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Archived questions from: 29 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Send BF a naughty video but he has not responded to it yet.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

29 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. My boyfriend is on vacation with his family in China. He will be back in a few days. Yesterday I sent him a naughty video of myself talking dirty and looking very sexy. I was fully clothed but I really stepped it up. Like a real fantasy girl. ;) I was just tryin... (169 words)

How can I keep the night going, tactfully?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

29 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm going on a second date with a girl in a couple of days. We went out for drinks on our first date, which was also the first time we met. Overall, the date went well; it wasn't a smash, but we chatted for over an hour and seem to have some things in common. Our second dat... (130 words)

My boyfriend is great but I need time alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

29 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. He's really perfect, or as close as can be. He's kind, genuine, smart, has a great job, thoughtful, respectful, our sex is great, my family and friends love him... He has never, ever done me wrong. Despite all of that, I ... (266 words)

I like the girl I'm dating as a friend but not as a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive been going out with this girl for about a month now and she's really nice, very sweet but I don't get the nervous butterfly feeling when I'm going to see her and when we don't don't see each other I don't want to see her I know that sounds bad but it's like i'm fine just ... (252 words)

How do I tell him my feelings???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

29 October 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I have decided to tell my best friend that i love him but i don't know how to tell him we have known eachother scince we were rely young so it will be hard. When im around him i feel rely happy and special. The thing is that i live in a different contry but we chat alot on ... (91 words)

I'm in a badly sex-deprived long term marriage!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

29 October 2014 (M)

age - I've been married for 22 years, and feel terribly sexually starved by my partner. If I don't ask (often beg, demand or cajole) for sex, I'll almost never get it. Once I tried waiting for three months, to see if she would think of it. She didn't! While most wives of her age... (209 words)

Why is he being so dodgy about this friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3674 days ago

29 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all I need some advice. I recently found out A is coming back from US and visiting my bf whilst I am overseas. I have never met A and I know my bf met her through camp. A is currently studying in US. My bf initially kept it from me but somehow it slipped his mouth that he ... (207 words)

I'm very attached to him and rely on him as I am still getting used to living away from home! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I moved out home for university in september and very soon after arriving a met someone. we were very close for around 5 weeks seeing each other day. and although we weree offically a couple we may have well of been. admittedly we spent too much time together. however it has ... (216 words)

Haven't had a response back -- how should I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated this lovely man for a three months and we broke up in June. I was quite devastated as he was the one who pursued me and told me he was in love with me. I really adore him as a person but at the time he was very stressed out with his new business and responsibilities, ... (284 words)

My boyfriend is sending mixed signals, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid, i need your help. i am a virgin and i have been in a relationship for almost six months now. my boyfriend has had sex before and lately hes been hinting that he wants to have sex with me. i was a little scared at first and i kind of felt like he was peer pressuring ... (167 words)

How can I tell him I'd rather have a piece of jewellery than chocolates as a present, and not sound ungrateful?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

29 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So, on my birthday my boyfriend (of about 9 months) bought me chocolates, along with taking me out for dinner and dessert. I enjoyed it, afterwards we spent some time together on the beach and I acknowledge he did spend a fair amount of money on me... but I can't help but feel... (193 words)

Is he feeling threatened? Jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so for the past month I have began to meet my fiancees family a bit more especially his first cousin who he is very close to. I was nervous to meet this guy for two years as I heard he was very sarcastic however after meeting him found that he was to others and not to me. ... (371 words)

I don't know whether I have fallen out of love with my B/f, or whether we are just in a rut from never spending time together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years exactly (its our anniversary next week), and I don't think I love him anymore. We live together and have a "family" together -- a cat and dog. We have a lovely home together and are saving for out first house at the moment. W... (587 words)

My Boyfriend and his ex-sister in law! I am incandesant with anger over this. What could or should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend slept with his ex sister in-law, so that now has a baby by his brother. I can't get over the past and I don't think I ever will. I hate that "BITCH" and she's part of their family which I can't stand!!!What should I do about this situation!?... (51 words)

Is it normal for a woman to be completely addicted to her man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I have been lately observing 2 of my friends and how they behave in their relationships, and I have been wondering a lot about whether this is the right way for a couple to be. The 2 examples (especially the 2nd one) are rather long for illustrative pur... (1194 words)

He's 14 to my 15. He had a Gf but broke up. Should I keep talking online to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 October 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - There’s this guy at my school in the year below me and I've had my eye on him for a while (just thinking he's cute and what not), but when i found out my friend knew him i made a move and found out he had a girlfriend. We talked for a while and then just stopped talking.... (195 words)

I orgasm when alone, yet lose the orgasm when with my Bf. Yes he's caring with foreplay. What needs to change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello ! So I'm having a issue with reaching an orgasm with my boyfriend . He's 5 years older then me and he's the best lover I have ever had ( I think it's because he's older ) but anyways I have never climaxed with anybody that I have been with sexually he is my seco... (265 words)

I really like this guy, but I can't figure him out. Any tips please to help me understand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been hanging out with this guy I met in class. He's 23. At first, he would just text me about school stuff. Then, he started asking me to hang out with him. We would talk almost everyday and its mostly him contacting me first. So, the first time we hung out was on his b... (273 words)

What can I do to create the spark we used to have? What needs to change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3674 days ago

29 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been together for 5 years and we lose that spark we had before. We almost argue and fight all the time and we broke up 3 months before and now getting back together again. But things have changed and so do our feelings. He said he doesn't know what he expect from this... (597 words)

I do miss him. But first I want him to miss me. So HOW do I ensure that he really misses me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

29 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so there is this guy I like. recently we hung out and he told me how he thinks i'm beautiful and that he likes my personality. I like him a lot too hes really cool, and we seemed to have been getting a long just fine, but the problem is. He did something that h... (369 words)

Should I go with girl A? But what can I do about Girl C's jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

29 October 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello DC, it's been a little while. I need some help. Girl problems, as usual. Pretty wordy, this one. Sorry. There's a girl, let's call her Girl A. She's new to my life, but when I met her, I knew something good would happen. I had asked her out (at a really crappy time) and... (416 words)