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Archived questions from: 13 October, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She says she's fallen out of love with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

13 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a 29 male. I have a love problem. Me and my partner have got two kids together and she sed she has fallen out of love with me and need to find herself because she know she loves me but I'm head over heels in love with her. Now they is a bloke in the mix I have confronted ... (117 words)

Do I Tell my boyfriend he might not be the dad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

13 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so ive been with my boyfriend for about 18 months now. I love him so much, he treats me like im the only girl in the world and doesnt care that i have a baby from a past relationship, he loves my little boy just as much as me. But 8 months back i cheated on him. I felt so ... (284 words)

My partner looks at other women whenever we go out. It makes me feel insecure. How do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

13 October 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I'm a fourth eight year old woman with two marriages behind me. I am currently living with a man who's six years younger who has also came out of a marriage 5years ago but through his years being single or married he watched a lot of hard-core porn. I didn't discover ... (110 words)

My husband says he's cool with me having relations with other women. How have others handled a similar situation as this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

13 October 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 5 years. We have had many ups and downs but despite these we are still together and communicate with one another very openly and honestly. Lately things have been a bit rubbish and he hasn't been very attracted to me and vice versa. ... (347 words)

My ex keeps on telling me how unhappy he is, yet he does nothing about it. How can I motivate him to do something about his unhappiness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

13 October 2014 (F)

age - I've been seeing my ex for about a year now. He is married after our breakup. Long story. Anyway he tells me how unhappy he is but still does nothing about it. I've asked him to fix things around my house but always has excuses. He did watch my pet when I went on vacation... (82 words)

Family secrets: The only two who were not told about the cheating? Myself and my son. How do I deal with their toxic actions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

13 October 2014 (F)

age - My husband had an affair with his sister in law. His older brother was 20 years older than her, they married because she was pregnant. He had another younger girl pregnant, but chose to marry ''C''. He never had contact with that child from the other young girl,he and ''C'' th... (1596 words)

Is this really a ''Guy thing,'' as my fiance implies? His remarks upset me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

13 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My question is for guys. When you're in a serious relationship do you look at girls and think in your head if you could get with them, or not, if you were single? My fiance and I have a baby together and we went out to lunch near his work and he said something like, ''There'... (117 words)

How can I introduce the idea to my wife, that I'd like to try a threesome, but with an extra guy, not an extra girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

13 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My wife wants to have a threesome with another woman, she said it really turns her on just thinking about it, but I want to have a threesome involving another guy. I don't know how to bring it up. I'm really wanting to make it happen but I don't know how she would react. W... (79 words)

Was it the drink or is he really a snob?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

13 October 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a bit confused by some actions of my boyfriend, we were visiting his family on the weekend, we all had a nice dinner a few drinks, and then went upto bed. We were having chit chat before sleep, and he said something like all Londoners are 'east end' people, 'pikeys'... (650 words)

What can I do? She is my very loyal LDR Gf. If I tell her how often I cheated she may breakup with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

13 October 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, in 2009 i was visiting my friend in another town so i met and she is a neigbour of my friend ,she gave me her numbers when i went home the same day i called her we talked suddenly the following day her phone was not working,so i thought like she was playing with me then i ... (442 words)

Torn between my ex husband and the other guy. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

13 October 2014 (F) age 41-50 - I am torn between my ex husband and my new guy. Here is the story, My life overal was not too bad but I have been unhappy from some issues which my ex wouldn't do anything about it. The main issue was him being over passive and his family over involve in our life , all are ... (377 words)

Should I confront her about what was going on or wait for her to talk about it first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

13 October 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - At the beginning of summer I talked to a friend of mine a lot and we started flirting. I couldn't really tell if it was that kind of joke flirting friends do with each other, but it was very real for me, and when I showed my best friend some of the messages she said it seemed ... (531 words)