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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Has anyone here ever traveled with herpes meds in their luggage and if so did it cause any issue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

3 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Has anyone here ever travelled with herpes meds in their luggage and if so did it cause any issue . I will be travelling on January to the USA with a group of people ( some of whom I don't know that well ) and would not like to have it cause any issues as in being singled ... (147 words)

Why would he call me ugly and deny liking me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. This story is slightly complicated. A few months ago a group of guys started working at my workplace. They were there to do some building work for a couple of months. They left last week. I got quite friendly with two of the guys. One of them (guy A) seemed pretty in... (519 words)

My family doesn't want to meet my boyfriend. How do I tell him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

3 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like your advice on how to handle the following situation I have. I met a guy online in a chatroom. After being an online couple for a month, he came to visit me. He initially wanted to stay at my place as I was living by myself at the time, but I refused because ... (533 words)

Should I change my style of dress for my boyfriend who says I'm too old to wear certain things ???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

3 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I just recently found out that I am the oldest women my boyfriend has ever dated minus his ex wife who was 5 years older than me. I have been dating my boyfriend 6 months and he has already said he loves me and I don't doubt that he dose , but I recently found on his computer ... (317 words)

I'm attracted to a man that rides on the bus with me. Could he like me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

3 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - A little under 2 months ago I started working at a company for my placement year for uni. I take the bus everyday to work and for a while I noticed that a guy that also works in the same building but not same company looked at me quite a few times. I normally see him on the bus ... (472 words)

My girlfriend wants me to forget her but I still love her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My age is 20 and my gf age is 16 nw. When i was 18 and she @ 14,our love started,and for 1 3by4 years,it went good,but also inbetween,we had ego clash,but none of us harassed each other,just small fights temperorarly and everythng comes to normal.nw me and her are far away as i... (166 words)

How can I lower my guards for him? How can I become relaxed enough to trust him completely? How can I solve my trust issues?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always had trust issues. I almost trust no one except myself. You may call me selfish. I am always on my guard, I never let go fearing I might get hurt, and I end up getting hurt all the same. I've been dating a man who is very kind, nice, handsome, he's everythi... (261 words)

Any advice or insight on obsessions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

3 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I wondered if anyone had any advice or insight into obsessions, or had experienced similar situations any of their family or friends. I was very close to a young man, but it never really developed outside the friend stage. We were very affectionate but never se... (742 words)

Should I move on and block him completely in my contacts? Or should I cling to that piece of hope that we could still be fixed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

3 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - It's been a week now since my boyfriend dumped me out of the blue. Accdg to him it was because of the re-occuring fights and admitted that since then he began to feel cold towards me. After the breakup he immediately proposed to be "friends" with me which of course at first I ... (401 words)

She's a silly 19 year old with a baby and an overbearing mother! How do I withdraw my offer to talk to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a lodger who is in his early 20's. He has a 19 year old girlfriend who stays over 3 nights a week. This is fine with me. I find her silly, stupid and totally lacking in the brains department but it's none of my business. Recently my lodger asked me if she could start ... (521 words)

Why doesn't my boyfriend introduce me to his parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we have a great relationship. We get on brilliantly, the only problem is I have yet to meet his parents (he didn't tell them we were going out until 4 months into the relationship, and it was his friend that told them not him). He ... (144 words)

I'm a 23 year old virgin. Is that a turn-off?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

3 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello my question is pretty simple...is being a virgin at an older age weird or a turn-off? The reason why I ask is because I read online that a some men are turned-off because of the awkwardness during intercourse due to not having any experience. That makes me nervous because ... (64 words)

Started well, then went to sporadic contact. What next? Should I call him out? Is he playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3732 days ago

3 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - What happens next? I was dating a guy for about a month, consistently and it seemed like there was potential to go somewhere although he was hesitant and has never been in a serious relationship. We had a great fifth date, then he went missing in action. I texted him... (254 words)

Has he hurt his back in some way, or is his back problem due to deeper psychological issues affecting my Bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

3 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 18 years older than me. We both love sex very much and whenever we're together we do it more than once. However, he recently started to complain that his back is hurting very much after sex. He keeps writhing in bed, telling me how badly it hurts as if it's... (244 words)