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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Reference letter I requested from former boss in now not needed. How do I approach this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3719 days ago

16 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there I don't know if anyone can help me but I need some advice. About a year ago I was at my dream job, I was there for about 6 months. I had to leave because my contract only allowed for 6 months but I made good friends and produced some good work. So heres the probl... (232 words)

Lost virginity..should it hurt to go pee after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

16 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So, recently I started my sexual life with my boyfriend. The first abd second time we did it it hurt but I thought it was related to losing my virginity. But recently after we had sex it still hurt a bit in the beginning but the pain faded away. When I got home and went to the ... (80 words)

He calls me every day but says he can't have a relationship right now. Confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3719 days ago

16 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused with my emotions at the moment when it comes to a guy I have been seeing. I got a new job almost a year ago, I work nights and he works during the day so we only saw each other occasionally then in the summer we both worked together a lot. I thought he was c... (481 words)

Our relationship has lost its spark and I want it back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3719 days ago

16 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for almsot 5 years. We started going out young. But recently we both have gotten caught up with college and exams or in my case college and work. We recently have not been able to go out on dates or spend alone rime with each other. When ... (425 words)

Am I wrong to think that the way he wants to share expenses and chores is unreasonable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

16 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am with my boyfriend a little over a year, and I moved into his appartment about a month ago., I am writing it to hear some opinions if I am mistaken on having these thoughts, but the whole situation started bothering me from the very beginning, and I know I need to speak up... (1062 words)

He gave me herpes and doesn't know he has it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

16 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've met a guy on tinder and been dating him for 5months and have just found out he's given me genital herpes, however he is unaware that he has it. He told me he got tested for STDs and came back clear however they don't routinely test for herpes. The situation I'm in is ... (142 words)

Why is he contacting me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

16 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my ex on a dating site about a year ago....we dated for about 4 months and broke up at the beginning of this year because he kept doting over another woman and I became tired of hearing about her. Since then, I have seen him back on the same dating website. In June... (245 words)

How can I get him to understand that we not in the same place sexually, so that I can put an end to my affair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3718 days ago

16 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm only interested in advice, not judgement. If you don't have anything constructive to say, you should not even bother responding. My husband and I been married for 8 years, and have a 5 year old. We were together for 2 years before that. I've also been having an affai... (379 words)

We love making out with each other, so do we have a unique friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

16 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So i have this unique situation with my friend, but I've came to terms to it but I would like some input and some advice on how odd this situation is.. So I met this girl at a party 6 months ago and from the first moment we met in about a couple of hours we started making o... (247 words)

Our friendship became troubled after he got a girlfriend. What should I do from here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

16 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - More of a friendship problem. I had a really good friend, for about five years. Then he got a girlfriend (I have a long term boyfriend). Our friendship was always based on banter and being cheeky to each other. As soon as he gets a girlfriend, he starts acting differently ... (136 words)

Should I tell my wife about the dream where I slept with another woman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

16 October 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I had a very explicit and elaborate dream in which I had sex with a woman who was not my wife. I would never dare tell my wife such things except that this particular dream wasn't sexual in nature. The sex part was just a small (but important) part of the plot. She is a film ... (160 words)

Is it normal to be so indecisive when considering ending a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

16 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. I'm in the process of trying decide whether I can be happy in my current relationship. When I think about ending things and not being together all I can think about is how amazing he is. When I think about staying in the relationship all I can think about is all of t... (71 words)

I'm pregnant and the father of the child wants me to terminate. I'm confused

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

16 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I need sum help.. I don't need people judging me or giving me grief. I'm 25 and 9 weeks pregnant. I have been in an on/off relationship for some time. We were together for a few years and he cheated.. so I moved out and went no contact. 6 months later we met after he contact... (469 words)

We've broken up but my ex still supports me financially

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

16 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am going through break up. It will be two weeks on Sat. Despite everything he and I have gone through, and the wrong I feel he does, I still very much care for him and would like it to work. We would have a lot to work on. He was completely supporting me fincani... (319 words)

I want to end our 3 year long LDR and get married but unsure If we should marry or end things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

16 October 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, ive been with my long distance girlfriend for almost 3 years now and i think is time to close the distance. Its time to pop the question. However... We live in continents apart and we are citizens of diferent countries.we have a 13 years age gap, she is about to finish c... (295 words)

I'm confused by what my ex's intentions are?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3718 days ago

16 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am just writing for some kind of advice as I am confused by the way my ex is contacting me. To cut a long story short we had been friends since school after he joined the army. A few years later we got back in touch we ended up texting every day while he was away and meet... (834 words)

Met her on a flight and want her to be mine forever. But there are hurdles in the way!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

16 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I have a question that requires very honest and authentic advice from people who may have had similar experience that I am having. Last week, I was flying from Doha (UAE) to USA. I was at the terminal sitting all by myself. There was a 3 hour sitting time on the ... (786 words)

He asked me out but now he ignores me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

16 October 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - So 2 years ago I found out this guy liked me. I didn't like him at the time and thought he was gross. He always flirted but I rejected. So he then asked me out and I said no. Then I realized i like him ALOT. And I'm a really shy person so I can't even go up and talking to him. ... (87 words)