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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What should I do? I have feelings for her. But was I just a "one off" for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3724 days ago

11 October 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My friend used to go out with a girl called 'C'. I always got on really well with her, basically they just weren't getting on and my friend ended up getting with someone else. 'C' was really upset and I made sure that I was there for her. Anyway, she eventually got o... (156 words)

Is my cousin interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3722 days ago

11 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - My cousin visited from Norway and we were not good friends but on this visit she became friends with my and me also and I noticed her looking at me more than once and gave me smile when I eyes met and one night we were out sat behind me in car and started playing with her hairs ... (82 words)

Should I ask my G/f about why she had her phone set to private?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

11 October 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I probably shouldn't read too much into this but me and my girlfriend took a short break. We didn't see eachother, call or txt for 5 days. I dropped of a card and candy on her doorstep and she txted me back with appreciation and telling me she missed me and how things were ... (144 words)

Should I have called him out on what I was told was a lie? Or should I let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3724 days ago

11 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I like this guy. He's a lot older then me we never talk face to face. He's a bus driver i see ever day why he goes by and when we talk on the phone he tells me he's married and has kids. But then i find out he's not married, nor does he have any kids. So i called him t... (181 words)

It's taken me four years, a nearly broken engagement, and me making out with another guy to realize that I want to give my fiance his ultimate fantasy: two girls giving him a blow job at the same time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

11 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - First, a little background that could help with any advice givings. I ask that no one judges my actions as I already know that I screwed up and believe me, I am working hard to better everything again. My fiance has only ever been with one woman (me) and I have had two other ... (1208 words)

Seven years?? Am I wasting my time waiting for my married lover to leave his wife and children?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3723 days ago

11 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have left my husband but I have been involved with a married man for 7 years.I said I wanted a proper relationship but he said he can't leave his kids who are 15 and 17. We haven't really talked about our future it's like he lives for today yet he has said he loves me but not ... (82 words)

I don't want him to give up his dream but I just found out I'm pregnant! How do I break the news?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3724 days ago

11 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Ok I'm 30 years old and my OH is 32. We both are currently living separately at our parents houses while we save up to buy a house ourselves. Unfortunately.. New mortgage regulationss have just come in and now we have to up twice what we thought. My boyfrien... (170 words)

Why does my husband continue to destroy me like this? What do I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3721 days ago

11 October 2014 (F)

age - Please please help me, im so hurt, demoralised and depressed, i really am breaking down. Ok, so, we've hardly spoken for 4 weeks now. I only speak in reply to him when i am spoken to, that way, he cant accuse me of prying or accusing him!! After 20 years together and 18 years... (744 words)

After 6 years how can I get him to step up to the plate and go for the next step in our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3724 days ago

11 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 years, we are 22 and 21 respectively. I just graduated college during which we had a long distance relationship, and I was sort of expecting our relationship to start moving forward after graduation, but it hasn't gone anywhere... (299 words)

What can I do to fix this relationship? I think he loves me, but sometimes I doubt that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3724 days ago

11 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. He's sweet and treats me like a princess. I'm his priority in his life. We've both been through so many things together he's going to proposed and marry me next year. Problem is, I rejected his proposal and told hi... (525 words)

Why would he want to be around me if he's going to act stressed in my presence ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3719 days ago

11 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm seeing a guy and he seems to be stressed out when he's in my presence. I hang out with him at his request. He doesn't seem stressed while talking the moments before we see each other. I ask him if everything is ok, he says he's enjoying my company. He may have other... (127 words)

Why does he always say such horrible things to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3724 days ago

11 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does he always say such horrible things to me:( So my bf hasn't been working for 9months now and I've been supporting him with money for food. I don't think he's trying hard enough to finding a job but says we should get married. and I said I want a nice ring and a... (250 words)