He's so lovely, he works hard and really has ambition, he even makes an effort with my two children. He literally couldn't be anymore ... (179 words)

I've been thinking about unfriending these awful former co-workers on social media, except for one. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to work in a not so nice place. The boss' where horrivle to staff, the working conditions were poor and the staff as lovely as they seemed the vast majority where extremely bitchy. I worked predominately with 2 other girls. They were lovely to my face but we're horrib... (345 words)

Is it bad to go on cam sites?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I'm a 21 year old Male In the last two year or so, I have been going on cam sites and looking at girls on and off. i used to pay money for it but stopped that about a year ago. I feel bad every-time I do it because within me I know I'm exploiting girls that often ha... (158 words)

My dad told my fiancé he can cheat on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know what to think of my dad anymore. my fiance works for him, and my dad tells him dont tell my wife or daughter but if my wife gains anymore weight i wont be attracted to her and tell her im gonna sleep with other woman id understand if you do the same then my fiance ... (143 words)

Her ex is traveling 300 miles to take her to the theatre!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (M)

age - my wife died about six months ago and i have been seeing another widow of four years who really likes me and we have had sex which is not the problem, about nine months after she was widowed she took up with a chap who lives about 150 miles away and after a while it all went ... (188 words)

He moved in and I feel trapped! How do I handle this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

9 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I started dating about 4 months ago. We were in a LDR where we would see each other one weekend a month (we had a previous long distance friendship for about a year). One month ago he came to visit me... and since he has gotten a job in my city he's staying (forever... (450 words)

Why did she marry me if she had no attraction for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

9 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Wife suddenly tells me she has no attraction towards me... According to her this has happened 2 years ago. She stayed on to hope things will improve. I am devastated. She never really pull up major quarrels with me till she drop this bomb on me. I was feeling very sad an... (148 words)

He completely refuses to call me pet names!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend refuses to call me pet names. I feel so unloved. Especially after sex. Does it mean he does not love me? I only asked him to do that after we make love. Not all the time but he refused. I feel put off having sex with him. Being vulnerable with him only to be talked ... (99 words)

Why do some people get ignored and not taken seriously in life, while others get preferential treatment and treated better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do some people get ignored and not taken seriously in life, while others get preferential treatment and treated better. I feel that I'm ignored by others and over looked. I know there is a problem somewhere in my interactions with others but I'm uncertain where things are... (103 words)

Are my doubts unfounded? He wanted to fly to Australia to visit a female friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago my bf and I argued over him wanting to travel to Australia to visit a female friend. I felt extremely uncomfortable because 1) he refused to tell me what they would be doing there 2) I have never met this girl before 3) he was willing to spend so much just to... (202 words)

Am I too shy? Am I not forward enough? What am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel a bit pathetic writing to an agony aunt site but i feel like nobody understands how i'm feeling. I've been single for 5 years now and i feel like i'll never have another relationship. The last guy i was involved with ended in disaster. I feel like i slept with him t... (511 words)

I think I made a mistake in ending the LDR. Should I try to get back with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have split up with my ex last year due to various reasons. The main one being the long distant which caused so many arguments. But the last year I have had some nagging feeling that is was a mistake. We have been brilliant friends this last year and constantly do st... (109 words)

She's exactly my type and we have had fun talking about stuff and joking around, but I can't help feeling like she's not all that into it. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently moved to a nee city and a new country. Since I don't know many people here, I decided to give online dating a try. I didn't have a lot of success at first but about 10 days ago I came across the profile of an absolutely gorgeous girl who seemed incredibly interesting ... (230 words)

I'm considering running away and getting pregnant to get away from my controlling family! They treat me like a child!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Am a 17 year old girl,i sudenly fell in love with a 20 year old guy,we,ve been so inlove bt the problem is my famile treat me like 10 year old ,they lock the gate at 18:00 i cannot even text my bf to tel him that i cannot meet up with him because i have no cellphone,i really ... (151 words)

He only lasts 3 minutes in bed so what did he do for 30 minutes with the prostitutes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm still suffering emotionally and mentally in finding out about my husband going to prostitutes across 2 years , he was visiting a brothel , he says he was going about 1 month and says we had problems , then he says that it's because he was curious ?? We have been together ... (166 words)

My first date ever! How do I know what he's thinking and how to casually lay down my expectations?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help on how to handle my situation: I'm going to a school dance for the first time with a date. I've never had a boyfriend or even a "thing" with anyone, so I'm kinda nervous. All I've ever had was a few crushes on some past guy friends. Nothing ever happened or prob... (398 words)

Am I being silly expecting more time or at least once a week when I know how crazy his job is?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

9 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together a few months he is 37 I am 32. But, We have been best friends for 17 years. We love each other very much. We talk all the time he calls, I call there is no issue there. I don't question that or even if he will always be there. He is my beat ... (171 words)