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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Wondering what might have been. Do you think he regrets that he was rude to me? Or has he moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3715 days ago

19 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man last year who expressed interest in me. To say we met at the wrong time is an understatement. When we met, I worked for a bully boss and helped take care of my ailing grandmother. Very stressed out during that time. I have since found employment elsewhere. ... (243 words)

Do you think his expectations may include sex on this fun weekend he's arranged?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

19 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I'm getting a divorce and incidentally met a very old colleague from about 15 ago. He's invited me to join him in another city to watch a big football game and generally a weekend together which I accepted. He's booked the hotel, I haven't asked how the room arrangement... (117 words)

I've been wondering if my LDR Bf is lying to me and cheating. Or has he stopped loving me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3712 days ago

19 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so i'm dating this guy on the phone I live in one state and he lives in another place. Anyway so first he was all in love with me and all that and then after a while we started to argue a little. After some more time he said he is so busy with his job. Now he doesnt reply me... (131 words)

Should I go for it or not? He knows I found him attractive in his youth, but he's not as attractive any more.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3714 days ago

19 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, There is a guy I have met on Facebook - who was absolutely gorgeous looking a few years ago. He wants to meet up with for a possible relationship - but the thing is - he is now middle aged and not looking half as good as in his youth. I know it's sounds s... (133 words)

I want friendship only. Should I let him initiate the conversation? He's married and a work colleague.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3716 days ago

19 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi!!! There is a senior guy at workplace who initially tried a lot to impress me and tried talking to me a lot. I got a secret crush on him but he did not knew. So he tried hard. Now when i talk to him he talks to me normally but my intution and his actions made me believe ... (153 words)

Met her at a bar, the evening went well -- how long should I wait to contact her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

19 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some advice. Last night some buddies and I went out to a bar. Two girls come up and we engage in small chat. My buddy isn't doing so great with one of them but I think it's going really well with the other. Let's call her Whit. About an hour later Whit and her friend (... (491 words)

I think he's lost interest in me but I'm afraid to leave him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

19 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys.. I have a "boyfriend" but it's a long distance relationship and he tells me he loves me, usually just by words.. He asked me for nudes and I said no way but he kept insisting and saying he loves me. I used to be a shy and quiet girl but I kinda fell for his words once ... (275 words)

I think my professor has a crush on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3716 days ago

19 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My proffessor likes me.he is 28yrs older to me.he pays more attentoon to me than any other student,caught him staring at me many times, he touches things that are closer to me but never physically came closer and also doesnt give me extra advantage in giving marks.my classmates ... (100 words)

Can dating profiles be cloned over multiple sites or is my boyfriend lying?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

19 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, So I have been going out with my boyfriend for 18 months and we met on a dating site. 2 months into our relationship I found he was still logging in to pof the site we met on and my only dating site I joined. He said that can't be right he hadn't logged in, it must be ... (408 words)

Boyfriend's ex is contacting him and he's stopped telling me and is deleting texts. Why??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

19 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Ive asked a question about this situation before but there has since been developments therefore i need further advice. My boyfriend of 2 years met up with a friend back in august. This friend wasnt just a friend it was some who he lived with about a year before i... (426 words)

How do I stop beating myself up for my stupidity at spending my money?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

19 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My grandparents sold their house at the start of the year. From the money they got from it, they gave they're grandchildren some of it. I got around £1500. At the time I was in a job that paid horrible money, less than minimum wage. The plan was to put the money my grandparents ... (268 words)

I need to smoke weed for medicinal purposes but my boyfriend doesn't like this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

19 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem because i fell in love with a guy who thinks weed is bad and i need to smoke because i have nervous problems and severe depression and fibromyalgia pain all over my body. and when i smoke weed i dont feel sick or nervous i can eat and my pain is reduced.But how ... (85 words)

Advice for dating someone who has children when you've never had any?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

19 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I was wondering if someone could share their experience dating with kids. My boyfriend has two children, 14 and 9 and I have none. I have never been a kid person and never really wanted any of my own. The 14 year old boy is ok because he is very calm and mellow but his ... (227 words)

My boyfriend calls me an idiot more than he calls me babe!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

19 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and a half, we have a beautiful 7 month old daughter together. But we've been having a lot of problems lately. Well to start off, we work together..and there's this girl he seems to notice a lot. He always wants to double date with her, ... (115 words)

My man isn't good at expressing himself. What can I do to keep from feeling neglected?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3716 days ago

19 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 year. He’s 27 and I’m 26. My bf is a good man; responsible, hardworking and a very driven individual. On the other hand, he is not very romantic and he is not good with expressing himself. I have a few issues in our relation... (792 words)

Why is my SO using It's Complicated as his FB status?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3716 days ago

19 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been involved with a man for a year and a half. We stay at each other's place a lot. We are in a loving relationship. This is embarrassing to admit, because we are both in our forties, but his Facebook status bothers me. He leaves it on "it's complicated." I... (179 words)