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Archived questions from: 28 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I being a bad friend? I have a crush on her ex. But she has said that she likes him, but will never get back with him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3673 days ago

28 October 2014 (F) age 30-35 - I have recently had sex with a guy and I'm starting to really like him, however he is one of my closest friends ex boyfriend.. I told her I kissed him once at a party and she didn't seem bothered at all but she also told me, weeks after that, that she still likes him, but will... (85 words)

Why couldn't he be nicer to me? Should I ignore him, just as he did to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

28 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am attending a course at university. I go to this course once every week with my friend. There is a guy that I like. Today in the end of course this guy talked almost all the time to my friend and not to me and also he gave his number to my friend but not to me. We were ... (188 words)

Is my Boyfriend more likely to cheat because 4 of his friends are cheaters?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

28 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Four of my boyfriend's friends (both females and males) have cheated on their partner. Does that mean he is more likely to cheat?... (23 words)

Ex wants me back but is still somewhat emotionally unavailable. What gives??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

28 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my ex for about 4 years. We broke up around 4 months ago due to constant fighting. I was nagging and complaining about not being treated very well and as a result he'd push me farther away. The more I tried to work things out, the worse it got. During our breakup, he ... (931 words)

I don't trust him, don't accept his baggage, but he won't leave me alone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

28 October 2014 (?) age 41-50 - Hello dearcupid, I've gotten great advice here before so now I'm back again. I have been seeing somebody for the last 10 months. I ended up falling deeply in love with him. He's the drama, when we first met it wasn't long before he found out she was pregnant wit his baby. They ... (257 words)

I think of him and his ex having sex and it makes me feel wierd

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3676 days ago

28 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend wants to have sex. so do i. i really love him. weve been in a relationship for five months now. the thing is, im a virgin. hes had sex with his ex girlfriend and i knew her before we got together. every time he brings up sex, i think of him nd her and i feel weird. ... (63 words)

After her meeting with her ex I don't trust her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

28 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, My relationship it was going great, we understood each other very well. She loves me but her x-bf is irritating her. He still thinks that they're together but they're not. We study in the same college and I went home for a week. She had told me that her x-bf is ... (444 words)

It seems he doesn't want me in his life anymore, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

28 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - We met 6 years ago in college and since then he have been talking on the phone and he said he used to care about me and all that but would always ask for sexy pictures. At first I refused in doing so and then I gave in. So then, he came to town to visit his Dad and suffered a ... (577 words)

He was just being friendly, right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

28 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - A young guy has recently started at out workplace and was being introduced to everyone and he came into the room I was in, smiled and said hello but as he left and while I was talking to his manager he winked at me. I know I should probably take it as a compliment but I... (155 words)

Slept with my ex whilst drunk, but he's dating my friend.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

28 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Around 9 months ago, I got drunk and slept with an ex boyfriend. It was a complete mistake - the relationship ended badly and it was one of the first times we'd hung out alone since we broke up. Ended up having way too much to drink, getting nostalgic and making the w... (265 words)

I resent her, and feel bad about not forgiving her, this time. Is it time to break up with her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3669 days ago

28 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - On Wednesday night I found out my girlfriend had been actively looking for someone on a dating site, after logging into the account I seen she was flirting/dirty talking with this other person, I confronted her the second I found it. We've been together two years and I have f... (296 words)

Seeking input on which is the better work option. Current employer or a change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

28 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am hoping someone can help me! I am currently a nanny and work 16 hours a week mainly working from 2.30 until 6.30 Monday to Thursday. I am also not on a contract. However, the family are moving abroad next August. They have asked me to work weekends and Friday would be ... (143 words)

My Dad has told me he's disowning me for spending the night with my Bf. Feel incredibly hurt. What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

28 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm sorry if this post is lengthy and/or complicated. I'm 19 years old, and ever since I turned 18, I've been having more and more issues with my dad. My parents are divorced, and are very different from each other. My dad is very overprotective, doesn't want me to grow up, ... (880 words)

Should I stay away from her until she's officially divorced? Right now she's separated.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

28 October 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - So, this is a new one for me... There is this girl that I got acquainted with recently. We really hit it off well and have a lot in common. We do seem to connect well on an emotional level and she says that I bring out the best in her and stir up wonderful emotions that sh... (431 words)

Is it normal for a boyfriend to mock his girlfriend for being pretty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

28 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for my own boyfriend to mock me for being pretty? I've always been insecure about my looks, especially when it comes to him. Although it's gotten much better now (been together for about 3 yrs), I always have doubts about how I look around my bf. For the past few ... (296 words)

Why are siblings so resistant to giving any support to our mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3676 days ago

28 October 2014 (F) age 51-59 - Dear Cupid,I am the second oldest child and I have four other siblings who just act as if they don't have a living parent.I can't get them to do a single thing for my for our mom everything has a price on it they won't go to the store without getting paid for it. My youn... (111 words)

How can the spark be returned to our relationship? What needs to change or improve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3676 days ago

28 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, we've been together for 5 years and we lose that spark we had before. We almost argues and fight all the time and we broke up 3 months before and now getting back together again. But things has changed and so do our feelings. He said he doesn't know what he expect from ... (581 words)

Since my parents divorced my mother has changed. Why does she continue to reject me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

28 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My parents are divorced. It was a messy, painful battle, and my mother is the one who initiated it. Since then, she has moved away and changed into a completely different person. Her social life is so busy she no longer has time for me. And when she does, she is checking her ... (191 words)

Should I go along to the Doctor with my fiance when she visits the Doctor to talk about contraception?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

28 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I am engaged to get married next year in june. It is about my fiance going to be using birth control. She plans to go see the doctor and get all that figured out. But when would be a good time to go to the doctor and should i go along with her? Or should i just... (64 words)