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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I stand up to this? she won't ever do anything I want to do, but expects me to follow her plans

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

5 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I really need help with my girlfriend. We're been together a long time, met at uni about 7 years ago. We live together and have recently moved into a new house. I've suddenly had a realisation that she's super selfish... I think... Essentially, she won't ever do an... (721 words)

Would like to find some genuine age-gap dating sites but don't want any scam sites. How do I attract women 10-15 years younger than myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

5 October 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am a 35 year old male who lives in the UK. I prefer younger women aged between 20 and 30 and would like some suggestions for genuine age gap dating sites. Before anyone asks: no, I am not looking for a notch on my bedpost or 'arm candy'; I just naturally... (157 words)

Am I being too persnickety? Should I see this man again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - With a track record of attracting and dating emotionally unavailable men, I've been working on trying to be more open and emotionally available myself, and dating more men, basically accepting most dates from men who ask online. I've been on two dates with a man who is, on p... (657 words)

He's a childhood friend. Yet due to his Gf's request he is now snubbing me. How do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this might seem trivial, but this has been bugging me. A childhood friend of mine has just randomly started ignoring me. We were such good friends in high school, and although we fancied each other for years nothing actually happened because we didn't want to jeop... (184 words)

How do I let go? He does not care, yet I want closure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3729 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been broken up with my boyfriend of 9 months for about 3 months now. For the first 2 months, we went back and forth with whether we could fix our problems and get back together. For example, he got upset with me that I didn't tell a male coworker that I had a boyfrien... (574 words)

If I have a healthy libido then why does my husband need to masturbate?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3726 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have discovered that my husband has started masturbating and lying about it. I feel puzzled because I have a healthy libido and he knows it. Why would he do this? Is this a sign of trouble ahead? We have been married for two years. ... (47 words)

Does there come a point when you think there is more bad than good in a marriage? Can things actually turn around when one person is adamant that he is always right and blameless?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Aunts and Uncles, I guess I am scratching my head with my situation and really could do with some objective input. I'm married to a guy who is 13 years my senior. We have been together for 10 years and are complete opposites. When things are great, they are great... (395 words)

Have I ruined things for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - What do I make of this? I've been with my partner for 5 years we had a son together. He had to move for work and things got rocky with the distance and he eventually told me he had met someone and had been seeing her for a few months without telling me as he wanted to see wher... (127 words)

I feel unsupported by life, but I don't know how to solve this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid. I'm upset and feel unsupported by life and intuition is saying that I'm subconsciously running behavior patterns that keep eliciting the same responses in others but I can't see where I'm going wrong. Please will someone offer some guidance. ... (48 words)

How do I stop crushing on my boss and acting like such a schoolgirl around him? And how do I stop having so many sexual thoughts about him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, how do I stop crushing on my boss? Every time I am around him, he says funny things and I feel like a giggly schoolgirl! I have sexial dreams about him often and can't wait for the weekend to end so that I can be around him again. Although having a crush can be nice, I ... (291 words)

I want to settle down and have children, but I find sex repulsive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone........I know this may sound weird but I find the thought of having sex repulsive.I am not a Virgin. The last time I had sex was over a year ago and it was horrible. only did it so I could try and get back together with my horrible ex boyfriend. I had my first se... (351 words)

Married 7 years and cannot conceive. Have some to dread lovemaking. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - hi agony aunt, I've been married for 7 years and yet to conceive. I use to have a very high sexual libido but not any more. I now dread my husband's touch and talk of love making ,its affecting my marriage. what do i do?... (50 words)

I thought he liked me! What happened?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - A co-worker and I really hit it off when we met. He kept calling me pretty and beautiful, he kept telling me the dates me wanted to take me on, he said I was an amazing girl and he couldn't get over how I could be single. He would call me and we talk for hours. We talked about ... (208 words)

Should I wait, or should I have some one night stands?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, this is a slightly embarrassing question and I know there's no one correct answer. I just want some opinions/advice/comments from those who have been in a similar situation. I'm female, nineteen, in my second year of university, and am basically sexually frustrated. Sinc... (544 words)

I love my partner's kids, but it breaks my heart to watch them walking on eggshells so they don't upset their mummy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Basically I am due to be getting married next year to my wonderful partner of 3 years. He has 2 kids from a previous relationship (we met 2 years after the break up) and we are all close. I love his children to bits. When he proposed, immediately my soon to be step daugh... (314 words)

My Husband sent a text to another girl in the middle of the night ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a very simple question. Should I be worried? I got off work today to find a fb message from a girl my husband used to be friends with. It had a picture of a iPhone convo and her message to me read "this is not the first time your husband has implied a booty call to me... (252 words)

He says I am not his girlfriend, but that he loves me, I am so confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I met this guy back in June ( he was a friend of a very good friend of mine) and we seemed to really hit it off. Well we got caught up in the moment and we had THE BEST SEX. And afterwards we chilled and talked til early in the morning. He got my number, blah, blah, ... (431 words)

He's 17 and he said he would wait, if I did, or we could sneak it? What should we do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3717 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Well, I'm 13 and My best friend has a brother named Jack. Jack is turning 17, and i started seeing him more often and began to realize i had strong feelings for him. I told him I liked him. That night i slept in his room with him we didn't have sex but we made out and sta... (207 words)

He's 5 years younger. Do I make the first move? Because I can't tell if he likes me too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

5 October 2014 (F) age 36-40 - I have a crush on a guy I work with. We work together only once or twice a week. He's quiet. He rarely talks to anyone. We didn't even introduce ourselves the first day we met. The next 2 times we met at work, he winked at me to say hi. I talked to one of my co-workers about... (186 words)

I can't tell if he's a gentlemen or if he's just not that into me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3731 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy while he was on holidays with his friends where I live. We spent about a week together and we eventually slept together. I have plans to travel near where he is in three weeks and he suggested I stopped by where he is living so I made plans to go for ten days. A... (433 words)

My alcoholic ex boyfriend died 10 months ago and I still feel empty inside

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3730 days ago

5 October 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So fed up with life. My ex alcoholic bf who I spent a crazy 6 years with died 10 months ago. Time does heal but only because it has to. I have a job I do what I gotta do but I am empty. I feel like a nothing. I have a great family but they don't get all the BS that comes ... (146 words)